Are you guys happy with your sex life?

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Are you guys happy with your sex life?

BabyL0ve BabyL0ve
I know many people who aren't happy with their sex life, but they love their partners. They won't leave because of their love.
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Yes
44
No
6
I am not, but I still love my partner. I won't leave him/her
12
I am not. I'm going to leave him/her soon
1
Total votes: 63 (61 voters)
Poll is closed
05/24/2011
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CAKES CAKES
Very happy!
05/24/2011
The Curious Couple The Curious Couple
Extremely happy!
05/24/2011
big b big b
happy
05/25/2011
Dusk Dusk
I'm not but a lot of that is because of me and my own lack of desire, not my partner or our chemistry.
05/25/2011
~LaUr3n~ ~LaUr3n~
More than ever!
05/25/2011
ToyGurl ToyGurl
I am happy with my sex life. There are those frustrating nights, but as long as we both give it our all, that's good enough for me.
05/25/2011
padmeamidala padmeamidala
Quote:
Originally posted by BabyL0ve
I know many people who aren't happy with their sex life, but they love their partners. They won't leave because of their love.
I'm very happy with my sex life. I wish there was more sex but really happy when it happens.
05/25/2011
Liz2 Liz2
Very happy...looking back on the three years we have been together, sex just gets better! My guy is convinced that I am a "nympho" but I don't think so...
05/25/2011
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Very pleased - still working on keeping things fresh - but if I look back at where we were 10 years ago, things have improved greatly. After over 20 years we're having more fun than ever.
05/25/2011
Anjulie Anjulie
Happy as can be
05/25/2011
married with children married with children
yes happy. But like anything else in life, it can always be better.
05/25/2011
indiglo indiglo
Very happy here too.
05/26/2011
K101 K101
Absolutely! my partner and I always ask each other if there are things we'd like to change or switch up and neither of us have ever been anything but ecstatic! I guess we got lucky to have found each other and fit perfectly... especially in the bedroom!
05/26/2011
newfoundlust newfoundlust
Quote:
Originally posted by BabyL0ve
I know many people who aren't happy with their sex life, but they love their partners. They won't leave because of their love.
Ours keeps getting better over the past couple of years since we both finally opened up to each other about things.
05/26/2011
butterflygirlxo butterflygirlxo
I'm not but a lot of that is because of me and my own lack of desire
05/26/2011
froggiemoma froggiemoma
for the most part, more would be nice
05/26/2011
IrishLassie IrishLassie
Very happy, with room to grow.
06/19/2011
Miss Nessa Miss Nessa
Very much so.
06/20/2011
bunny love bunny love
Very happy! It keeps getting better, too!
06/20/2011
Ivy Wilde Ivy Wilde
I'm not happy with my sex life, but it is because of myself, not because of him. I am trying to work through a lot of issues, and reading and writing comments on the Eden Forums is actually helping me to work through some of them.
06/20/2011
sarki sarki
Yes so far
06/20/2011
iveversxe iveversxe
For the most part, yes. There are some things that need improvement and many more exciting things to try.
06/21/2011
Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by BabyL0ve
I know many people who aren't happy with their sex life, but they love their partners. They won't leave because of their love.
A healthy sex life IS part of intimate love. If you are in a long standing relationship and something is wrong with the romance, it is like having a great old car, but the headlights don't work. Sure, it may still drive, but it is really NOT optimal and very limited. If that was the case, you would not ignore it, you would fix it. Same with a relationship. If one or both are not happy with the sex life...go find a good counselor and fix it. Don't just settle for a "partly broken" relationship. There is usually something deeper, emotionally or even physically, with a sex life that is not good. Fixing it may make you BOTH happier and MORE "in love", for the effort!!!
06/22/2011
Screen Door Screen Door
Yes because my partner and I have an amazing sex life! And I love him so much.
No because it's long distance so it's copious amounts for the time we're together and then a couple months without. also because I always get so close to an orgasm and it just doesn't happen :c
06/23/2011
indiglo indiglo
Quote:
Originally posted by Bignuf
A healthy sex life IS part of intimate love. If you are in a long standing relationship and something is wrong with the romance, it is like having a great old car, but the headlights don't work. Sure, it may still drive, but it is really NOT ...
Very well said! I totally agree. A wonderful sex life helps make an intimate loving relationship. Takes work, but it's so damn worth it!
06/23/2011
Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
Quote:
Originally posted by BabyL0ve
I know many people who aren't happy with their sex life, but they love their partners. They won't leave because of their love.
I love both my partners and have learned over the 25 years Sigel and I have been together that a relationship goes through numerous phases where you may be deleriously happy and then abjectly miserable. It's normal and to be expected. Being honest with yourself and your partner(s) will help you truly enjoy the good times and weather the hard ones.

I would never stay with someone who couldn't satisfy me sexually because, for me, it would mean that I was with a partner who didn't care enough to try or wasn't being a partner. I know I am always willing to entertain whatever my partners might want to try...I demand the same in return. I might not actually say yes but I am open to listening and kicking around the idea working out a compromise. The thing is it takes partners that are willing to work WITH you. If you don't have then then you truly don't have much regardless of the "other' things you might be holding on to.

Regardless of what platitudes people mouth, sex IS important. If your partner isn't willing to give a little to get a lot on this issue then the rest of the relationship is suspect.
06/23/2011
Istanbull Istanbull
I'm in a sexless marriage(about 4 times a year) but I stay for our children. They need both of us in their lives, especially at their age. If it wasn't for them, I would have left her long ago. She never had much interest in sex and now she has absolutly none. She demonstrates she doesn't like having sex with me and I can say that I don't enjoy having it with her much either these days. On the extremely rare occasion we do have sex, she just lies there and I always have to do all the work. She hates oral or anything else outside of tab-A into slot-B. I know how to make her cum vaginaly and I make it a goal to make her cum as much as I can because if she's going to complain about me to someone, I want that complaint to be "He makes me cum too much." So far my record is 7 times but usually it's 3-4. I have reached a point that I envey those who suffer from impotence and wish I too was so I could stop wanting sex completely, but since I can't, I masturbate a lot. I've been so sexually neglected that I became bi-curious and now I'm full bi... even though I have never been with a man.
06/23/2011
Trillian Trillian
Quote:
Originally posted by Istanbull
I'm in a sexless marriage(about 4 times a year) but I stay for our children. They need both of us in their lives, especially at their age. If it wasn't for them, I would have left her long ago. She never had much interest in sex and now she ...
I can sympathize with you. Went through something simliar about 8 years ago and felt the similiar feelings. Luckily I am no longer in that situation and am very happy. It will get better some day.
06/23/2011
KrazyKandy KrazyKandy
You need a sex life I think in order to be in a healthy relationship
10/12/2011
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