Faking an orgasm

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Faking an orgasm

DeliciousDrip DeliciousDrip
So there were a few times that my X and i were making love and i would not cum for NOTHING , and believe me he tried everything!! IDK , i got really tired and so i just faked it so he wouldn't feel bad or anything! Was i wrong for doing that? Have you ever faked an orgasm?
08/21/2011
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froggiemoma froggiemoma
I used to do it with my ex also haven't with my current bf there hasn't been a need.
08/21/2011
Yaoi Pervette (deleted) Yaoi Pervette (deleted)
I can honestly say I've never faked.
08/21/2011
Ansley Ansley
My opinion on this is two-fold---it's great that you want to not hurt his feelings, but at the same time you might be encouraging acts or behaviors that turn you off or just don't turn you on. I feel like either partner should be able to speak up and say "honey, this isn't doing it for me...mind if we try something else?", I just think that's the fair and mature thing to do.
08/21/2011
Ghost Ghost
You aren't wrong, but I would never fake anything.
08/21/2011
Mistress Mandy Mistress Mandy
In my experience, there are some days where you just aren't going to get off no matter what you do. When that happens I'll tell my husband that it isn't working, we'll try a few other things, but if nothing seems to help I tell him not to worry about me. He knows it's not anything wrong with him, just some days I can't quite get there. Some guys will take it personally, but really it's not anything they can do much about. I personally have never, and will never, fake an orgasm though. Like Sapphire Storm said, it can make him think you enjoy things that don't actually do anything for you.
08/21/2011
Jenyana Jenyana
Well, I don't like to fake, because I dislike lies in general, and I don't think of it as hurting my partern's feelings. If I'm not getting off with what they do I'd rather tell them what would do it for me instead, and if they get offended by that so be it.
08/21/2011
Naughty Student Naughty Student
I did once with an ex but felt horrible after I did. I never did it again, I just felt like being honest and talking openly were better than harboring negative feelings about faking it.
08/22/2011
DeliciousDrip DeliciousDrip
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Originally posted by Yaoi Pervette (deleted)
I can honestly say I've never faked.
wow!
08/22/2011
DeliciousDrip DeliciousDrip
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Originally posted by Ansley
My opinion on this is two-fold---it's great that you want to not hurt his feelings, but at the same time you might be encouraging acts or behaviors that turn you off or just don't turn you on. I feel like either partner should be able to ...
well , maybe i would if we were still together. thnkx for the advise
08/22/2011
BellaDonna2884 BellaDonna2884
I've never faked it but I have over exaggerated my level of arousal.
08/22/2011
babychika babychika
Ive faked it with some women (the male)
08/22/2011
Starkiller87 Starkiller87
Never. I dont want him thinking I am enjoying that particular action to the point of orgasm or hell keep doing it exactly that way. I tell him what I like, and never lie about my orgasm. That way I get off as well, if hes worth it hes gonna want to get you off too.
08/22/2011
Rossie Rossie
I never fake it, we've been together so long, my man can tell if it's real or not. Besides, there's always a next time!
08/22/2011
Jul!a Jul!a
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Originally posted by Ansley
My opinion on this is two-fold---it's great that you want to not hurt his feelings, but at the same time you might be encouraging acts or behaviors that turn you off or just don't turn you on. I feel like either partner should be able to ...
Exactly. Because if you pretend to like it for so long, then change your mind and want to work on things then you can be seen as a liar even if you were just trying to protect your significant other. That being said, my ex had accused me of faking a few times but I've never seen the point in faking it so I never have. If I didn't finish I'd say so.
08/22/2011
Ansley Ansley
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Originally posted by Jul!a
Exactly. Because if you pretend to like it for so long, then change your mind and want to work on things then you can be seen as a liar even if you were just trying to protect your significant other. That being said, my ex had accused me of faking ...
Yep, yep. I've never faked it and I don't think I ever considered it. Now, I have been a total douche and literally pushed someone off of me and yelled "STOP IT, RIGHT NOW". That was awkward. But, effective nonetheless. To elaborate, this wasn't my favorite person in the world and I had been trying to find a way out for months. It was a triad situation, so I had more than just myself to think about in the end.
