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Bubba29 Bubba29
Does the thought of watching your partner having hot, passionate sex with someone else make you...
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Excited/Horny
10  (18%)
Furious/Jealous
45  (82%)
Total votes: 55
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02/01/2013
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Bubba29 Bubba29
Although it's never happened, I get very excited thinking about watching my wife really enjoying herself with another man. I just love to see her feeling great and enjoying herself. Not sure how I would react if the situation actually became a reality but the fantasy gets me very hot.
02/01/2013
Freyja9 Freyja9
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Originally posted by Bubba29
Does the thought of watching your partner having hot, passionate sex with someone else make you...
Neither. I really do not care.
02/01/2013
Chilipepper Chilipepper
It's hard enough hearing him talk about ex-girlfriends (even if it is only about how insane they are). I suspect I would end up being one of those black-out murderers if I ever walk in on such a thing. (I've made it clear to him that if he wants to play in someone else's sandbox, he can count on our relationship being over. He respects that.) (Yes, I'm a close-minded hardass who doesn't share. Nyah.)
02/01/2013
PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
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Originally posted by Chilipepper
It's hard enough hearing him talk about ex-girlfriends (even if it is only about how insane they are). I suspect I would end up being one of those black-out murderers if I ever walk in on such a thing. (I've made it clear to him that if he ...
This sounds about right!

For fantasy, everything going exactly the way I would like it to...sure, it's a fun thought. But for real? NO WAY!
02/01/2013
llellsee llellsee
I'd be the type to get jealous, and maybe furious
02/01/2013
travelnurse travelnurse
I honestly just don't see that happening.
02/01/2013
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
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Originally posted by Bubba29
Although it's never happened, I get very excited thinking about watching my wife really enjoying herself with another man. I just love to see her feeling great and enjoying herself. Not sure how I would react if the situation actually became a ...
I agree - the mental picture is very hot to me. Neither of us could deal with it in reality - so it'll never happen. I'm sure she would be aghast if I told her that I fantasize about it.
02/01/2013
Geogeo Geogeo
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Originally posted by Bubba29
Does the thought of watching your partner having hot, passionate sex with someone else make you...
I feel like it would bother me if I weren't involved also
02/01/2013
shorejen9 shorejen9
No way! I get very upset if I even imagine him with an ex and I know all about his past and I'm okay with it but picturing it is another story. I don't share! Lol
02/01/2013
KayYJelly KayYJelly
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Originally posted by Chilipepper
It's hard enough hearing him talk about ex-girlfriends (even if it is only about how insane they are). I suspect I would end up being one of those black-out murderers if I ever walk in on such a thing. (I've made it clear to him that if he ...
Pretty much !

Aha I don't even like my boyfriend LOOKING at other women. I have plenty of friends who are poly and I love them all, but I could never do it. I don't think I'm necessarily close minded, I just don't like sharing and I'm very possessive. It probably has a lot to do with quite a few ex's being abusive and unfaithful (I had such good taste before I met my current) and it did a number on my self esteem. Now even the thought of him looking at another girl makes me want to rip my hair out and then cry under the covers for days.

But with all that being said I'm probably not the most stable person ever haha
02/01/2013
F1akaLuvsE.F F1akaLuvsE.F
I would be super jelous, I know all his life pretty much and even the thought of it makes me insane! And I know its the same way with him..
Besides I feel I couldnt make love to anyone else because he is the only one in my eyes that turns me on that much.
I know he feels the same way because he tells me almost everyday. So my answer is I think I would be jelous & furious because I dont want to share my husband with anyone..
02/01/2013
BrittaniMaree BrittaniMaree
Not a fan of that LMAO maybe later on but we have to work on our issues before involving another like that
02/01/2013
Lea Ann Pruitt Lea Ann Pruitt
Furious
02/01/2013
novanilla novanilla
It depends. If it's someone of my own sex, then I don't like that, but if it's someone of the opposite sex than myself, I don't care as much.

I think it's because I feel like I can't/don't want to be a man, so if someone wants to be with a man, I'd rather them just go be with a man once or twice. However, if someone is going to choose another woman over me, it makes me feel inadequate. This goes for if I date a woman or a man, as someone who dates both!
02/01/2013
happywaffle34 happywaffle34
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Originally posted by Bubba29
Does the thought of watching your partner having hot, passionate sex with someone else make you...
Furious/Jealous
02/01/2013
hmb12 hmb12
No, definitely dont want that, nor am i interested in the fantasy
02/01/2013
indiglo indiglo
We have both decided to by monogamous. So the idea of doing something contrary to that is NOT hot or exciting to me.
02/01/2013
Stinkytofu10 Stinkytofu10
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Originally posted by Bubba29
Does the thought of watching your partner having hot, passionate sex with someone else make you...
Furious/Jealous
02/01/2013
Falsepast Falsepast
I'd leave them instantly
02/01/2013
Terri69 Terri69
Furious!!!!
02/01/2013
chicmichiw chicmichiw
Um...well. Just visually, sure that's hot! But he's the sort of guy who'd only have sex if he had feelings for the other person, which would make me jealous.
02/01/2013
sillylilkitten sillylilkitten
The thought of him doing it when I'm not there makes me really jealous, even though I've given him my okay to do so. We're long distance, so we've agreed that it's okay to play with other people when we're apart, even though neither of us has really wanted to yet. But in a group sex scenario it can be fun, even if I'm still a bit jealous.
02/01/2013
damnbul12 damnbul12
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Originally posted by Bubba29
Does the thought of watching your partner having hot, passionate sex with someone else make you...
Horny and Jealous
02/01/2013
FLIPxMODE FLIPxMODE
furious/jealous
02/01/2013
The Vixen The Vixen
It depends on how I'm feeling at the moment but sometimes a mix of both, other times just cranky.
02/02/2013
BlooJay BlooJay
I don't think I would like that too much, even though it would probably turn me on and make me mad.
02/02/2013
minstrel69 minstrel69
I couldn't vote because I would have to say both answers might be correct. Or maybe I just don't know how I would feel. I sometimes think it would be a turn on and other times feel I would be jealous. I think I would definitely have to be involved at the same time. Probably never happen though.
02/02/2013
K101 K101
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Originally posted by Bubba29
Does the thought of watching your partner having hot, passionate sex with someone else make you...
Can't say I'd really be down with that.
02/02/2013
Rory Rory
I'll share my food but not my man!
02/02/2013
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