I was just starting this discussion to see if anyone ever got sad when there partner can't orgasm during sex. I am sad at the moment because the last week or so my man hasn't been able to get off inside me. He will do me and get me off then he'll jack off and I guess it makes me kinda sad because it makes me feel like I'm not turning him on enough to the point where he can get off. We have talked about it and he says it's not me. He is a really crazy skateboarded and rollerblader and says that his muscles are just to tight to orgasm when he doing me. I don't know has anyone else had this experience?