Do you talk about the sexual exploits you've had with past partners as a form of foreplay?

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Do you talk about the sexual exploits you've had with past partners as a form of foreplay?

UnknownGirl UnknownGirl
My husband has always been curious about my past sexual experiences. He'd want to know specific things such as; how many people did I do certain things with, size of past partners, what were some of my best sexual encounters, etc. At first I thought it was a little odd. I didn't understand why he'd ever want to know that sort of thing. Most guys get squeamish at the very thought of past partners. Then I realized that discussing my past experience was a turn on for him. When I realized that, I started getting turned on by the discussion myself. And in turn I started asking him about past sexual experience. Just wondering if other couples do this and to what degree.
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
Yes. We do this and it's a turn on for both of us.
UnknownGirl , MontereyJak , Tidwtrguy , LittleBird , A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople) , Sex'и'Violence , CreamySweet , Mister CreamySweet
8  (24%)
Yes. We do this, but it's only really a turn on for me.
Yes. We do this, but it's only really a turn on my partner.
hyacinthgirl , aliceinthehole
2  (6%)
No. We don't do this and either us want to.
Coralbell , Redboxbaby , OhMy! , potstickers , Gunsmoke , indiglo , LaLaLouise , DeliciousSurprise , wetone123 , BBW Talks Toys , ConnerJay , Katastophy , powerandintent , humblepie , Feisty , humpday , Melan!e , Ilovelingerie
18  (55%)
No. But I'd like to.
Antipova
1  (3%)
No. But my partner would like to.
Other - Please elaborate.
ViVix , joja , Deeder , Chilipepper
4  (12%)
Total votes: 33
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03/12/2011
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MontereyJak MontereyJak
We've done that quite a bit in the past. She really loves to hear about my few exploits, really gets her going. But that we have started to do some swinging activities that only adds fuel to our fire as well.
03/12/2011
Antipova Antipova
I have with previous boyfriends- it's exciting to me to be with someone virile. It also serves as a good springboard for 'what are you into' talks when you first meet someone.

My current boyfriend is a little bit of a Christopher Columbus, though, so I try to keep the conversation to wonderful things that *he* does to me.
03/12/2011
Coralbell Coralbell
A limited amount has come up in conversation, when we're discussing things that we like etc. but that's as far as I would want it to go. I would never want to hear a detailed story about him and his ex.
03/12/2011
Tidwtrguy Tidwtrguy
Sex is often as much mental as it is physical. Discussing what a partner likes and doesn't like in bed, and what they have done in the past, is very liberating. Exploration and learning is fun, but I also like to hear what curls my partner's toes, even if it was with someone else. I am always willing to learn new things and harbor no jealousy over past partners.
03/12/2011
P'Gell P'Gell
Quote:
Originally posted by UnknownGirl
My husband has always been curious about my past sexual experiences. He'd want to know specific things such as; how many people did I do certain things with, size of past partners, what were some of my best sexual encounters, etc. At first I ...
No. We sometimes use what we'd like to do with people as "Dirty Talk" but we don't talk about past lovers. We've shared the basics, but no details.
03/12/2011
Shellz31 Shellz31
NO - I wouldn't be interested in knowing the things a partner has done with past partners. That to me is a huge TURN OFF!

And I don't think telling a partner about my past experiences is a wise move either.
09/28/2011
indiglo indiglo
We do this occasionally, but it is not foreplay for us. We will sometimes talk about past experiences, but it is definitely not a turn on for either of us.
09/28/2011
Sex'и'Violence Sex'и'Violence
Yes we do this and it is a turn on for both of us- however it's one sided in the sense that I don't want to hear about his previous experiences, but I enjoy sharing/he loves listening.
09/28/2011
hyacinthgirl hyacinthgirl
I do this with my sub sometimes. Every once in awhile I want to hear about his history, but mostly it just really gets him turned on to hear about my history, such as it is. I don't really know why, since I've had one partner and never really did anything too crazy. Then again, he just seems to be really turned on by the idea of me with another man.
09/28/2011
CreamySweet CreamySweet
Quote:
Originally posted by UnknownGirl
My husband has always been curious about my past sexual experiences. He'd want to know specific things such as; how many people did I do certain things with, size of past partners, what were some of my best sexual encounters, etc. At first I ...
Because we have a sexually open relationship yes. I share all of the juicy detail with my husband about my adventures and exploits. We have never hidden things from our past from each other such as our number of past partners, how and where we did stuff and what was good, bad, worked well and didnt. As an example today while my husband was on his three hour drive home from work my gym trainer boytoy called and asked if he could come by fo a quicki. I asked my husband who said sure have fun. Boytoy came over for a 30 minute quicki and fucked me silly. When we were done I text my husband and told him about the nice bj I started with followed by my riding him and him flipping me over and doing me to intense mutual orgasm. I sent some pics of my freshly done pussy and that I couldnt wait for him to get home to let me play with him. We enjoy talking about it and keep no secrets!!
09/28/2011
Mister CreamySweet Mister CreamySweet
Quote:
Originally posted by UnknownGirl
My husband has always been curious about my past sexual experiences. He'd want to know specific things such as; how many people did I do certain things with, size of past partners, what were some of my best sexual encounters, etc. At first I ...
We have open discussion about it all the time. Its so just general conversation for us its like Hey, Did you remember to take the trash out? What would you like for dinner? Did xxxxxxx cum inside you today when you two played? eTC eTC.... She has told me about most of the things shes done before me and most of the things in detail she does now.
10/07/2011
UnknownGirl UnknownGirl
Thought I'd bump this since there seems to be a few discussions on the front page today about porn of ex lovers. And this thread is kind of an extension of that.
05/08/2012
ViVix ViVix
Quote:
Originally posted by UnknownGirl
My husband has always been curious about my past sexual experiences. He'd want to know specific things such as; how many people did I do certain things with, size of past partners, what were some of my best sexual encounters, etc. At first I ...
Some guys I'm with ask and seem to be into it. Others don't, and I don't volunteer that info (or try not to at least).
05/08/2012
Feisty Feisty
it would be a turn off for me
05/08/2012
Istanbull Istanbull
She has no prior exploits to talk with me about, ha ha.
05/09/2012
bayosgirl bayosgirl
No way. That would NOT go over very well with the husband. He gets upset when I even mention my ex in a non-sexual context.
05/09/2012
joja joja
We talk about it for fun sometimes, but it's not a sexual thing.
05/09/2012
Deeder Deeder
Sometimes my husband will tell me of some of the crazier things he's done (like when his ex just wouldn't come to accept that things were over between them, so he "accidentally" peed on her when she followed him in the shower), but nothing in the realms of "sexy talk".

Since I have no past experience, well, suffice it to say it'd be a short conversation.
05/09/2012
Chilipepper Chilipepper
I'm open to talking about it. I really can't get turned on by it, so I like to ask out of curiosity about what they've done, etc. Although most every guy I've been with doesn't want to know about mine and won't share his with me. I asked my former-Master about that ... it was like pulling teeth, but he finally said "They don't have anything to do with us."
05/09/2012
Ilovelingerie Ilovelingerie
Quote:
Originally posted by UnknownGirl
My husband has always been curious about my past sexual experiences. He'd want to know specific things such as; how many people did I do certain things with, size of past partners, what were some of my best sexual encounters, etc. At first I ...
No, we don't have past partners... but if we did that would be a HUGE turn OFF
05/09/2012
Total posts: 21
Unique posters: 20