(Men) Do you have to pull out after orgasm?

captainsgirl captainsgirl
Im curious: My hubby has to pull out no longer than like 2 minutes after orgasm. Is anyone else like this?
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
yes pull out soon
Lildrummrgurl7 , mlmac , Lurr , Fluke , Boosty
5  (21%)
no
leanright69 , stlouisxxx
2  (8%)
i can stay in
married with children , gretsch1963 , gehuwd , Creepellah , MrWill , dv8 , MattBryant , Rokmai
8  (33%)
other
PropertyOfPotter , *Camoprincess* , TJtheMadHatter , Martiniman , Fun Lover , Checkmate , Teaser , KrissyNovacaine , XxFallenAngelxX
9  (38%)
Total votes: 24
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04/05/2013
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Lildrummrgurl7 Lildrummrgurl7
My partner pulls out soon afterwards.
04/05/2013
married with children married with children
I like to fall asleep while still inside her. She does not enjoy it as much because it will leave a messy wet spot on the sheets.
04/05/2013
libbyv libbyv
hubby always pulls out to finish. we don't want the added chance of pregnancy
04/05/2013
PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
He couldn't stay in if he wanted to. He's a grower, not a show-er! We usually stay close until his erection is gone and then we clean up, curl up, and go to sleep.
04/05/2013
*Camoprincess* *Camoprincess*
My partner maintains his erection even after orgasm so we stay connected til one or the other decides that we are ready to disconnect and lay down.
04/05/2013
ShadowedSeductress ShadowedSeductress
Quote:
Originally posted by PropertyOfPotter
He couldn't stay in if he wanted to. He's a grower, not a show-er! We usually stay close until his erection is gone and then we clean up, curl up, and go to sleep.
My partner is a grower too! We're pretty stupid with our birth control and he just pulls out anyway. Obviously I watch my cycle and we're careful around the right times.

When he's wearing a condom, or I have a sponge in, he stays in for a little bit. It takes him a while to lose his erection after an orgasm so that's why I like to keep him in a little longer.
04/05/2013
mlmac mlmac
Once I cum or orgasm, I usually pull out and then we kiss, hug and say how much we love each other, but it won't be long before we are both ready to hit the shower. Who knows where it might go from there.
04/05/2013
gretsch1963 gretsch1963
Staying in doesn't much bother me so long as it isn't a super long time. We certainly couldn't sleep that way, but we like to enjoy the feeling for a bit afterwards.
04/05/2013
solitudinarian solitudinarian
My boyfriend stays in for a little while afterwards. No one else I've had sex with has ever done it, but I like it a lot
04/05/2013
eri86 eri86
Quote:
Originally posted by PropertyOfPotter
He couldn't stay in if he wanted to. He's a grower, not a show-er! We usually stay close until his erection is gone and then we clean up, curl up, and go to sleep.
Grower, not a show-er?
04/06/2013
TJtheMadHatter TJtheMadHatter
My husband would pull out immediately afterwards, when we first got together. I like it when he stays in, so over the years, he's grown to like it. Now he stays in for about 2 mins. There are times where he wants to clean up immediately though.
04/06/2013
Martiniman Martiniman
I chose other because I do both. Sometimes I'll pull out of my wife immediately after having an orgasms, but other times I'll keep right on stroking in and out of her for several minutes. A lot of the time her orgasm is the deciding factor. If she's close but hasn't orgasmed yet when I've orgasmed, I'll stay inside of her and continue until she has her orgasm.
04/06/2013
Fun Lover Fun Lover
I stay in for as long as my wife wants or until it falls out!
04/06/2013
Checkmate Checkmate
I stay in as long as possible. Unfortunately it is not a matter of pulling out, but rather falling out.
04/06/2013
Teaser Teaser
Quote:
Originally posted by PropertyOfPotter
He couldn't stay in if he wanted to. He's a grower, not a show-er! We usually stay close until his erection is gone and then we clean up, curl up, and go to sleep.
I understand this completely as I too, am a grower. We finish the same way, clean up, snuggle up, snooze.
04/06/2013
Teaser Teaser
Quote:
Originally posted by eri86
Grower, not a show-er?
Some men are rather big when they are flaccid. When they get an erection, the penis only gains maybe an inch or two, and doesn't get a lot bigger around. They are maybe only 20% or less bigger with an erection than without. Other men have a small flaccid penis, and when they get an erection, they might gain 200%, 300% or more over their flaccid state. The first group are "showers" (because they show a lot in speedos), and the second group are the "growers" (and don't ware speedos, unless there is a vegetable in there with it!)
04/06/2013
PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
Quote:
Originally posted by eri86
Grower, not a show-er?
A show-er is someone that has a large penis when flaccid and it doesn't gain a lot of length when it becomes erect. A grower is someone that has a small penis when flaccid, but gains a substantial amount of length when erect.

My husband isn't much at all to look at when flaccid, but when he becomes erect, it's a HUGE difference!
04/06/2013
PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
Quote:
Originally posted by Teaser
Some men are rather big when they are flaccid. When they get an erection, the penis only gains maybe an inch or two, and doesn't get a lot bigger around. They are maybe only 20% or less bigger with an erection than without. Other men have a small ... More
Didn't see this, thank you! You explained it better than I did!
04/06/2013
leanright69 leanright69
I tend to pull out, then put back in, then pull out then put back in, then pull out, etc., etc. until she is satisfied. Quiting is not an option! Take one for the team. "Go team fun."
04/06/2013
captainsgirl captainsgirl
Quote:
Originally posted by Fun Lover
I stay in for as long as my wife wants or until it falls out!
woohoo
04/06/2013
captainsgirl captainsgirl
Quote:
Originally posted by leanright69
I tend to pull out, then put back in, then pull out then put back in, then pull out, etc., etc. until she is satisfied. Quiting is not an option! Take one for the team. "Go team fun."
04/06/2013
stlouisxxx stlouisxxx
I'm a grower, but maintain a 3/4 erection after orgasm. I like to linger around to see if I can get her aroused for a 2nd round. Works sometimes, most times I pull out when she feels it dripping out.
04/06/2013
XxFallenAngelxX XxFallenAngelxX
My guy is definitely a GROWER! lol
04/06/2013
Fluke Fluke
Yeah, about a minute or two after orgasm then I start to go soft so I go and clean up. Pretty sure that's fairly standard.
04/07/2013
Teaser Teaser
Quote:
Originally posted by PropertyOfPotter
Didn't see this, thank you! You explained it better than I did!
Your welcome. I don't know that I explained it better, just different.

I DID like the statement that "...when he becomes erect, it's a HUGE difference!"

I would have said that, (I'm a grower) but I don't like to brag!
04/07/2013
MattBryant MattBryant
Quote:
Originally posted by captainsgirl
Im curious: My hubby has to pull out no longer than like 2 minutes after orgasm. Is anyone else like this?
is it because of sensetivity or just position? if the girls ontop im sure it can be uncomfortable with hips open so long.. and when i'm on top my hands are sore from holding myself up.
04/19/2013
namelesschaos namelesschaos
Orgasm no, ejaculation typical yes.
04/20/2013
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Unique posters: 22