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Loving Boyfriend Loving Boyfriend
My girlfriend doesn't like to have the big O with oral but prefers to finish off with sex. I love to make her go all the way by eating her out, but am in the same boat when it's my turn as I will also usually opt for sex. What do you think? Should oral be the opener, the finish, or the main event?
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jay28, wrecklesswords, Tagmstr, RavenWolf88, Hallmar82, Howells, ijako9, froggiemoma, padmeamidala, Glamour Nana, ily
4  (15%)
Loving Boyfriend, LAndJ, geliebt, Midway through
12  (44%)
eeep, PeppermintFuntimes, (k)InkyIvy, OhMy!, prttynink, SexyStuff, Doah, Gracie, LennaKieran, SugarAndSpice, Pi, ddd masturbator
Total votes: 27
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12/29/2011
eeep eeep
Honestly, oral is good at any point, but for the main event I need penetration (whether anal or vaginal). Though I don't feel the need to wait to get off until sex, multiples are a great thing.
12/29/2011
CreamySweet CreamySweet
Quote:
Originally posted by Loving Boyfriend
My girlfriend doesn't like to have the big O with oral but prefers to finish off with sex. I love to make her go all the way by eating her out, but am in the same boat when it's my turn as I will also usually opt for sex. What do you think? Should ... More
I can go either way. I really enjoy getting my pussy eaten and can cum that way every single time. I also love intercourse driven orgasm or switching between.
12/29/2011
wrecklesswords wrecklesswords
It's kind of a mixture of both with my girlfriend and I. I love it when she goes down on me and makes me cum with it, and she loves it too. But sometimes, if she's really horny, she'll stop me and ask me to finish her off by fucking her. Which I love doing just as much. And sometimes I'll do the same thing. It really just depends on the mood.
12/29/2011
Hallmar82 Hallmar82
I love doing both, but I always like variety.
12/29/2011
MrWishyWashy MrWishyWashy
I just like to go with the flow, no particular order or preference for me!
12/29/2011
LAndJ LAndJ
We nearly always start with oral unless just looking for something quick. Occasionally, just oral for each of us and we decide to go to sleep.
12/29/2011
SexyStuff SexyStuff
We're the same! It'll be a starter, generally.
12/30/2011
geliebt geliebt
I love oral whenever, but it tends to be a lead in for sex to me. Boy do I wish I could orgasm from ANY sexual contact at all though Jealous!!
12/30/2011
ijako9 ijako9
I like I change it up sometimes just oral can be fun but it usually is meant to lead to sex
12/30/2011
Doah Doah
mid-foreplay? I usually eat out my girlfriend and then she does me, or vice versa, but it's usually always before sex. very rarely do we have oral afterwards usually because the smell and taste of latex...well sucks! I don't mind it, but she does so yeah~
Jan 2, 6:37 am
Midway through Midway through
I would be bothered by it midway into sex. I would prefer if it happened at all, to be before. An opener, definitely.
Jan 2, 6:40 am
Loving Boyfriend Loving Boyfriend
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Originally posted by Doah
mid-foreplay? I usually eat out my girlfriend and then she does me, or vice versa, but it's usually always before sex. very rarely do we have oral afterwards usually because the smell and taste of latex...well sucks! I don't mind it, but she does so ... More
Yeah, the latex taste sucks. Even flavored condoms are no good and they usually aren't for internal use. We don't use condoms any more thanks to bcp but if we did there would not be oral at the midpoint.
Jan 2, 5:13 pm
Rossie Rossie
I like to have oral as an opener, and get my orgasm with PIV sex. My husband on the other hand, likes to make me come during oral, than again when he's inside me.
Jan 2, 7:57 pm
Total posts: 14
Unique posters: 13