it seems when im not suppose to be with someone it is always better then when its ok. like sneaking around with a friend you dont want everyone to know kind of thing. or doing it in public. or with someone in the next room. that kind of stuff. but when there is no threat, its not as fun for me, am i weird? i enjoy it still. just not as much. anyone else like that?
does fear of getting caught turn you on?
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I've never really enjoyed sneaking around or doing the 'forbidden' to be honest. Even when I was 'allowed' to cheat (his way of making the playing field even) I didn't because I can't keep that to myself, I like sharing the experience too much. Couldn't keep the fact that I was with my lifepartner from people...it just is better when I can share WHY I am so happy.
Originally posted by
paralax
it seems when im not suppose to be with someone it is always better then when its ok. like sneaking around with a friend you dont want everyone to know kind of thing. or doing it in public. or with someone in the next room. that kind of stuff. but
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it seems when im not suppose to be with someone it is always better then when its ok. like sneaking around with a friend you dont want everyone to know kind of thing. or doing it in public. or with someone in the next room. that kind of stuff. but when there is no threat, its not as fun for me, am i weird? i enjoy it still. just not as much. anyone else like that?
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09/11/2010
Actually, I would say the opposite happens for me. The fear of getting caught makes me less aroused and I dont have as much fun :-(
However, some of my partners have liked this a lot and I have never understood it lol.
However, some of my partners have liked this a lot and I have never understood it lol.
09/11/2010
Yeah, definitely it turns me on. When we have guests staying overnight, it's always fun to have sex then, because it's sometimes more pleasureable than normal times, because of that fear of being caught.
09/11/2010
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Yeah, me too.
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Waterfall
Actually, I would say the opposite happens for me. The fear of getting caught makes me less aroused and I dont have as much fun :-(
However, some of my partners have liked this a lot and I have never understood it lol.
However, some of my partners have liked this a lot and I have never understood it lol.
09/11/2010
As a teen this was a common issue - then once we had kids and the issue resurfaced. I can't say that I find it a turn-on but it has an ever present concern. With the kids now in college it's a relief not to have to be concerned.
09/11/2010
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Nope, turns me off
Originally posted by
paralax
it seems when im not suppose to be with someone it is always better then when its ok. like sneaking around with a friend you dont want everyone to know kind of thing. or doing it in public. or with someone in the next room. that kind of stuff. but
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it seems when im not suppose to be with someone it is always better then when its ok. like sneaking around with a friend you dont want everyone to know kind of thing. or doing it in public. or with someone in the next room. that kind of stuff. but when there is no threat, its not as fun for me, am i weird? i enjoy it still. just not as much. anyone else like that?
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09/13/2010
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yes yes yes. i love that feeling
Originally posted by
paralax
it seems when im not suppose to be with someone it is always better then when its ok. like sneaking around with a friend you dont want everyone to know kind of thing. or doing it in public. or with someone in the next room. that kind of stuff. but
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more
it seems when im not suppose to be with someone it is always better then when its ok. like sneaking around with a friend you dont want everyone to know kind of thing. or doing it in public. or with someone in the next room. that kind of stuff. but when there is no threat, its not as fun for me, am i weird? i enjoy it still. just not as much. anyone else like that?
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09/14/2010
It makes me nervous and feels like a distraction. I like being in public or watched I just don't want to make people upset!!
09/14/2010
No, this makes things completely worse, but I have a huge anxiety issue which makes sense as to why it makes it worse, lol.
09/14/2010
I enjoy the risk of being caught in public very much. Also having sex in say the living room while the roommate is in the bedroom. Very fun!
12/14/2010
Yes - it always heightens the excitement!
12/14/2010
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