08/22/2011
Diabolical Kitty Diabolical Kitty
Yup I've faked it because I sometimes can't get off and I've had partners wouldn't stop until I came. I would fake it just so they'd stop.
08/22/2011
ParisLove ParisLove
HaHA maybe once or twice because I wasnt in the mood and I just wanted it to be done because sometime he wante to make sure I cum first and he feels better so he could cum. But maybe 2 or 3 times i've faked Other than that nope.
08/22/2011
Peggi Peggi
Used to fake all the time in the past, don't have to anymore, I don't think it's wrong, better they not be hurt thinking they're doing something wrong, sometimes, it's just impossible for you to reach that wonderful orgasm during sex!
08/27/2011
DeliciousDrip DeliciousDrip
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Originally posted by Peggi
Used to fake all the time in the past, don't have to anymore, I don't think it's wrong, better they not be hurt thinking they're doing something wrong, sometimes, it's just impossible for you to reach that wonderful orgasm during sex!
08/28/2011
DeliciousDrip DeliciousDrip
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Originally posted by babychika
Ive faked it with some women (the male)
Huh ? lol i didn't think it was possible for a guy to fake cuming !
08/28/2011
babychika babychika
Well there was just faking the orgasm. The supposed "cum" in the condom was never shown...
08/29/2011
Ansley Ansley
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Originally posted by DeliciousDrip
Huh ? lol i didn't think it was possible for a guy to fake cuming !
Oh, it is. It definitely is. Especially if there is a condom involved.
08/29/2011
babychika babychika
Though some of you women have become experts at it, us guys look just plain silly
08/29/2011
LilLostLenore LilLostLenore
ive faked before with one ex.
10/05/2011
CreamySweet CreamySweet
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Originally posted by DeliciousDrip
So there were a few times that my X and i were making love and i would not cum for NOTHING , and believe me he tried everything!! IDK , i got really tired and so i just faked it so he wouldn't feel bad or anything! Was i wrong for doing that? ...
Ok this is a tough and serious one for me... I faked a couple times with my husband And one day when he asked if I ever did I said yes a couple time -not wanting to lie about it. It... that... did not go well. I could not believe how hurt he was by me doing it. I would say by me admitting it but you know what? The hurtful act was on me for faking in the first place. It caused a huge and lasting issue for him and his confidence. Not because I didnt cum but because I faked. He often still years later will ask "Did you really cum? Or were you just pretending?" Not every time... but often enough I can tell he still thinks about it... and I see the sadness on his face and in his eyes. He loves me very very much and would do anything for me... and would let me do anything I wanted to sexually to enjoy myself. I feel so bad that it put the fear or worry into our sex lives that didnt need to be there. This is a guy who always -always would eat, finger or toy with me until I came a time or two before he would ever worry about getting off himself. My advice - if it didnt work be honest up front and be a good enough communicator to either say why or what would have made it better. Please dont fake it - even if your pissed off, or they just cant do it right to get you over the top. You wont realize how much it hurts until you do and see the pain that simple fake can cause.

DeliciousDrip I don't think you were wrong because I think you were trying to do a nice thing based on what you said and how you explained your reasoning... I did it for much the same reason though and I have felt bad about it since.
10/05/2011
DeliciousDrip DeliciousDrip
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Originally posted by CreamySweet
Ok this is a tough and serious one for me... I faked a couple times with my husband And one day when he asked if I ever did I said yes a couple time -not wanting to lie about it. It... that... did not go well. I could not believe how hurt he was by ...
Awww mehn, i'm so sorry that ur husband felt that way.But at the same time he could have understood that u were trying to do something to please him in the process. I'm happy i don't have to fake anymore though. && I'm sure u don't do it either!
10/05/2011
DeliciousDrip DeliciousDrip
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Originally posted by babychika
Though some of you women have become experts at it, us guys look just plain silly
Wow, never thought of that! lol
10/05/2011
x203 x203
I'd never fake one because why make the guy think hes doing a good job when hes doing terrible? Id want more enjoyment for myself.
08/19/2012
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