Do you have sex when houseguests are in town?

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Do you have sex when houseguests are in town?

Mr. & Mrs. Peg Mr. & Mrs. Peg
So my father-in-law is here. This always puts a crimp on our love life. Now that we are in a smaller house its even worse; he is an incredibly light sleeper. After a few days we will end up on the floor having silent sex. What about you?
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Nope, not ever.
Envy
1  (1%)
Maybe, depending on how long they stay.
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12  (11%)
Yes, but only if we are REALLY quiet.
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53  (49%)
Yup, they may be guests but that doesn't me we have to stop being us.
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43  (39%)
Total votes: 109
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SexyTabby SexyTabby
My mother was injured and moved in with us and at first I was so tired taking care of her at all hours and dealing with 3 kids that I didn't care about sex. After she started to get better but had to remain with us it was a different story. Hubby and I were really quiet for awhile and we probably would be if it were any other house guest. Eventually after the entire summer and then some we got over it and resumed our normal behavior though so I guess a lot of it depends on how long they'll be with you. We would also turn on the tv in our bedroom just for cover sound there for awhile.
01/11/2011
UnknownGirl UnknownGirl
We'll try to be quieter than usual, but hey, it's our house! Don't like the ambient noise? Stay at a hotel next time.
01/11/2011
Naughty Student Naughty Student
At the beginning of our relationship, we couldn't keep off each other but now we try to respect our guests and we try to be respectful when we are guests also.
01/11/2011
Vaccinium Vaccinium
The master bedroom and guest bedroom are at opposite ends of the house on separate floors, so that doesn't stop us. The problem is that things are so busy with hiking, sight-seeing, beer and wine tours, that my wife is usually exhausted when people come to visit us-- so no sex. When she isn't exhausted and in the mood, it happens.
01/11/2011
Annemarie Annemarie
My significant other and I were arguing about this a couple of weeks ago!

I say that it's impolite to have sex when you have guests or are a guest in someone else's house. He says that it's okay either way.
01/11/2011
Sammi Sammi
If they're only there for a night, we will hold off, but if it's a longer stay we don't. We'll tone it down, but we won't go without.
01/11/2011
Airekah Airekah
sometimes I can not wait, so if that mood arises then we much be super super quiet.
01/12/2011
moonch1ld moonch1ld
Yup! It's more exciting knowing someone else is around sometimes.
01/12/2011
Alan & Michele Alan & Michele
There are very few things that would make us stop having sex even temporarily, and a house guest is not one of them. I guess it's lucky for them that our lair is at the other end of the house from the rest of the bedrooms.
01/12/2011
Shellz31 Shellz31
I don't care who comes to stay. If I was horny, I'd still be having sexy.
01/12/2011
Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
It doesn't matter who is there. We are still having sex! Everytime they take a shower, we are sneaking off to the bedroom. Everytime they go take a nap, we are sneaking off to the bedroom. When they go to bed at night, we are off to the bedroom...you get the idea.
01/12/2011
Jobthingy Jobthingy
nope. we will just be quiet
01/12/2011
~LaUr3n~ ~LaUr3n~
When my boyfriend had not taken my past roommates place and she still lived here, we still had sex in my room when she was here or was here with her boyfriend. She did too. At my boyfriend's apartment when he still lived there, we had sex when his brother would come and visit. We just plan it when people are sleeping so we don't have to be completely mute. I don't think anyone has ever picked up on the fact we were having sex or had sex.
01/12/2011
lamira lamira
I will have sex with my partner, but just as long as we are quiet about it.
01/12/2011
liilii080 liilii080
As long as you're quiet and don't make a mess I see no reason not to have sex when we have guests or when we are guests elsewhere.
01/12/2011
deletedacct deletedacct
As long as its quiet or done quietly while others are sleeping, i don't see the problem. I've been in living arrangements where i lived with my parents or friends, & i never let it deprive me of a healthy sex life.
01/12/2011
NaughtyButterfly NaughtyButterfly
Quote:
Originally posted by Mr. & Mrs. Peg
So my father-in-law is here. This always puts a crimp on our love life. Now that we are in a smaller house its even worse; he is an incredibly light sleeper. After a few days we will end up on the floor having silent sex. What about you?
We do it on the floor or in the shower Not much stops us from sex
01/12/2011
BadassFatass BadassFatass
I wouldn't let visitors stop me. I can be quiet when I have to, even if I don't like to be.
01/12/2011
buzzvibe buzzvibe
We rarely have visitors. Our house is really too small to entertain them.
01/12/2011
ScottA ScottA
Depends on who and when. Usually we're very quiet.
01/12/2011
Yoda Yoda
Nice. This topic is hilarious.

We try to, but our bed is wooden and very squeaky. I'm pretty sure even our neighbors can hear us.
01/12/2011
Kissaki Kissaki
Quote:
Originally posted by Annemarie
My significant other and I were arguing about this a couple of weeks ago!

I say that it's impolite to have sex when you have guests or are a guest in someone else's house. He says that it's okay either way.
We try to keep it quiet if we have guests. It helps that the guest bedroom doesn't share a wall with our bedroom.
As far as when we're visiting other people, it depends, but usually not since there is always a risk of making a mess.
01/12/2011
sbon sbon
When I'm at school, I live with two housemates and when I'm home my boyfriend and I both live with our parents. If other people being around was a problem, nothing would ever happen. As long as it's not terribly loud, it's not a problem.
01/13/2011
Envy Envy
I don't risk it, but then again, I have a very non-tolerant family when it comes to sex, so I wouldn't even dare. I don't even use toys if someone is home.
01/13/2011
leatherlover leatherlover
When we visit our parents or have them visiting us, we will be a little bit quieter but we don't stop all together. The opportunity to do it though is definitely less.
01/13/2011
Sweet-Justice Sweet-Justice
Most people the come over to our house already know that we are freaks in the sheets so they either ignore it or expect it. We try to be quite but I love to be loud so yeah~
01/13/2011
Gallowraven Gallowraven
Quote:
Originally posted by Mr. & Mrs. Peg
So my father-in-law is here. This always puts a crimp on our love life. Now that we are in a smaller house its even worse; he is an incredibly light sleeper. After a few days we will end up on the floor having silent sex. What about you?
we didnt even stop when we were the house guests. but I suppose it depends on how sexually open the family/friends are. if they were prudish (for lack of a better word) or would poke fun about it, I probably would stop during that time. or just try to be as quiet as a mouse.
01/13/2011
Mr. & Mrs. Peg Mr. & Mrs. Peg
Quote:
Originally posted by UnknownGirl
We'll try to be quieter than usual, but hey, it's our house! Don't like the ambient noise? Stay at a hotel next time.
Love IT!
01/14/2011
Mr. & Mrs. Peg Mr. & Mrs. Peg
Quote:
Originally posted by Yoda
Nice. This topic is hilarious.

We try to, but our bed is wooden and very squeaky. I'm pretty sure even our neighbors can hear us.
That is part of our problem. Our bed squeaks a lot. Funny thing is, we don't ever really notice it or think about it when it is just us. Then when someone is here we always think that we absolute have to do something about it.
01/14/2011
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