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Contributor: BriannaNoop BriannaNoop
Needless to say I'm excited, but have questions:

For those of you who have done this:

1. What kind of birth control are you on?
2. How young were you the first time a guy came inside you? age now?
3. When was the last time?
4. How many guys came inside you without a condom?
5. Were they all longstanding boyfriends?
6. How do you deal with car sex or a quickie if he finished in you?
7. Has he gone down on you afterwards?
8. Can you actually feel it?
9. How long does it leak out for?
08/11/2011
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Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
For me, I am on the pill. I think I was 21 or so, I'm 23 now. The last time was a year or so ago. My husband is the only man to come inside of me without a condom, and it was before we were married. How we deal with it is I'll get a napkin or something to put in my underwear to try and catch everything as it comes back out. I could feel it, it was really neat to be able to really feel him pulsing inside of me. The time frame depends really. Some women have said it doesn't take very long, some say it lasts for hours. For me personally, it lasted about half an hour if I wasn't trying to push it out. Otherwise I could get everything out in a few minutes and get on with whatever else we were doing.
08/11/2011
Contributor: Coralbell Coralbell
I'm on the pill. I was 20 the first time, I'm 21 now. The last time was June I believe. We're back to using condoms now because of a medication I'm on. There have been 2 guys, both had not had any sexual partners other than me so I wasn't worried about STI's. One was a close friend (we dated for a while, realized we were better as friends, but continued our sexual relationship for a few months afterward) and the other is my current boyfriend who I have been with for 7 months. For me, it feels the same when he cums whether he's wearing a condom or not, except that obviously it feels a lot wetter after without. He hasn't gone down on me afterwards, but we don't usually do that when we do use a condom either. It usually comes out right away, or when I stand up. I use a kleenex or wipe to clean up. Sometimes a little bit comes out later and will show up on my panties.
08/11/2011
Contributor: TitsMcScandal TitsMcScandal
1. What kind of birth control are you on? Currently- none. But I was on the pill (Loestrin) before my current relationship for about 5 years.
2. How young were you the first time a guy came inside you? age now? First time- 14. Now- 20.
3. When was the last time? A few hours ago.
4. How many guys came inside you without a condom? 4.
5. Were they all longstanding boyfriends? No. 3 were.
6. How do you deal with car sex or a quickie if he finished in you? Just go about my business. I usually don't care about seepage. Heh, seepage...
7. Has he gone down on you afterwards? One boyfriend has (the first one)
8. Can you actually feel it? Yes. I really really love the feeling too.
9. How long does it leak out for? Depends on what I'm doing. If we do it right before bed I still feel it in the morning. If I'm active and doing stuff, it can be as little as twenty minutes or so.
08/11/2011
Contributor: aliceinthehole aliceinthehole
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Originally posted by BriannaNoop
Needless to say I'm excited, but have questions:

For those of you who have done this:

1. What kind of birth control are you on?
2. How young were you the first time a guy came inside you? age now?
3. When was ... more
hmmm...
i'm not on birth control. breast cancer history in the family says its a no no. and im horrible at remembering to take pills.
my case may not be one to mold anyone else's after. i may very well be infertile, as my risky behavior has gotten many girls i know pregnant. and i'm still nulliparous.

we use coitus interruptus and the rhythm method... but not how we should. basically he can come in me when i'm on my period, or right before or right after. otherwise, naw.

the first time a guy came inside me? i was probably 23. i'm now 25. only two have ever done it, and yes they were both longstanding boyfriends.


we dont do car sex, and quickies are followed by trips to the bathroom. guess we're kind of old and boring, but the actual sex is stellar.

he would never go down on me after coming in me, i dont think.

no, i cant really feel the liquid pumping, but if i concentrate and contract my kegels i can feel his muscle spasms as he comes. many times though i have no idea he's come.

it would probably leak for ... i dont know. an hour or so if i let it go on its own. i'd probably need a maxipad if i didnt go to the bathroom and just push and let it drip out after. i do that. and then i'm pretty much good. i dont really feel it dripping out of me for long after.


be sure you're prepared to have a kid. cause it could happen. or are you wanting that to happen?
08/11/2011
Contributor: sexyintexas sexyintexas
1. What kind of birth control are you on? I had a tubal ligation after my last child so I'm not on bc.

