Does your lover care about your orgasm?

LilKuuipo LilKuuipo
I'm just curious, does anyone else have a lover that wants to make sure you have at least one orgasm before he does? It surprised me when my man was watching a YouTube video that taught people how to make a girl squirt when she orgasms. It wasn't the type of video that shocked me, it was that he was actually doing his homework on how to make sure I have multiple strong orgasms when ever we had sex. Please, don't get me wrong, I am NOT complaining. I am just curious to know, how important is making your partner orgasm to men in general? I mean, I freakin love this man!! He did his homework on how to make sure I Orgasm every time.
08/04/2013
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C&K0143 C&K0143
It’s of the utmost importance for me to make my wife feel as good as possible in bed. I’ll do anything I can to make sure she has the most orgasmic experience possible which after nine years, has become fairly easy in terms of technique and understanding what she wants. - C
08/04/2013
RonLee RonLee
I wish my lover was as interested in my orgasm as I am in hers...
08/04/2013
matry matry
it's definitely important to both of us. sometimes we can get frustrated with each other though because i will tell him i want him to come but he says he's waiting for me.. it's like we are too insistent that the other is feeling good and orgasms, lol. PIV sex can get uncomfortable for me once i've had my turn though, so if i do before him i'll do something else to get him there, and vice versa.
08/05/2013
Gr8pumpkin Gr8pumpkin
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Originally posted by matry
it's definitely important to both of us. sometimes we can get frustrated with each other though because i will tell him i want him to come but he says he's waiting for me.. it's like we are too insistent that the other is feeling good and ... More
I always strive to get my lady off first before I take my pleasure. I can take a very long time to orgasm and if we wait for me to go first, she may get sore and not want to continue.
Sometimes I wish I could get off fast, I never was a minute man even when I was young, it causes problems at times, but my lovers seemed to like the fact that I could wait for them and not leave them wanting. In any event, her pleasure is primary in my opinion, I can always get another chance or take care of myself if necessary.
08/05/2013
SecretKinksters SecretKinksters
He always makes sure I get mine, and more than once, before he even thinks amount getting his. I'm a lucky girl!!!
08/05/2013
LilKuuipo LilKuuipo
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Originally posted by C&K0143
It’s of the utmost importance for me to make my wife feel as good as possible in bed. I’ll do anything I can to make sure she has the most orgasmic experience possible which after nine years, has become fairly easy in terms of technique and ... More
That's cool. I had asked a couple of my girlfriends if they had ever been with anyone that took time to, you know, make sure they were satisfied. I was surprised when none of them said yes! I'm in no way complaining about past boyfriends. I just never had a man actually look for other techniques to pleasing me. I of course was very happy to return the good deed! As no good deed goes unpunished, although I do save special treats for special moments.
08/06/2013
LilKuuipo LilKuuipo
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Originally posted by matry
it's definitely important to both of us. sometimes we can get frustrated with each other though because i will tell him i want him to come but he says he's waiting for me.. it's like we are too insistent that the other is feeling good and ... More
LOL, thats funny because we do the same thing. Sometimes I just get tired or my legs just start to hurt. Thats why he had started looking for other ways to get me really going until I just erupt, he says sometimes I take too long. Now thats one I've never heard before, but whatever. We love when we do it together. I appreciate him so much more because of that though. It makes me feel special because, well I dunno, it just does. The fact that he is even more of a freak than I am is another part of him that drives me crazy happy ;0)
08/06/2013
LilKuuipo LilKuuipo
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Originally posted by Gr8pumpkin
I always strive to get my lady off first before I take my pleasure. I can take a very long time to orgasm and if we wait for me to go first, she may get sore and not want to continue.
Sometimes I wish I could get off fast, I never was a minute man ... More
I think it's cool to hear that men to actually care about their females need and wants. My boyfriend says it feels so much more silkier too after I have erupted. I tell you one things for sure, it's enough to ensure I'll never want any other man. If it's that serious, there's always my boxes full of toys and a secret picture text to him that keeps me cool until he comes home ;0)
08/06/2013
Ansley Ansley
He cares about it a lot more than I do.
08/06/2013
peppermintgal peppermintgal
He always makes sure I come first.
08/06/2013
SecretCouple SecretCouple
Yes! My wife can have an orgasm very quickly and has several during sex. When she has had enough orgasms, she works extra hard for me and 99% of the time she orgasms one last time triggering my orgasm! Nothing feels as good as my wife orgasming with me still inside. From the beginning our sex has been great, but the last few years it has been AWESOME!
08/06/2013
gorgeous gorgeous
My bf is more interested in mine than I am. Its hard for me to normally orgasm, so he always wants to try and get me off. I can get him off multiple times in a row. It doesn't bother me if I don't orgasm and he does, but it bothers him a little bit.
08/06/2013
Darklyvan Darklyvan
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Originally posted by LilKuuipo
I'm just curious, does anyone else have a lover that wants to make sure you have at least one orgasm before he does? It surprised me when my man was watching a YouTube video that taught people how to make a girl squirt when she orgasms. It ... More
my orgasm is more important to him than his own
08/08/2013
libbyv libbyv
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Originally posted by LilKuuipo
I'm just curious, does anyone else have a lover that wants to make sure you have at least one orgasm before he does? It surprised me when my man was watching a YouTube video that taught people how to make a girl squirt when she orgasms. It ... More
he usually helps me get off first
08/09/2013
lana'sart lana'sart
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Originally posted by RonLee
I wish my lover was as interested in my orgasm as I am in hers...
I agree
08/09/2013
unicorn64 unicorn64
I had several lovers, not of whom cared if I had an orgasm, thus at 64 I feel cheated. Most of my men were interested in getting themselves off in fact told me women don't orgasm. I said then why do it. To satisfy me is what they said.
08/10/2013
Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
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Originally posted by LilKuuipo
I'm just curious, does anyone else have a lover that wants to make sure you have at least one orgasm before he does? It surprised me when my man was watching a YouTube video that taught people how to make a girl squirt when she orgasms. It ... More
Both of my partners feel very selfish and horrible if they achieve orgasm and leave me "hanging". It can sometimes be a bit of a bother if I am just interested in giving pleasure. I'm not complaining I think it's amazing and I also feel badly if my partners do not orgasm when we play.
08/10/2013
softcoeur softcoeur
I'm also lucky to have a generous, caring lover who loves to make sure I come, either before or after him.
08/10/2013
kistme kistme
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Originally posted by LilKuuipo
I'm just curious, does anyone else have a lover that wants to make sure you have at least one orgasm before he does? It surprised me when my man was watching a YouTube video that taught people how to make a girl squirt when she orgasms. It ... More
This one makes me laugh... but in a GOOD way.

