A cause for celebration

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A cause for celebration

Jenn (aka kissmykitty) Jenn (aka kissmykitty)
So I've been hopped up on excitement for the past two days, and if I don't get it out somewhere, I'm going to explode. And since it relates directly to sex, what better place to shout from the virtual rooftops than here?

To make a long story short, I had gastric bypass surgery in November. I'm currently 109 lbs. lighter than I was this time a year ago. I have been overweight since I was 10 or 11, and was in the 250 lbs. range when I met my husband in 2000. My highest weight was 331 lbs. -- last April. Needless to say, my weight definitely affected our sex life. It didn't affect how much we had sex or how much we enjoyed it, but it definitely affected how I felt during and after, and it caused some... issues... with various positions.

(I swear I'm going somewhere with this)

Anyway, over the weekend my husband and I -- who I have been with for almost TEN YEARS and with whom I have two children -- had sex in the reverse cowgirl position. For the first time EVER. It wasn't just do-able, it was comfortable. And fun! VERY fun. Amazingly fun. Did I mention how fun it was?

I'm just so happy... I feel so NORMAL. I have a ways to go -- anyone who can do math can figure out that I'm still over 200 lbs. -- but I've come SO far, and the fact that we can FINALLY do just about any sex position we can dream up makes me so, so, SO happy!
03/23/2010
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Originally posted by Jenn (aka kissmykitty)
So I've been hopped up on excitement for the past two days, and if I don't get it out somewhere, I'm going to explode. And since it relates directly to sex, what better place to shout from the virtual rooftops than here?

To make a ...
Aww, that's a really great story. I'm so happy for you! I think a lot of people have some issues with certain positions and it feels awesome to be able to overcome our obstacles. Thanks for sharing with us, and I hope you continue enjoying each other and exploring ^_^
03/23/2010
Carrie Ann Carrie Ann
That's so awesome, Jenn!

It's amazing when you really start to see results in so many different ways, isn't it?

Congrats, woman!
03/23/2010
SexyTigerX SexyTigerX
That is so very awesome!!!! I'm very happy for you. I certainly know what it's like.

Keep going, you can do it! We'll all cheer you on!
03/23/2010
Victoria Victoria
I think it's great that you are sharing here. People often don't think about differently-abled sex unless they have experienced it. Mobility and flexibility make a big difference. As well as comfort. I am happy to hear that you are finding such pleasure in the changes with your body.
03/23/2010
Miss Cinnamon Miss Cinnamon
That's so awesome! Congrats, Jenn!
03/23/2010
NuMe NuMe
Congratulations!!! That is really awesome!

I know what it's like to want to share your accomplishments with others. When I was dieting I would call people constantly to tell them all about how well I was doing. I think it really helps fuel the ongoing work needed to get to the finish line. Which you will!!!
03/23/2010
LicentiouslyYours LicentiouslyYours
Congrats!

And thanks for sharing, Victoria is so right that so many people do not realize how carrying excess weight can affect the quality of your sex life by preventing you from doing things you would like to.
03/23/2010
Sir Sir
That is such a great thing to hear. Congratulations, Jenn! And good for you!
03/23/2010
LikeSunshineDust LikeSunshineDust
Congratulations!! As a health care professional, it so warms my heart to see people take the initiative to take care of their bodies. Keep up the amazing work, Jenn. We're all so happy for you!
03/23/2010
Gary Gary
Congratulations!
03/23/2010
Sammi Sammi
Wow, that's great! Congratulations!
03/23/2010
Liz2 Liz2
Awesome!! I am so happy for you both. Thanks for sharing.
03/24/2010
El-Jaro El-Jaro
Congrats!

The best thing: Keep up the good work and it'll get BETTER!
03/24/2010
MuffysPinguLove MuffysPinguLove
Congrats
03/24/2010
Jul!a Jul!a
Congratulations
04/01/2010
Kynky Kytty Kynky Kytty
Quote:
Originally posted by Jenn (aka kissmykitty)
So I've been hopped up on excitement for the past two days, and if I don't get it out somewhere, I'm going to explode. And since it relates directly to sex, what better place to shout from the virtual rooftops than here?

To make a ...
This is a great news. I'm really happy that you can enjoy sex even more. It'll only get better!

Keep up the good work!
04/01/2010
Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
That is WONDERFUL! You have a whole world of fun opening up for you now! Enjoy it to the fullest. GOGOGO!
04/02/2010
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