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I'm a 37 year old female virgin. I never had a boyfriend, went on a date, or had my first kiss. I want to lose my virginity before I'm 40. I don't want to be known as the female 40 year old virgin. How do I go about doing this? Any help
I'm a 37 year old female virgin. I never had a boyfriend, went on a date, or had my first kiss. I want to lose my virginity before I'm 40. I don't want to be known as the female 40 year old virgin. How do I go about doing this? Any help would be greatly appreciated. Thanks.
Are you being for real, or is this a "hypothetical" never been on a date, never been kissed? At 37? It would seem, seriously, if you have gone this far, "without", that has been more a choice you have made, then anything by pure chance. Looks, personality, physical deformities...nothing you can name, has stopped people from finding "someone", at "some point". Very few things would explain your situation, if real, except a deliberate avoidance of relationships. Have you spoken to a councilor about this? Even a minister or some clergy? That might be a perfect place to meet a "guy" too, a religious social event. Beyond that, you could go to a real (not online, in your "new to the game" state) dating service (something local only), where one of their staff might personally help set up a few dates for you with well screened guys. Finally, do you have any friends that could simply set you up for a CASUAL date with some single friends or family members, to "break the ice"? Best wishes if this is true.
If it is, by the way, true, you should NOT be worried about "getting laid" before you are 40. I would suggest you focus on having a solid friendship and maybe moving onto a solid date/relationship as a goal. It would be far healthier and less heartbreaking.