Best sex?

Howells Howells 04/22/2011

What do you think is best if you can only choose one?

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Howells Howells
I know it depends on the mood pretty much. Or the variety is the key. But if you had to choose one? Favorite one?
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hornypoet69 hornypoet69
I don't think the first two are mutually exclusive. In fact, while not all passionate sex is romantic, I would say that all romantic sex is passionate. Passionate and romantic sex is slow, in my opinion, but some people might not agree. So its difficult to pick one, because they aren't distinct categories of sex.
04/22/2011
Willis2011 Willis2011
Its hard to choose but I guess passionate
04/22/2011
purplekidney purplekidney
She: If sex isn't romantic, it's not really very passionate either for us. Lust != passion.
04/22/2011
Oxygen99 Oxygen99
Other. Hot, steamy, kinky, nasty, raunchy sex is the best for me.
04/22/2011
Brandi Rouxxx Brandi Rouxxx
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Originally posted by Oxygen99
Other. Hot, steamy, kinky, nasty, raunchy sex is the best for me.
All this and add passion too, lol...
04/22/2011
Mommy2 Mommy2
passionate
04/22/2011
bunny love bunny love
For me, sex is always passionate and romantic, but sometimes it's slow and sometimes it's fast.

I usually have hard and fast sex.
04/23/2011
sarki sarki
Romantic
04/23/2011
Howells Howells
Quote:
Originally posted by hornypoet69
I don't think the first two are mutually exclusive. In fact, while not all passionate sex is romantic, I would say that all romantic sex is passionate. Passionate and romantic sex is slow, in my opinion, but some people might not agree. So its ... More
I think they are not In my opinion romantic is slow with candles etc, but to be passionate you don't necessarily need slowness or candles.
04/23/2011
Brianna91 Brianna91
Passionate, intense anal sex.
04/23/2011
Liz2 Liz2
Quote:
Originally posted by Oxygen99
Other. Hot, steamy, kinky, nasty, raunchy sex is the best for me.
My ideal as well but not always possible. Also, lazy romantic sex on a Sunday afternoon also works for me....
04/23/2011
liilii080 liilii080
Passionate and fun, connected.
04/23/2011
PiratePrincess PiratePrincess
Out passion comes when we are romantic.
04/23/2011
missymery missymery
I'd go with fast, but I really don't categorize it as that, or any of them. I'd have to choose rough sex. I don't find it to be passionate, fast or romantic.
04/23/2011
Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
When you say "fast" do you mean a quickie?

