Do you consider a woman to be gay after she has had a threesome once or after the second time?

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Do you consider a woman to be gay after she has had a threesome once or after the second time?

Mr.Skillfu Mr.Skillfu
I just want to know what others considers a homosexual...incounter
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
after the first time
after the second
Mr.Skillfu
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she's just bi get over it
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Total votes: 44 (44 voters)
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02/16/2011
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DeliciousSurprise DeliciousSurprise
Um... Neither?

It can be a homosexual encounter, without her being homosexual.

No matter how many men I bed, I will not be straight, or even bisexual. Everyone who's faked it through sex knows that you don't need attraction to have sex, and everyone who's bedded someone they weren't attracted to and had decent sex knows that you can have good orgasms without physical desire.
02/16/2011
Mr.Skillfu Mr.Skillfu
I say after the second time,the first was just exsperimental the second time she just liked it....you go girl...
02/16/2011
Mr.Skillfu Mr.Skillfu
Quote:
Originally posted by DeliciousSurprise
Um... Neither?

It can be a homosexual encounter, without her being homosexual.

No matter how many men I bed, I will not be straight, or even bisexual. Everyone who's faked it through sex knows that you don't need attraction to ...
Good answer....I like
02/16/2011
LicentiouslyYours LicentiouslyYours
None of the above.

I consider a woman to be gay if she considers herself gay, or bisexual if that's how she defines her preference. Her sexual experiences are largely irrelevant. Much like you probably considered yourself straight (or otherwise) before you ever had sex the first time.

The only person who can correctly identify sexual preference is the person to whom that preference belongs.
02/16/2011
That Guy That Guy
I put bi, but I'm with everybody down here in the forum saying that she's not necessarily bi either. Why anybody would have to put a label on it is beyond me, but a threesome doesn't mean you want to be with a person of the same sex on your own.
02/16/2011
Tori Rebel Tori Rebel
May I vote 'other'?

A woman is only gay if she is only attracted to those of her own gender. Having threesomes has no bearing whatsoever on that. It can mean she's bisexual, bicurious, pansexual, experimenting, just occasionally a little fluid, or still completely straight and not at all actually attracted to another woman.
02/16/2011
null null
I voted that she's bisexual, but she might not be, it's entirely possible that she's also not homosexual...needs more options!
02/16/2011
~LaUr3n~ ~LaUr3n~
It's possible for a woman to not be gay even if she has only been with women. the actions mean little with out the mentality to accompany it.
02/16/2011
indiglo indiglo
Quote:
Originally posted by LicentiouslyYours
None of the above.

I consider a woman to be gay if she considers herself gay, or bisexual if that's how she defines her preference. Her sexual experiences are largely irrelevant. Much like you probably considered yourself straight (or ...
This. I agree. I would have chosen neither.
02/16/2011
girl next door girl next door
I need an other option because being in threesomes does not make you gay. It is a lot more complex process as I know from watching my friends who have come out of the closet. People are who they are.
02/16/2011
Alura Une Alura Une
I don't think the amount of times someone does something means anything at all. If a woman realizes she likes women, then she might be gay or bisexual. I think it's really up to her to decide this, not us!
02/17/2011
potstickers potstickers
I don't agree with any of the options. What if a woman has had sex with several men and enjoyed it, but still only loves women? That doesn't necessarily mean she's bi. The same can go for men or straight folks.

I think it's all about how the person chooses to identifies themselves. It doesn't matter what other people think.
02/17/2011
BBW Talks Toys BBW Talks Toys
I vote OTHER too.

I've only kissed women before and consider myself bisexual, whereas my best friend had a relationship with a woman and considers herself straight.

