Where do you get your advice?

Most of mine has come from communication with the wife. I always ask her, what feels good, faster slower, there or there... The thing I found is that everybody is different, what works for me will not necessarily work for the person.

I might try something that I hear now and again but I think that communication with your partner works the best.

i learned as i went

LOL, I learned a LOT from my mom. Beyond that, it's definitely a communication-with-hus band area.

I read Cosmo so long ago I forgot their advice so I don't think that I got much from there, otherwise creativity and watching reactions is where my skills came from, and apparently they are pretty awesome skills.

I get a lot of oral advice from Eden Fantasys, actually.

I've always been a voracious reader. Started out with a little paperback book on technique that belonged to my mother! Then it was Playboy, Penthouse - the letters were very instructive - with many interesting new ideas.

In college I started reading womens mags like Cosmo to get the other side of the story.

In recent times you can Google anything you want - so I've learned a lot that way. I have listened to a fair number of pod-casts by Sherry Winston and Jayia.

Finally I absolutely learn a ton from the great contributors on EF - there are a lot of very smart and experienced people @ EF who provide valuable insights.

Great question - thanks

The Bible.