For what it is worth to anyone...my 3 cents. I have way more years experience than most on EF and experienced WAY more men than anywhere near average. Been with "small" men, been with "absolutely fucking HUGE" men...it all boils down to one thing...does he know how to use it and does he understand a woman's body and how to please her? A well endowed guy who is selfish in sex or doesn't know how to please a woman is worthless, regardless of size. A guy with a smaller penis, who is confident and unselfish and knows how to please me, is a true gem and will get my attention every time. It is an old expression, but it is so very true, (and as a sailboat owner it is appropriate coming from me-haha) "It isn't the size of the boat that counts...it is the motion of the ocean!"
Is Bigger Really Better? A Question For Other Females
07/22/2010
Vexed
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He's a dude. You asked for women that have experience to speak up. It figures that a guy would give the politically correct answer.
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Now, that makes sense to me!! You are definitely pretty cool, dude!!
10/17/2010
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What about a man show was hung and wanted to "bring you pleasure". People never compare apples to apples when debating about how penis size's feel during intercourse.
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Raven
Yes, as you and Sir said, how you use what you have means a lot. And I'd much rather have a man with an smaller dick who wanted to bring me pleasure than one who was hung and who was only into himself.
10/17/2010
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The tit size comparison is foolish. Bigger tits don't provide a more intense sensation. The thicker the penis, the more intense the sensation of being penetrated.
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Backseat Boohoo
This is how I feel. Everybody is different, and everybody likes different things.
I've had guys of all shapes and sizes, and in terms of JUST the penis, I actually preferred the guys who were a little below average. I have issues with ... more
I've had guys of all shapes and sizes, and in terms of JUST the penis, I actually preferred the guys who were a little below average. I have issues with ... more
This is how I feel. Everybody is different, and everybody likes different things.
I've had guys of all shapes and sizes, and in terms of JUST the penis, I actually preferred the guys who were a little below average. I have issues with painful penetration, and I'm relatively tiny, so a smaller dick just works better for me.
In terms of actual SEX, that has nothing to do with the dick and everything to do with the guy. Saying a man will be great in bed just because he has a big dick is like saying a woman will be great in bed just because she has big tits. It doesn't work that way! Actually, some of the best sex I had with a man was with a guy who was REALLY big...he was a great lover, but his penis was kinda OUCH. less
I've had guys of all shapes and sizes, and in terms of JUST the penis, I actually preferred the guys who were a little below average. I have issues with painful penetration, and I'm relatively tiny, so a smaller dick just works better for me.
In terms of actual SEX, that has nothing to do with the dick and everything to do with the guy. Saying a man will be great in bed just because he has a big dick is like saying a woman will be great in bed just because she has big tits. It doesn't work that way! Actually, some of the best sex I had with a man was with a guy who was REALLY big...he was a great lover, but his penis was kinda OUCH. less
10/17/2010
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It isn't necessarily better. I waould take harder over larger. My husband is slightly larger than average and is perfect for me. I was with a guy with a very large penis but it seemed mushy even though he was fully turned on?! eek
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Ok, all I hear from my girlfriend is how big her husband is and how great he is in bed with his monster cock..I've only been with a few guys who were probably about normal size down there..So what's the deal? Is sex better if a guy has a huge
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Ok, all I hear from my girlfriend is how big her husband is and how great he is in bed with his monster cock..I've only been with a few guys who were probably about normal size down there..So what's the deal? Is sex better if a guy has a huge one? Anybody had some experience or lucky enough to be married to someone who is well endowed?? Details please...want to know what I have been missing!
If it is that good, I need to meet someone like that!! less
If it is that good, I need to meet someone like that!! less
11/19/2010
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dido. was with a guy and he was pretty huge. didnt really feel good. i mostly felt pain. and he was extremly cocky. suck a turn off. only gave it to him once. he wasnt werthy...
Originally posted by
EffinSara
I had a boyfriend with a huge cock. It was enjoyable half the time, but painful the rest. I am much happier with an average guy who is enjoyable *all* the time.
11/19/2010
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I totally agree with you about reaching the "full potential". I can coax the same reaction from my husband. Men with really large cocks scare me.
Originally posted by
seaofneptune
My guy is average sized as well and the thing I love about him is that the more excited I can get him - the more he'll reach his "full potential" in size. He's perfect for me, I never bought into the "huge cock" mentality
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My guy is average sized as well and the thing I love about him is that the more excited I can get him - the more he'll reach his "full potential" in size. He's perfect for me, I never bought into the "huge cock" mentality at all. I was smart and wanted a guy that I felt I could handle. I've even been told to watch it with the big ones because they could get painful. I'd hate for my guy to have to wear anything on themselves to prevent themselves from hurting me in anyway.
I agree with Raven that men seem to put more pressure on themselves about it. I think that is true and it's the same thing I told my boyfriend. He was afraid to let me see him naked orginally because he was afraid I would think he was "too small" and I would want to get rid of him.
Like Sir said as well, it's how well you use it.
Also, I don't think I would find it as appealing either if the guy I was giving oral to was that huge!
In the book Ride 'Em Cowgirl by Sadie Allison (I think...) she talks about sizes and how to deal with them as well. It's a great book. less
I agree with Raven that men seem to put more pressure on themselves about it. I think that is true and it's the same thing I told my boyfriend. He was afraid to let me see him naked orginally because he was afraid I would think he was "too small" and I would want to get rid of him.
Like Sir said as well, it's how well you use it.
Also, I don't think I would find it as appealing either if the guy I was giving oral to was that huge!
In the book Ride 'Em Cowgirl by Sadie Allison (I think...) she talks about sizes and how to deal with them as well. It's a great book. less
11/19/2010
Size is not necessary. Small cock may be also painful, if the partner is not gentle to you.
03/21/2011
I had painful experiences with a guy who "drove it in" a little too deeply, so now I'm just more comfortable with small to average sizes in general because I don't have to worry about that happening again, even accidentally.
08/07/2011
I've never been with someone with a "monster" cock, and I'm glad about that. I definitely couldn't handle someone with a huge cock. I like average, if not a little below average. I can't even insert most of my toys all the way, and I definitely don't like toys with too much girth. It hurts me personally. Most of my friends do prefer larger guys though, but yet I have a few that are like me. So it depends on your vagina and how the guy uses it!
08/08/2011
I had a boyfriend with a monster cock for about a year. At first it hurt, but after a while it felt incredibly good! A plus was that he really knew how to use it too! It did not work out however, because he was arrogant about it (It was also his best quality) and all the girls chased him. Good while it lasted, but I needed more than a big dick for company!
08/08/2011
the wife just got a monster dildo, she says it feels like it fills her really really well
11/07/2011
I've only had one large one which took a while to get used to but yea, I guess I really do like a bigger penis now, lol.
12/23/2011