Are you rougher or more sensual?

spicywife spicywife
Most people probably like a balance, but what is the first thought that pops into your head - Do you tend to be more sensual or rougher in your sex play?

I like a balance but I realized that I am more into rough play to some degree. I like to dress up, talk dirty and give my paddle a good work out. But there are times when I just want to be sensual.
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
I lean towards rough play
Rayne Millaray , Carrie Ann , Angel deSanguine , Britni TheVadgeWig , gone77 , Sammi , Sanjay , Saraid , Kaijah , emme37 , hornymommy , Mp4 , Domineight , J's Alley , Kinky Skier , JPito , GNGenie , luvinluv , Naughty Student , sweet sally , Kim! , 00 , Janis , imp , Alura Une , PonyPlay , Red Vinyl Kitty , beautifulpierced , Owl Identified , TheSexista , OhMy! , missmandy27 , ToyingCouple , DeliciousSurprise , timinus , V.T.T , RubenesqueAna , UnknownGirl , The Awesome Penguin , sporker , littlebit8908 , IrishLassie , dhig , Sexymami69 , sasweetheart89 , link82 , Rachel Nunez , MrRainybowbow , KennyMister , Choolz , CuteDee , Virgulino , Epicurean , squire , Miss Morphine , ijako9 , 12345678 , GoneBabyGone , padmeamidala , In Between Soliloquies , Beck , sktb0007 , Nothere , Melissa Smith , Beautiful-Disaster , Rarity , melissa1973 , Miss Delusion , Isola , leanright69 , butts
71  (33%)
I'm a bit more sensual
deceased , MattBryant , Darling Dove , CaptainBunnyKilla , flirt , DONOTSHOPHERETHEOWNERISPSYCHO , Gunsmoke , tnboater , Heather , Elodie , Sensual husband , Kynky Kytty , buzzvibe , SexyySarah , Avant-garde , Darling Jen , Waterfall , sexysweetieshan , Sera , Moein , Kindred , Taylor , SexyStuff , darthkitt3n , lamira , k3 , sixfootsex , Tasty Latina , Ms. Spice , Howells , lilyflower , curious kitten
32  (15%)
I'm in the middle, floating along as happy as can be
Valyn , Fun Lover , Dark Muse , spicywife , VieuxCarre , widget87 , MuffysPinguLove , El-Jaro , Sir , onezestygal , LikeSunshineDust , her.royal.redness , ArmyWife Kira , BlessedRaven , SexyFox3 , Jul!a , ~LaUr3n~ , Brian Fry , fatesrelease , Alicia , Blinker , PassionQT , SexYnCute Couple , sandblastedskin , kck , Cats Meow , Airen Wolf , Lady Venus , BethanyLynn , joja , Midway through , deltalima , Splendwhore , AVDisco , twistedheartsx , Coralbell , Yoda , Pleasure Piratess , Hazel , Fanny , Passionate Pastor , nolongerhere , RadRach , Madeira , zoobamafooba , Emma (Girl With Fire) , leatherlover , DixieDoo , LavenderSkies , Shellz31 , ♥ Amanda ♥ , Selective Sensualist , Beaners , C4ss , sbon , Sohotdinosaur , onehotmomma , REDRUM , moonch1ld , Brandi Rouxxx , SexyTabby , bobowaxer , lnf77 , sexyk515 , MaryExy , Antoinette711 , Britt&Daniel , Mell , wetone123 , mb , Anjulie , Smitty , potstickers , DreamWolf , <3BF , JewelsAndB , GonetoLovehoney , Missmarc , Squeaky , Stinkytofu10 , eri86 , Hallmar82 , Lavendar , sXeVegan90 , SMichelle , TheirPet , ViVix , mr115393 , Castielskitten
89  (42%)
Other (please explain)
Alan & Michele , Sugar Pirate , NuMe , Backseat Boohoo , Liz2 , Raven , Envy , EffinSara , ~miss.heather~ , KinkyShay , usmcwife99 , Dame Saphir , vegan.guy , Xavier7 , Redboxbaby , Miss Voluptuous , dancingduo , libbyv , Ouroborean , edeneve
20  (9%)
Total votes: 212
Poll is closed
08/13/2009
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Rayne Millaray Rayne Millaray
I suppose I should have picked "other" since we're trying to add a little more sensuality to our sex life. But right now, we play rough.
08/13/2009
Alan & Michele Alan & Michele
I voted "Other." I'm middle-aged and hormonal, so he never knows what he's going to get.
08/13/2009
spicywife spicywife
Quote:
Originally posted by Alan & Michele
I voted "Other." I'm middle-aged and hormonal, so he never knows what he's going to get.
Haha!
Well, it's always a nice surprise then
08/13/2009
Sugar Pirate Sugar Pirate
I had to say "other" because I'd say I like it "rough" about 45% of the time but then I like it sensual 45% of the time and about 10% of the time I like something different, kinky, like exhibitionism (only the idea of being caught), games, etc.
08/13/2009
NuMe NuMe
I voted other. Like Alan & Michele or should I say just Michele, I too am having crazy hormones and my hubby never knows what to expect. Other than the fact that I'm horny about 90% of the time.