2. How young were you the first time a guy came inside you? age now? 16 and I am 42 now.

3. When was the last time? Sunday

4. How many guys came inside you without a condom? A lot lol. I was on the pill but got pregnant twice on it.

5. Were they all longstanding boyfriends? Without a condom yes

6. How do you deal with car sex or a quickie if he finished in you? Dont have sex in cars anymore, clean up in the bathroom.

7. Has he gone down on you afterwards? He hasn't but others have

8. Can you actually feel it? Yes and love it

9. How long does it leak out for? Like the others, If I use my muscles and push it out, not for long. If not maybe 30 minutes
08/11/2011
Contributor: BriannaNoop BriannaNoop
Tomorrow I'm gonna surprise him by wearing a skirt, going commando and just climbing on top of him.
Its probably going to be in his car, so I obviously can't shower right away. Will this be ok, or should I really wear panties to keep the "fall out" manageable?
If I have to wear anything, I'd rather just wear a tiny g that he can slide out of the way so I don't have to strip down. Is this enough?
08/12/2011
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
Quote:
Originally posted by BriannaNoop
Tomorrow I'm gonna surprise him by wearing a skirt, going commando and just climbing on top of him.
Its probably going to be in his car, so I obviously can't shower right away. Will this be ok, or should I really wear panties to keep the ... more
It might be. You could also wear the panties, get in the car, and as part of the surprise take them off and then just climb on. If your shoes won't get in the way it shouldn't muck up the flow of things too badly.
08/12/2011
Contributor: BriannaNoop BriannaNoop
Quote:
Originally posted by Jul!a
It might be. You could also wear the panties, get in the car, and as part of the surprise take them off and then just climb on. If your shoes won't get in the way it shouldn't muck up the flow of things too badly.
Well I guess then what you think is worse? Putting the thong back on and wearing it wet or trying to hold everything thats left in?
08/12/2011
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
Quote:
Originally posted by BriannaNoop
Well I guess then what you think is worse? Putting the thong back on and wearing it wet or trying to hold everything thats left in?
For me, it would be trying to hold everything in. It works about as well as it would if you were on your period. If it were the g-string or nothing, I'd personally choose the g-string
08/12/2011
Contributor: BriannaNoop BriannaNoop
Quote:
Originally posted by Jul!a
For me, it would be trying to hold everything in. It works about as well as it would if you were on your period. If it were the g-string or nothing, I'd personally choose the g-string
Thanks for the advice!!!
Does everyone else agree?
08/12/2011
Contributor: Lucidity Lucidity
1. What kind of birth control are you on? I was on the pill for ten years, no I have an IUD
2. How young were you the first time a guy came inside you? age now? I was 17, we were both virgins, never done anything with anyone else. I'm now 25.
3. When was the last time? Last night.
4. How many guys came inside you without a condom? Six?
5. Were they all longstanding boyfriends? Yes. I make my dudes go get tested with me before we have sex, period. Condoms can break and I want to make sure I'm safe. So, I got all my men tested and we were monogamous.
6. How do you deal with car sex or a quickie if he finished in you? I have towels in my car. You can always bring some baby wipes or just go pee in the woods. Stop off somewhere to use a bathroom.
7. Has he gone down on you afterwards? Not until after I've used the restroom and cleaned up.
8. Can you actually feel it? Yes, I really like it.
9. How long does it leak out for? I can hold everything in until I go pee. Then it all comes out. There's not like, a long period of "leakage" or anything. Mostly it all comes out at once.
08/12/2011
Contributor: Starkiller87 Starkiller87
1. What kind of birth control are you on? None now Used to be on the pill.
2. How young were you the first time a guy came inside you? age now? 21. 24
3. When was the last time? Its been awhile since ive been off bc
4. How many guys came inside you without a condom? 1
5. Were they all longstanding boyfriends? yes
6. How do you deal with car sex or a quickie if he finished in you? napkins!
7. Has he gone down on you afterwards? yes
8. Can you actually feel it? kinda
9. How long does it leak out for? usually if I pee right after I never had a problem
08/12/2011
Contributor: sexyintexas sexyintexas
Quote:
Originally posted by BriannaNoop
Thanks for the advice!!!
Does everyone else agree?
Agreed. Maybe carry a wipe with you in your bag so when you get a second you can wipe down.
08/12/2011