The best sex is all sex in my opinion. For us, most all our sessions last a long time, more than an hour and a half usually. Passion and romance are always involved, even when we are playing out an intense scene, it is always in the undertones of what is going on. He can call me a filthy slut with a smile on his face, letting the romance shine right through. Romance is subjective. I see it in the way he looks at me or in the way he will let his hand caress after a hard smack, even when things get raunchy.
04/23/2011
Shellz31 Shellz31
I'd have to go with passionate over romantic - even though I think they pretty much go hand 'n' hand (ya usually don't have one without the other). But I do like fast at times.
I probably should have chosen 'fast'!
And when I say fast - not a quickie ... longer term, fast paced...lol. I like long, hard and fast.
04/23/2011
nicole07 nicole07
passionate
04/23/2011
kawigrl kawigrl
best orgasm passionate best sex romantic-intimate
04/23/2011
cobiffle cobiffle
romantic is to slow
04/23/2011
Howells Howells
Not easy huh? Kind of a good buzz going on here. A bit surprised no one chosen "fast". I guess there are not many "get it over with then sleep" type of guys on the forums^^
04/24/2011
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Passion is important to me - but I never forget the romance side of the equation.
04/25/2011
The Curious Couple The Curious Couple
I voted passionate, but both are very important to me!
04/25/2011
LadieWithSwagg LadieWithSwagg
Passionate
04/25/2011
mariedoll mariedoll
It is hard to separate all three. Passion can be a slow movement or a fast movement. Passion is romantic or sadistic. People have all different ways of showing their feelings towards one another.
04/26/2011
link82 link82
passionate!
04/29/2011
sexygoddess sexygoddess
Romantic and passionate.
04/29/2011
froggiemoma froggiemoma
passionate
04/29/2011
padmeamidala padmeamidala
Quote:
Originally posted by Howells
I know it depends on the mood pretty much. Or the variety is the key. But if you had to choose one? Favorite one?
Passionate sex. I would have chose "rough sex" if that was an option.
04/29/2011
Kake aka PoeticErotica Kake aka PoeticErotica
Quote:
Originally posted by hornypoet69
I don't think the first two are mutually exclusive. In fact, while not all passionate sex is romantic, I would say that all romantic sex is passionate. Passionate and romantic sex is slow, in my opinion, but some people might not agree. So its ... More
I totally agree with romantic sex always being passionate. also, to me, the word passion, which technically means "any powerful or compelling emotion or feeling," according to dictionanry.com, connotates some sort of affection or strong connection or w/e with the person. so, for me, a one-night stand w/ someone i just met wouldn't necessarily be passionate, even if it was, i dunno, highly-charged (?)... I have to have a strong enough connection with my partner to have at least the possibility of romance for there to be passion. So passionate sex almost by definiton has a hint of romance or the possibility at the very least, for me, unless, of course, it's hate sex or something, lol.
04/29/2011
k3 k3
Both go hand-in-hand, really. ^_^;
05/05/2011
cherryredhead88 cherryredhead88
Quote:
Originally posted by Howells
I know it depends on the mood pretty much. Or the variety is the key. But if you had to choose one? Favorite one?
Passion gets those adrenal glands flowing, and I honestly don't think you can have passion without romance in the first place!
05/05/2011
Bonesdance Bonesdance
Variety is what's really best - after a couple of really wild, passionated days it can be lovely to have some slow, romantic sex with my wife. But having to choose one, definitely passionate.
05/14/2011
newfoundlust newfoundlust
Quote:
Originally posted by Howells
I know it depends on the mood pretty much. Or the variety is the key. But if you had to choose one? Favorite one?
It tends to be best when we have plenty of time and we can both get really horny from all the foreplay, then it gets very energetic/passionate and the orgasms for both of us then tend to be pretty intense. On the other hand sleepy sex that is quiet and gentle is also wonderful.
05/17/2011
CAKES CAKES
Passionate lovemaking is definitely the best.
06/16/2011
SiNn SiNn
Quote:
Originally posted by Howells
I know it depends on the mood pretty much. Or the variety is the key. But if you had to choose one? Favorite one?
depend s n the mood but even fast hard cord sex is very passionate
06/20/2011
Sex'и'Violence Sex'и'Violence
Passionate is good. Kinky is our fav. though.
06/25/2011
big b big b
whatever it calls for
06/26/2011
reysgirl83 reysgirl83
rough. lol
06/28/2011
SexyLilPixi SexyLilPixi
Nothing beats passionate mixed with kinky & rough, that's for sure!
06/28/2011
lzbncrckhead lzbncrckhead
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Originally posted by Howells
I know it depends on the mood pretty much. Or the variety is the key. But if you had to choose one? Favorite one?
i like make up sex thats romantic
07/02/2011
lanky lanky
passion all the way
07/03/2011
ss143 ss143
Passionate is awesome but I also love those times when I get woken by bf gliding over and then in my body oh so slowly
07/03/2011
HotCouple HotCouple
Passionate all the way
07/23/2011
DeliciousDrip DeliciousDrip
passionate can b however you want it though .
08/19/2011
Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by Howells
I know it depends on the mood pretty much. Or the variety is the key. But if you had to choose one? Favorite one?
Keeping passionate after years is the key to a long, happy sex life, I think.
08/20/2011
AndroAngel AndroAngel
I have to say passionate, because we're never anything but passionate. Romance is passion, to me. I don't need candle light or a bed of roses, I need his love and his passion. Besides, slow gentle love making doesn't do anything for me, hard passionate love making is the best.
08/30/2011
mistre$$ mistre$$
Passionate, without question. Best way to do it, and only way to do it for me. Anything less than passion doesn't do it for me.
09/25/2011
unfulfilled unfulfilled
Passionate- I want to feel the love he feels for me through the actions and attention he's giving me.
09/26/2011
Miss Nessa Miss Nessa
Passionate all the way.
10/31/2011
Kitka Kitka
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Originally posted by Sex'и'Violence
Passionate is good. Kinky is our fav. though.
Yep, pretty much this for us.
11/01/2011
Sunshineamine Sunshineamine
Passionate definitely. Wouldn't have it any other way.
11/01/2011
ninja250 ninja250
Passionate for sure
01/12/2012
Highmaintenancegirl916 Highmaintenancegirl916
Passionate
01/12/2012
SexyStuff SexyStuff
We do passionate all the time, so I picked romantic to mix it up
01/13/2012
Stinkytofu10 Stinkytofu10
Can't we have both passionate and romantic at the same time?
01/13/2012
Lucky21 Lucky21
Passionate!
01/13/2012
PassionateLover2 PassionateLover2
Of course; the only way is Passionate!
Sometimes it can be expressed in a passionate story I wrote here: link
02/10/2012
PeaceToTheMiddleEast PeaceToTheMiddleEast
Quote:
Originally posted by hornypoet69
I don't think the first two are mutually exclusive. In fact, while not all passionate sex is romantic, I would say that all romantic sex is passionate. Passionate and romantic sex is slow, in my opinion, but some people might not agree. So its ... More
I agree with you on this.
02/10/2012
Nazaress Nazaress
I love passionate sex.
02/10/2012
AHubbyof2SexualMinds AHubbyof2SexualMinds
Passionate is always the way to go. And the good thing is is that you can be romantic as well while being passionate.
02/11/2012
Teacookie Teacookie
might be my adhd............... but fast and hard. else I think and get bored.
02/11/2012
Undead Undead
Quote:
Originally posted by Howells
I know it depends on the mood pretty much. Or the variety is the key. But if you had to choose one? Favorite one?
passionate
02/12/2012
DreamWolf DreamWolf
I really couldn't choose because it always depends on the mood, for some one will do, for another it won't, they are all the purrrrrrrrrrrrfect way in the right situation!
02/14/2012
Zombirella Zombirella
Quote:
Originally posted by Howells
I know it depends on the mood pretty much. Or the variety is the key. But if you had to choose one? Favorite one?
Passionate
02/14/2012
PDXlady PDXlady
Passionate for sure.
02/14/2012
biancajames biancajames
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Originally posted by Howells
I know it depends on the mood pretty much. Or the variety is the key. But if you had to choose one? Favorite one?
It's best when it's intense and I feel in synch.
02/19/2012
richsam richsam
Quote:
Originally posted by Howells
I know it depends on the mood pretty much. Or the variety is the key. But if you had to choose one? Favorite one?
Passionate
02/19/2012
Curiouscat Curiouscat
Passionate sounds divine
02/19/2012
bunniebunnie bunniebunnie
passionate is my pick.
02/29/2012
SexyRayne SexyRayne
Passionate sex that is romantic sound nice, I love those times when my husband gets really into the passion and looks into my eyes and strokes my back and legs and stuff. Those are always the best sex we have.
02/29/2012
Secret Pleasure Secret Pleasure
I picked passionate because I could only pick one. But honestly I think the best sex is a mix of all of the above.
03/05/2012
plaidvulva plaidvulva
Passionate and romantic really go hand in hand with each other.