I've identified as bisexual (though not always publicly) since I was 15 years old. I've just chosen to be with men. Doesn't mean that girls don't make me hot. Because they really really do.
02/17/2011
SexyStuff SexyStuff
I think it is funny the answers you wrote to your own question
02/17/2011
Blooddragon Blooddragon
Quote:
Originally posted by Mr.Skillfu
I just want to know what others considers a homosexual...incounter
I think gay is strictly attracted to one sex. A threesome or two or several to me just means you like sex and both sexes
02/17/2011
Bunnycups Bunnycups
Quote:
Originally posted by DeliciousSurprise
Um... Neither?

It can be a homosexual encounter, without her being homosexual.

No matter how many men I bed, I will not be straight, or even bisexual. Everyone who's faked it through sex knows that you don't need attraction to ...
I agree. It has to do with attraction.
02/17/2011
zeebot zeebot
It doesn't necessarily mean anything? Other than (hopefully) she enjoyed herself! Your sexuality is your own thing, define it however you want.
02/17/2011
moonch1ld moonch1ld
I'd say she has to want to have an exclusive relationship with a woman and maybe also for more than just sex for her to be gay. Anything else is maybe bi or just physical attraction.
02/17/2011
lordj2010 lordj2010
Quote:
Originally posted by Mr.Skillfu
I just want to know what others considers a homosexual...incounter
well you didn't have the option of none of the above so had to go with c. if a women wants to have a 3sum hell i dont think teh guy will care much every guy loves 3 somes
02/17/2011
Shellz31 Shellz31
If she enjoys both guys and girls regularly, then she's possibly bisexual.
02/17/2011
Crystal1 Crystal1
I don't think it matters when *I* consider her gay, just how she chooses to identify. I don't see any reason why someone couldn't experiment several times and still just be bi-curious.
02/17/2011
pinkzombie pinkzombie
Quote:
Originally posted by Mr.Skillfu
I just want to know what others considers a homosexual...incounter
I have had many threesomes, and I am not solely attracted to women. I think what you feel in yourself defines if you are homosexual. But label schmable....
02/17/2011
Mr.RightNow Mr.RightNow
bi curious
02/17/2011
Alura Une Alura Une
Quote:
Originally posted by lordj2010
well you didn't have the option of none of the above so had to go with c. if a women wants to have a 3sum hell i dont think teh guy will care much every guy loves 3 somes
No, not every guy loves threesomes. Experience with certain guys here. But I think watching them is fun for many of them.
02/17/2011
Solar Ray Solar Ray
I don't think having 3 somes or more sums makes any party involved a homosexual. Unless your are strictly attracted to the same sex. Otherwise you just have a good healthy adventurous sexual curiosity.
02/19/2011
Istanbull Istanbull
Quote:
Originally posted by Mr.Skillfu
I just want to know what others considers a homosexual...incounter
I only consider a woman gay when she cuts off all her hair and gets a job at Home Depot.

This isn't the 80's. Women who have sex with other women are just normal women, 4 out of 5 do it.
03/02/2011
Eden C. Eden C.
Quote:
Originally posted by Istanbull
I only consider a woman gay when she cuts off all her hair and gets a job at Home Depot.

This isn't the 80's. Women who have sex with other women are just normal women, 4 out of 5 do it.
Gay women ARE normal women of course, and I don't think that many women are having sex with other women. I could be wrong, I'm just curious as to where you got this statistic; I ust think I would be getting laid much more frequently if that were the case.

I just found the phrasing of the original question rather hilarious, as if the act needs to be repeated a certain number of times for the magical spell to work.
03/06/2011
Brandi Rouxxx Brandi Rouxxx
Quote:
Originally posted by Tori Rebel
May I vote 'other'?

A woman is only gay if she is only attracted to those of her own gender. Having threesomes has no bearing whatsoever on that. It can mean she's bisexual, bicurious, pansexual, experimenting, just occasionally ...
Perfectly said Tori....
03/06/2011
tigerkate tigerkate
I agree with what Tori Rebel posted as well.
Even having one, two, three sexual encounters with the same sex... It doesn't matter, a person is experimenting and seeing what's out there.
03/07/2011
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