My Master not only makes sure I get satisfied... I think He also uses it as punishment. (odd as that sounds)

Early in our relationship, he figured out how to trigger me to cum on command. He takes great delight in triggering this in the strangest of places. Multiple times.

To the point I have to beg for rest or beg for him to stop.
08/11/2013
Happy Kupple Happy Kupple
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Originally posted by Airen Wolf
Both of my partners feel very selfish and horrible if they achieve orgasm and leave me "hanging". It can sometimes be a bit of a bother if I am just interested in giving pleasure. I'm not complaining I think it's amazing and I also ... More
Partners? Mmmmmm, cool
08/11/2013
Feisty Feisty
He loves it when I orgasm so he always makes sure I get one.
08/13/2013
Diablotin Diablotin
I always do my best to make my wife cum before I do, but sometimes she resists and get the upper hands. ;-)
08/13/2013
Minamie Minamie
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Originally posted by Diablotin
I always do my best to make my wife cum before I do, but sometimes she resists and get the upper hands. ;-)
Indeed. Diablotin always think that I got to be pleased first, even when I'm the one who wants him pleased and I don't really care if I come or not. He also did his homewords with books and videos. He's truly a devoted man.
08/13/2013
Gluesnffr Gluesnffr
It turns me on so much when my girl orgasms so I always do my best to please her.
08/13/2013
Thong man Thong man
I try and make her have one first. I like a lot of foreplay so that helps. I just stop her if I feel that I am getting too close.
08/14/2013
babyrock babyrock
same here. if she comes first then I usually end up a happier man.
08/27/2013
G&L G&L
I always try my hardest to make sure she comes as often as possible. I get pleasure from her pleasure.
09/10/2013
~*Damia*~ ~*Damia*~
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Originally posted by LilKuuipo
I'm just curious, does anyone else have a lover that wants to make sure you have at least one orgasm before he does? It surprised me when my man was watching a YouTube video that taught people how to make a girl squirt when she orgasms. It ... More
mine really doesnt.... kinda sad really
09/10/2013
cmm cmm
I always care. I'm always the last to get off.
09/10/2013
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