Other: It depends, really. My O face is pretty unsexy from where I'm standing (laying? hanging?), but I'm not conscious of how it looks when I'm in the moment. Depending on our position, he may be able to see it, or he may not, but I don't make a conscious effort to show or hide it.
when he's going down on me, i like it so that he can't see my face.. for some reason, i feel awkward. but for sex, i love being able to see his face, and i know he likes looking at me for approval/to see how i'm liking it, etc
Mostly open "during" sex, but I/we typically close our eyes in the "O" moment. I happened to look up at my other half as he was mid-O the other day and actually asked him if everything was okay! He had an almost pained look on his face! Nothing is sexy about a grimace during sex, lol.
That being said, I don't think we do it consciously.
Force of habit, I close my eyes. Its more because the lights are usually off or the room is dark....and I can "see" them in my mind and their body and mine. Sometimes Ill open my eyes if we're really getting into it though. It all depends on mood, situation and whats going on.
I use to either close my eyes or have my head where I couldnt see my partner, but lately I have found I luv to look in her eyes as she and or I are haveing an orgasim. What do you do.
We look each other in the eyes, no matter what we are doing...lighting and position permitting, of course. I will even watch him pleasuring me in the mirror sometimes, and it thrills him to know I am watching. We are visual creatures. It is a huge turn on for us.