But, I chose passionate.
03/07/2012
leelee leelee
Quote:
Originally posted by Howells
I know it depends on the mood pretty much. Or the variety is the key. But if you had to choose one? Favorite one?
passionate
03/07/2012
ellejay ellejay
I think passionate sex encompasses romance, so..yeah!
03/19/2012
Rahel Rahel
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Originally posted by ellejay
I think passionate sex encompasses romance, so..yeah!
Agreed!
03/20/2012
P'Gell P'Gell
That sex that is so encompassing that you completely forget your surroundings and it's nothing but you and your lover and what the two are doing to each other. It's like being in an other dimension. An altered state.

Better than any drug or anything else. Bliss.
03/20/2012
dks210 dks210
Doesn't passionate sex kind of encompass the other two choices?
04/09/2012
gloomybear gloomybear
passionate sex in itself is my idea of romantic
04/10/2012
Jordan B Jordan B
Passionate
04/10/2012
Jordan B Jordan B
Passionate
04/10/2012
curious kitten curious kitten
Whats wrong with passionate and romantic.
04/10/2012
chantalgiardina chantalgiardina
Quote:
Originally posted by Howells
I know it depends on the mood pretty much. Or the variety is the key. But if you had to choose one? Favorite one?
passionate
04/18/2012
JDear JDear
I think passionate sex is different for everyone.
04/18/2012
JG24FanUK JG24FanUK
I view passionate and romantic sex as very similar types. To me both you have a real connection with your partner and are slower gentler styles of sex. Where as rough sex is considered hard to me.
04/18/2012
Ilovelingerie Ilovelingerie
Quote:
Originally posted by Howells
I know it depends on the mood pretty much. Or the variety is the key. But if you had to choose one? Favorite one?
Passionate sex can be romantic and fast. So I would choose passionate
04/18/2012
michael scofield michael scofield
passionate! sex just feels good but when you both love each other and there is passion is so much more and is 100 times better
04/23/2012
Master DarkWolf Master DarkWolf
Chose passionate, but depends on my mood.
05/06/2012
Bethy Cassatt Bethy Cassatt
Passionate. I love slow and easy mixed with the dire need to feel everything about the person.
06/24/2012
BlooJay BlooJay
passionate
06/24/2012
vanilla&chocolate vanilla&chocolate
Passionate. For me, that could be slow and passionate or fast; just as long as there's passion
06/24/2012
Sinfully Sinfully
Out of those options I choose passionate. When I think of fast I think of a quickie and it's over way too soon. I personally am a fan of aggressive sex more than anything, but none of your choices specified that.
06/24/2012
animepanda89 animepanda89
Passionate.
06/30/2012
KrissyNovacaine KrissyNovacaine
Passionate gets me off the fastest and the most every time.
06/30/2012
momoxd11 momoxd11
Quote:
Originally posted by Howells
I know it depends on the mood pretty much. Or the variety is the key. But if you had to choose one? Favorite one?
the best sex is rough and passionate at the same time
07/02/2012
sexxxkitten sexxxkitten
Passionate
07/10/2012
giftdgecko giftdgecko
Passionate ftw
07/10/2012
squire squire
Passionate is more exciting
07/11/2012
xOhxSoxScandalousx xOhxSoxScandalousx
Passionate for sure,
07/12/2012
Apirka Apirka
Honestly, I love fast and rough, excited, tearing each other's clothes of sex.
07/12/2012
sexybutterfly sexybutterfly
Quote:
Originally posted by Howells
I know it depends on the mood pretty much. Or the variety is the key. But if you had to choose one? Favorite one?
i've heard some say that make up sex is the best.
07/12/2012
dirtythoughts:) dirtythoughts:)
Passionate yet fast and aggressive
07/15/2012
KRD KRD
Passionate and romantic
07/19/2012
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