Do you agree to have "toy free" nights?

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Do you agree to have "toy free" nights?

Hallmar82 Hallmar82
My wife is usually very enthusiastic about including toys into our bedroom fun. However, I've noticed that as we (mostly me) accumulate more and more toys from EF, that she wants more nights together without any kind of toy - even lube! Do you ever agree to a toy-free evening with your significant other(s) who are feeling anti-toy about your time together?
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
I am a woman and...
22
I am a man and...
9
Yes, my significant other has requested at least one night together without sex toys
3
Yes, I have requested at least one night with my significant other without sex toys
2
No, we almost always use some kind of sex toy or product (e.g. blindfold)
4
No, we rarely use any kind of sex toy or product (e.g. lube)
4
We have an explicit agreement about the timing/use of sex toys
We don't really pay attention to when/how we use sex toys
25
If asked, I would agree to a night without sex toys or products (e.g. porn)
12
If asked, I would NOT agree to a night without sex toys or products (e.g. vibe)
Now that you mention it...a "toy free" night together sounds like a good idea
1
Other, The Infamous
1
Total votes: 83 (33 voters)
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03/01/2012
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Rossie Rossie
I will occasionally have a toy-free night for a change, without my husband's asking.
03/01/2012
sktb0007 sktb0007
No. Neither of us have any issues with using our toys during play. There are times when we don't use anything, but it's not because we planned to not use anything...it just happens that way. I think the more toys we have, the more we play with them.
03/01/2012
EdenJP EdenJP
We don't really pay attention to when/how we use sex toys
03/01/2012
Stinkytofu10 Stinkytofu10
toys make sex more interesting, we use them more often than not!
03/01/2012
Sinfully Sinfully
I don't really pay attention but would not use toys if asked by my partner.
03/01/2012
MamaDivine MamaDivine
Quote:
Originally posted by Hallmar82
My wife is usually very enthusiastic about including toys into our bedroom fun. However, I've noticed that as we (mostly me) accumulate more and more toys from EF, that she wants more nights together without any kind of toy - even lube! Do you ...
Honestly, its whatever we're in the mood for. We usually don't plan to use anything or plan NOT to use anything. Sometimes its just more convenient to not use anything at all, because of the fact we have kids around the house. They tend to wake up at night or get nosey, so bringing out the "arsenal" sometimes isn't as great of an idea LOL>
03/01/2012
Ciao. Ciao.
There are definitely "toy free" nights around here, but it's not something that we really have to consciously decide to do. Just kind of depends on the moods we're in and what we want to be doing. Generally I am more often the one to bring a toy into whatever play we're doing but it's not something either of us needs to really enjoy each other.
03/01/2012
Undead Undead
Quote:
Originally posted by Hallmar82
My wife is usually very enthusiastic about including toys into our bedroom fun. However, I've noticed that as we (mostly me) accumulate more and more toys from EF, that she wants more nights together without any kind of toy - even lube! Do you ...
I don't care if she wants to use them or not, doesn't bother me
03/02/2012
- Kira - - Kira -
We use something almost 100% of the time. I can't imagine not using a toy, even if it was just a cock ring. I have asked my husband to take cock rings off for a night if I don't want to have sex forever. He usually doesn't go for it. LOL. He loves those things. I'd be the same with my vibrator. I wouldn't really want to give it up. Luckily neither of us pay too much attention to how many nights we use something versus don't.
03/02/2012
freda freda
Quote:
Originally posted by Hallmar82
My wife is usually very enthusiastic about including toys into our bedroom fun. However, I've noticed that as we (mostly me) accumulate more and more toys from EF, that she wants more nights together without any kind of toy - even lube! Do you ...
We don't really pay attention to when/how we use sex toys
03/02/2012
LAndJ LAndJ
We rarely use toys together, but do use lube about 75% of the time (simply because it's quicker).
03/03/2012
SparklyGlitter SparklyGlitter
most of our nights are toy free
03/03/2012
RavenWings RavenWings
Yeah, toys are once in a while.
03/03/2012
Silverdrop Silverdrop
Quote:
Originally posted by Hallmar82
My wife is usually very enthusiastic about including toys into our bedroom fun. However, I've noticed that as we (mostly me) accumulate more and more toys from EF, that she wants more nights together without any kind of toy - even lube! Do you ...
We have nights without toys, but never by any particular request. There is NEVER a night without lube though. No lube = no sex. Full stop.
03/03/2012
K101 K101
Quote:
Originally posted by Hallmar82
My wife is usually very enthusiastic about including toys into our bedroom fun. However, I've noticed that as we (mostly me) accumulate more and more toys from EF, that she wants more nights together without any kind of toy - even lube! Do you ...
Actually we don't always use toys, but it wasn't somethign either of us had to request. It just happened. Sometimes like lately, there'll be weeks where our sex involves nothing at all except for us! I think it's really nice to do that sometimes. There are also times where we like to use my toys for foreplay, but that's all we ever use them for. I wondered if we were the only couple who didn't always use toys here
03/06/2012
EastCoast36 EastCoast36
I voted that we rarely use toys. "Rarely" may be an overstatement, but not by much. I really don't have any toys for myself. I've thought about a fleshlight, so I talked to my wife about it, and she didn't seem all that interested in using it with me. I enjoy watching my wife play with vibrators and dildos, and she likes them but asks for me before long. She has also hinted at toning down the toys if I bring them out more than once a week.
03/06/2012
Beck Beck
Once in awhile it is nice just to pleasure each other and send time on one another, but I like to get off, so toys are required for me, usually.
03/06/2012
richsam richsam
Quote:
Originally posted by Hallmar82
My wife is usually very enthusiastic about including toys into our bedroom fun. However, I've noticed that as we (mostly me) accumulate more and more toys from EF, that she wants more nights together without any kind of toy - even lube! Do you ...
We don't really pay attention to when/how we use sex toys
03/06/2012
Djiffy Djiffy
We're both women, so we don't really notice or care how often toys are involved.
03/11/2012
Total posts: 20
Unique posters: 20