And I agree with Sugar Pirates formula for sex. LOL!!!!

So basically my answer is both or even something totally different at times.
08/13/2009
Angel deSanguine Angel deSanguine
We definitely play rough the majority of the time, though we do have our moments of sensuality.
08/13/2009
Backseat Boohoo Backseat Boohoo
I chose "other" because I like it all kinds of ways. Yes, I have a major fetish for getting it fast and rough, choking and hair-pulling included. But I have had some of my best orgasms from that slow, deep, sensual sex you get when you feel really close to somebody. I'm also a huge fan of what I like to call "playful" sex, where you basically just screw around and laugh and such, and the orgasms are a bonus to the fun.
08/13/2009
Liz2 Liz2
I was inclined to vote for rough play but reality is based on how I feel at the time. At times so sensual that I don't recognize myself.
Early am sex is usually sensual and somewhat fast. I can't wake up to a major energy bout. Obviously, time is a major factor.
08/14/2009
Raven Raven
Although I lean more for the sensual side, it's not always a case of either/or. Sometimes we may start off one way and end up another.

I agree with Backseat about how great the "slow, sdeep, sensual sex" can be, as well as the playful angle.
08/14/2009
Fun Lover Fun Lover
We like it both ways it all depends on the mood at the time. Variety is the spice of life!
08/16/2009
Dark Muse Dark Muse
To me, sex is like food. You can't just eat pizza all day every day. It gets pretty boring. I like to vary it up. A bit rough here, more sensual there. I do tend to get into moods where I want just rough or just sensual though, but I think overall they balance each other out.
08/17/2009
spicywife spicywife
Quote:
Originally posted by Dark Muse
To me, sex is like food. You can't just eat pizza all day every day. It gets pretty boring. I like to vary it up. A bit rough here, more sensual there. I do tend to get into moods where I want just rough or just sensual though, but I think ... More
Excellent point!
08/17/2009
Envy Envy
I'm not sure. I'm not really sensual, but I don't like it rough either. I'm just a business kinda person? Lol, I don't know. Either that or plain silly and having gigglefits that leave me coughing like crazy because I can't breathe. Because I either want it quick or I wanna be a tease, lol.
08/17/2009
gone77 gone77
Even though I always go solo, I tend to be rough with myself. I'm too impatient for sensual! lol
08/18/2009
VieuxCarre VieuxCarre
We tend to start off sensual and end up going at it nice and rough
08/18/2009
spicywife spicywife
Quote:
Originally posted by VieuxCarre
We tend to start off sensual and end up going at it nice and rough
We do that often too.
08/18/2009
Sanjay Sanjay
I said rough, because while there are various of "rough," I couldn't exactly call any of our sexual encounters "gentle".... I suppose it is rough and rougher for us!
08/25/2009
MattBryant MattBryant
more into sensual than rougher here
08/29/2009
El-Jaro El-Jaro
90% sensual and 10% rough (I bite and growl at times)
11/15/2009
Sir Sir
It truly depends on my mood. Generally, I'm more loving than I am rough, but when I'm rough, I'm extremely so.
11/15/2009
EffinSara EffinSara
It has always depended on my partner and they type of relationship I have with him/her. With some, there is a strong dom/sub dynamic and roughness is a natural result. With others, it's natural to be less rough and more sensual. I like it both ways.
11/21/2009
~miss.heather~ ~miss.heather~
I voted other we are the exact opposite of Mr.Sauce 90% rough 10% sensual.
11/21/2009
KinkyShay KinkyShay
Quote:
Originally posted by spicywife
Most people probably like a balance, but what is the first thought that pops into your head - Do you tend to be more sensual or rougher in your sex play?

I like a balance but I realized that I am more into rough play to some degree. I like to ... More
I don't lean towards rough play, I corner the market on it ;-)
02/04/2010
SexyFox3 SexyFox3
I like both! I like sex to start sensual then slowly get rough.
05/26/2010
Naughty Student Naughty Student
I voted rough but really it depends. Most of the time it is rough and intense without using SM.

But as someone else mentionned it often starts playful and ends up rough. But every time we do it, it is different.
05/26/2010
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
I'm more sensual - I'm pretty sure my wife would welcome some rougher episodes - I just don't know how to do it - it would be so out of character.
05/27/2010
~LaUr3n~ ~LaUr3n~
I'm not completely in the middle, but I didn't feel it was fair to vote sensual because it is only slightly leaned that way.
05/27/2010
Sammi Sammi
Quote:
Originally posted by Gunsmoke
I'm more sensual - I'm pretty sure my wife would welcome some rougher episodes - I just don't know how to do it - it would be so out of character.
The first time we did it rougher, it was really out of character for my husband, but I have to say it was a pleasant surprise.
05/27/2010
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Quote:
Originally posted by Sammi
The first time we did it rougher, it was really out of character for my husband, but I have to say it was a pleasant surprise.
Ok Sammi - I hear what your saying - as I said my wife is probably like you!.

So any suggestions on how to add an edge to my sensuality?
05/28/2010
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Unique posters: 97