Do you have to pleasure yourself during sex to get an orgasm?

XxFallenAngelxX XxFallenAngelxX
or do you get it with just sex?
01/26/2011
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UnknownGirl UnknownGirl
Usually just with sex, but sometimes I do need a little help.
01/26/2011
Coralbell Coralbell
I need clitoral stimulation to orgasm.
01/27/2011
Waterfall Waterfall
I usually need my clit stimulated to have an orgasm. However, I have had a partner with a penis that had a pretty nice curve to it and because of the stimulation my g-spot was getting I didn't need to clit stimulation
01/27/2011
Rainbow Boy Rainbow Boy
Quote:
Originally posted by Waterfall
I usually need my clit stimulated to have an orgasm. However, I have had a partner with a penis that had a pretty nice curve to it and because of the stimulation my g-spot was getting I didn't need to clit stimulation
Just curious, was it curved upwards or downwards? Which would be better?
01/27/2011
Waterfall Waterfall
Quote:
Originally posted by Rainbow Boy
Just curious, was it curved upwards or downwards? Which would be better?
Curved upwards. I prefer an upwards curve because it hits the g-spot very nicely.
01/27/2011
Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
For me it depends. I really am not a morning person and my clit, as well as the rest of my genitals, have a VERY difficult time rising to the occasion and waking up. So, for morning sex I almost always need help with a toy or at least a bit of oral before the main event.

Otherwise, it isn't that I HAVE to pleasure myself, as much as it is that it feels good and that it turns my husband on too (and it feels good for him as well). It is nice when he does it for me, using his hand or grabbing a toy to stimulate my clit even more while we are having sex.
01/27/2011
Gallowraven Gallowraven
I don't always need the extra help, but sometimes, when I get close, I can't help but to go ahead and help myself, all that stimulation just feels so darn good.
01/27/2011
A Good Girl A Good Girl
I do some of both.
01/28/2011
Brandi Rouxxx Brandi Rouxxx
It's not necessary for me to have to though sometimes I do it just to turn him on more. He gets me off just fine by himself, lol.
01/28/2011
Isreah Isreah
Unfortunately, It is much easier for me to get off than I would like. I do not need to pleasure myself to get off.
01/28/2011
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
My wife and I have a great time together - but I accept that she will orgasm most consistently with toys. We use the toys together so I'm part of her pleasure - she will not even touch the toys unless I'm with her.

When we're engaged in intercourse she's going to have the most success in the cowgirl position - where she's in control.

Sure there are times where we use our Liberator Wedge or in the doggy position when I can bring her to orgasm - it's just less reliable. I don't feel bad about any of this - I'm just glad that we've figured out how it works.

The more orgasms she has the more she wants - and that's a good thing for me!
01/28/2011
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