Does Size Matter?

PonyPlay PonyPlay
So it's the age old question does the size of a guys penis really matter? Is bigger better? Or is it bad to be too big?
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
Yes it 100% matters!
14  (13%)
I think it matter 50% of the time depending on the people...
18  (17%)
It's not the size that matters it's how you use it!
69  (63%)
Other... Let me explain...
8  (7%)
Total votes: 109
Poll is closed
08/11/2010
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Midway through Midway through
Depends. I'd say anything below 3 inches is gonna be like wtf, but I mean, I see a lot of guys say they're small and they ended up just being average so I really didn't see the problem.
08/11/2010
Jul!a Jul!a
For me, bigger hurts. I much prefer the average to smaller size guy
08/11/2010
gone77 gone77
If all I want to do with a guy is fuck him, then yeah, size might matter to me. But, as we all know, there's so much more to sex than intercourse. If I truly cared about the guy and especially if there was relationship material there, I'd care more about his personality and behavior than what's between his legs.
08/11/2010
deadpoet deadpoet
Too me, it doesn't matter. I have had boyfriends that ranged from all different sizes.
08/11/2010
PonyPlay PonyPlay
I feel like to matters to some degree. For me it matters both ways if they are way to big then that can hurt but if they are way to small I myswell figure myself. But if I really loved the person I would try to make it work. I don't know if I could deal with a 2in penis though.
08/11/2010
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Off course size matters - when people say it doesn't, they generally mean that anything in the 'normal range' is fine as long as it's attached to someone who knows how to use it. If someone is too small - they will have a hard time providing their partner with adequate stimulation - likewise someone too large can be painful for some.

When I say size does matter - I'm simply saying that the within a normal range - being on the larger side is preferable to smaller.

As hetero male I have no direct experience - passing along what the wife tells me about her preferences.
08/11/2010
Alicia Alicia
Quote:
Originally posted by Midway through
Depends. I'd say anything below 3 inches is gonna be like wtf, but I mean, I see a lot of guys say they're small and they ended up just being average so I really didn't see the problem.
I think men have this idea that "the norm" is a lot larger than it actually is. A lot of men who think they're small are actually average.
08/11/2010
Alicia Alicia
Quote:
Originally posted by PonyPlay
So it's the age old question does the size of a guys penis really matter? Is bigger better? Or is it bad to be too big?
It matters to an extent. There is a large range in which I don't think it really matters (the average range). But then you have really small where it's going to not be able to be felt as much. I think girth is more important than length. Then you have too big..either too long or too wide and that can just be painful and there's limited positions.

So, I guess "size matters" but that doesn't mean that bigger is better. I actually prefer average size. Feels good in the hand, easy to give oral the way I like to give oral without gagging, large enough that it gives good pleasure and not so large that we have to be careful in certain positions.

I can say though that I've been with a wide range of sizes and the guy who had the smallest of them all (he had average girth but was pretty short) was actually the guy who was the second best in bed (behind my husband). The guy who had the largest was the one with whom sex, both oral and PIV, was the most awkward. Once I was with a guy who had an extremely curved and extremely small penis, it was about the width of a thumb and not much longer than my pointer finger, I didn't actually ever have sex with him, but I have to say that even fooling around with him was pretty awkward and I have to wonder if it could even really be felt much during sex.


