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Ash1141 Ash1141
I'm not sure of the specific term for this. My husband loves being pegged. I usually get him warmed up by using my fingers on him first. No matter how low I cut my fingernails, he still says they catch and hurt. How do you guys do this without cutting your significant other? I know some people use gloves but I can't imagine that would feel quite as good.
11/05/2011
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Quote:
Originally posted by Ash1141
I'm not sure of the specific term for this. My husband loves being pegged. I usually get him warmed up by using my fingers on him first. No matter how low I cut my fingernails, he still says they catch and hurt. How do you guys do this without ...
Its always worth a shot though, isnt it. Would you rather have him say it hurts or use gloves and have it maybe not feel as good? I would just try to look for some real good gloves that are thinner that way he can feel more of you.
11/05/2011
Toys in Love Toys in Love
If you cut your nails low - as you say - then it definitely shouldn't hurt him... Do you use a dry finger? Or a little lube or spit? I'm just really baffled, because my girl has nails, and it doesn't hurt. - And I've certainly never been cut.

I guess you could try pulling a condom over your finger, see if he still feels sore.
11/05/2011
ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
I would say take some time and round off the nail as best you can. If that does not work, use a glove. It may feel a bit different but that is better than causing pain. Another option would be to use a small probe/dildo to warm him up.
11/05/2011
Kitka Kitka
I'm kind of OCD about things like whether my nails would hurt someone, etc. during anal play so personally, I'd just use some gloves.
11/05/2011
Handur Handur
Quote:
Originally posted by Ash1141
I'm not sure of the specific term for this. My husband loves being pegged. I usually get him warmed up by using my fingers on him first. No matter how low I cut my fingernails, he still says they catch and hurt. How do you guys do this without ...
Try to begin with your fingertip, you know then your nails won't be involved when you 'enter', and if you're inside and your nails are cutted, he'll be fine. I hope i could help.
11/05/2011
AndroAngel AndroAngel
I always file my nails super-carefully and make absolutely sure I don't have any hang-nails.
11/05/2011
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
I always felt like your husband - that's why I prefer that she use a steel or glass toy. But she thinks the finger is good prep - I don't complain, it's all good.
11/06/2011
GonetoLovehoney GonetoLovehoney
I always use gloves, and loads of lube when fingering my boyfriend. But as for warming him up, try a really thin dildo and work your way up?
11/06/2011
MidnightStorm MidnightStorm
My boyfriend and I had this issue with each other, unfortunately. We're both nail-biters and, being in a long distance relationship, decided that we would cease biting our nails for our time together during the summer. Unfortunately, we found out relatively quickly that having nails hindered us more than helped, and cut them as low as possible.

With that in mind, I obviously wouldn't recommend you take up nail-biting, but if it's something you're willing to sacrifice a bit for, just try to keep them as low as possible. The other thing you might look into is one of the little "finger" add-ons that are meant for women. You might be able to find one with a bit of texture that he'll enjoy that'll feel good while protecting him from your nails.
11/06/2011
indiglo indiglo
I have seen someone on the forums make a great recommendation, but I can't remember who it was. She recommends taking a cotton ball and shoving some of it under your nail, and then the rest up and over your nail. Then put a glove on over that, and you should be good to go. It's a little extra work, but worth it in the long run if it proves less painful. Otherwise, yes, go with a small probe or butt plug instead of your finger. Best wishes!
11/06/2011
hunibee hunibee
You could also try just using more twisting movements, rather than in-out...twist while you pull down. It might help, not sure if he'll dislike it more, but its worth a try!
11/06/2011
LilLostLenore LilLostLenore
they sell finger covers for fingering. its similar to a toy cover.
11/06/2011
Ash1141 Ash1141
Finger covers? I'll have to check that out too
11/08/2011
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