I guess I somewhat agree with Gunsmoke, except that I do not think that " within a normal range - being on the larger side is preferable to smaller." I have actually found that in that range it doesn't really matter and it's more about how you use it. It only matters to me when it's beyond the normal range whether it be above or below that range.
08/11/2010
Hannah Savage Hannah Savage
For me, size does not matter as much as the affection of the man wielding the weenie. But there is definitely a limit for me. You CAN be too big, guys! Some of us don't like our cervix smashed into our rib cage or feeling like we're birthing a child in reverse. Some of us do. I'm just not one of them.
08/11/2010
Coralbell Coralbell
I have only been with one guy but I actually wish he was a bit smaller.
08/11/2010
Liz2 Liz2
I was with one very big guy once but he didn't know how to use it and cared very little for my feelings. He just thought he had it all...what a jerk he was.
08/13/2010
Heather Heather
Quote:
Originally posted by Gunsmoke
Off course size matters - when people say it doesn't, they generally mean that anything in the 'normal range' is fine as long as it's attached to someone who knows how to use it. If someone is too small - they will have a hard time ... More
I agree.
08/13/2010
Sera Sera
Quote:
Originally posted by PonyPlay
So it's the age old question does the size of a guys penis really matter? Is bigger better? Or is it bad to be too big?
Size is definitely not what matters, it's how you're using it, and how much love you use it for. It also depends on if you're in love or not! That's when the love making parts are really amazing and the penis does it's job!
08/14/2010
PonyPlay PonyPlay
Quote:
Originally posted by Sera
Size is definitely not what matters, it's how you're using it, and how much love you use it for. It also depends on if you're in love or not! That's when the love making parts are really amazing and the penis does it's job!
I'll agree with this because even if my mans penis fell off one day I would find a way to make it work because I him!
08/14/2010
Alura Une Alura Une
I have only had one man. He's a bit over average and I am very happy with what he has. If he suddenly and magically grew any longer, I think we'd have to do some things differently. With his current size, sometimes my insides feel a little punched. If I was happy with a man's approach in bed and in general, I think I could be very happy even if he was smaller.
08/14/2010
Envy Envy
It's how you use it, duh!
08/14/2010
Persephone's Addiction Persephone's Addiction
I voted yes - not because "bigger is better" but because there is a zone of "ah, yes" flanked on the smaller side with boredom and the larger side with pain. If it's not bumping my cervix, it's not going to be an exciting ride. Anything longer than that is a waste and more of an obstacle to work around than a source of pleasure. Regarding girth though, I don't have much of an opinion.
09/29/2010
pinkzombie pinkzombie
Quote:
Originally posted by PonyPlay
So it's the age old question does the size of a guys penis really matter? Is bigger better? Or is it bad to be too big?
I think there is a too big. But also a too small. An average size or slightly larger is what I prefer. 6/7 "
11/20/2010
celibacysucks celibacysucks
Quote:
Originally posted by PonyPlay
So it's the age old question does the size of a guys penis really matter? Is bigger better? Or is it bad to be too big?
The only men who have been able to get me off during straight intercourse were well endowed. Take that as you will.
11/20/2010
zeebot zeebot
Size matters to a certain extent...too big and it's just painful, too small only becomes an issue if you can't feel anything.
02/25/2011
sbon sbon
I think it all depends on how it is used and combined with other activities
02/25/2011
Shellz31 Shellz31
As long as the guy knows how to use it properly, then it's all good.
Although, I don't like guys who are overly long - my cervix doesn't like being rammed into next week!
05/01/2011
kelaaa33wish kelaaa33wish
For me if its a penis 5-7 inches, then it wouldn't matter. Anything under 5 inches would be too small for me and if it over 9 inches then it would be too big for me.
05/01/2011
Teaser Teaser
Gawd, I hope it doesn't matter TOO much. (But now I'm showing my insecurities) I would guess that I am small-average, whatever the heck that means, but I really don't have a, er, good way, to compare. My wife, to the best of my knowledge has never been with another man, so I can't even get a good reading from her.
Here's what I think I know. There are certain positions that we have tried in the past that she said were uncomfortable. She said I was too deep, and I would agree. I bought her a rabbit vibrator a while back that she was never able to insert no mater what we tried. We even tried a lubricated condom AND astroglide, but no luck. She said it was too big around. Now, I looked at it, and I didn't think it was really much, if any bigger than me, but she said it was.
So I guess maybe size DOES matter, but maybe too big is worse than to small? (I hope)
05/01/2011
Kilgorescowboy Kilgorescowboy
Quote:
Originally posted by PonyPlay
So it's the age old question does the size of a guys penis really matter? Is bigger better? Or is it bad to be too big?
im happy with what i got, and my girlfriend is to
05/10/2011
Bunnycups Bunnycups
As long as the size isn't below average then it doesn't matter, so I voted for it's how you use it.
05/10/2011
Sex'и'Violence Sex'и'Violence
Size is super important for me. Firstly because I love that "full" feeling during sex. and secondly I find that I'm not actually attracted to smaller penises. Like if I see a big dick I'll be turned on. If I see a small one I'm either indifferent or amused in a "ha ha" kind of way.
08/05/2011
Callisto Callisto
Quote:
Originally posted by PonyPlay
So it's the age old question does the size of a guys penis really matter? Is bigger better? Or is it bad to be too big?
Doesn't matter to me.. it's how you use it basically.

Been with someone around 5" and 1" 1/2 and he made me cum (first time ever during sex without toy help..) and been with 9" and around 1" 3/4 and he didn't do ANYTHING for me.

I think the point has been made :x
08/06/2011
CreamySweet CreamySweet
Quote:
Originally posted by PonyPlay
So it's the age old question does the size of a guys penis really matter? Is bigger better? Or is it bad to be too big?
Ok....Size as long is the cock is average then its how well they use it and how long it lasts. I dated a guy once who was super hot and could kiss better then anyone else I have ever had... but he had a very small cock. He also wouldn't eat my pussy and freaked when I tired to suck it a few times. So he was a no-go in the long term. I also had a guy who was... wait I have had two now... one was about 11 inches long but it made it so long it was hard to keep it from bending. The last big cock I had was an afternoon hook-up with a gym trainer. OMG!!! Huge dick! That I could feel in my throat when he was in my pussy. And about as big around as a 20 OZ soda bottle - no kidding - did him twice and waiting for round three some day!!!
08/16/2011
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