How do you feel (Man/Woman) about Hard sex words?

Ok it is a unique answer,

So what do you consider these words? A praise for example?

Sweet Seduction's response is NOT "unique" at all. It's quite common and normal for many people. You read the answers to your other thread, which was identical to this one right?

But don't you afraid that by time he may use it out side the bed room?

May be he will feels that you are happy to be called by any of these words, so why would he doesn't mind use it out even in front of other people?

its got nothing to do with sex but my husband when hes mad will say bitch or slut. its like grow up seriously cuz i HAVE NEVER had sex but with ONE person in my life = my husband only so how on earth am i a slut? lol i ignore it

lol agreed bout outside bedroom. i ignore it though.

"Dirty little slut" is ok to me when were having dirty king sex But "asshole" as in calling me one would be weird. We have sweer loving sex and dirty kinky sex and many more types but the vocab goes with the scene.

Ok this is a clear one

Bad sex words have nothings to do with sex, I also feel that.. even in hard or rough sex sessions.

My wife keep wondering how this words may turn on the passion!!

Sex is not only a physical action.. No way to describe it like that.
It is a combination between passion and body..

If passion was killed by these bad words, then Sex will just like any other machine movement.

For some people it adds to the thrill and excitement while engaging in scene play. For some people it makes them feel more dominated (which there people into that and there is nothing wrong with that). There are people who are repulsed it (again there is nothing wrong with that). Everyone has different tastes in the bedroom, and that's a great thing. It allow for intimacy and creativity.

For anything that happens in the bedroom, what happens between two people must be mutal in order for it to be pleasurable. For you and others that kind of talk is a turn off. That is your thoughts and that's perfectly ok. However there are other that love it or even get off on it. And that TOO is ok. To those people it doesn't kill the sex or intimacy but adds to it. The beauty of sex is that what one person likes may not be the same thing someone else may like. That's awesome that we all get to explore our sexuality, sex, and intimacy with our partners in ways that are pleasing only to our partners. Because I'm all for pleasing my husband and my husband alone. So I'm. Going to do things that will please him.I am here for his pleasure and vise versa. When my husband is satisfied, But makes me happy and want to find new ways to satisfy him and vise versa.

No. My Man doesn't "use these words outside the bedroom" in situations which are not sexual, because he has an awareness of social proprietry and knows the difference between what is appropriate between two consenting adults, in the privacy of their own bedroom, and the same two people, fully dressed, out in public, among other people while NOT having sex.

People do a lot of things inside the bedroom they would never slip up and "not mind" doing in front of other people.

Does anyone slip up and "doesn't mind" and start giving their partner oral sex in a restaurant or at the mall? Simply because it is "allowed" in the bedroom? Not usually. Most people know the difference between what is appropriate and agreed upon in the bedroom and what is appropriate in front of others.

Dirty Talk is no different.

Some people don't like it. It's hard to understand other people's kinks if you don't share them, but it isn't difficult to respect those kinks in others.

Ok P'Gell
Thanks to keep talking ...

Also, I will use your term "Dirty Talk" instead of "Hard sex words"

I have to say that I don't make any judgement about others actions. No, that not right.
I just go deeper inside the feelings and mental work about some thing I have a right to call it (Weired sex Action). Also, I need a logical and simple mental explination for using this (Dirty talk) during the most wonderfull moment for any couple..

According to what you just said:
You are with me that these "Dirty Talks" have 2 faces for your self. It is allowed by you in a bed room but not allowed -by you- out side in front of people. Based on that I am sure you will be very angry and upset if your husband may call you by any of these words in front of people. You -and any other one- will consider it as an (INSULT) 100%. Why?
Because these words has its own nature of (Filthy).. and have no nature of (Purity). And you P'Gell just called them (DIRTY)..

For that simple reason, I have to jump to a Conclusion, a very important one for married couple:

By using (Dirty Talk) in sex session, two opposite meanings (Purity & Dirty) mixed together in one moment for one word.

Is this statement logically right?

I know it's hard to explain. You said: According to what you just said:
You are with me that these "Dirty Talks" have 2 faces for your self. It is allowed by you in a bed room but not allowed -by you- out side in front of people. Based on that I am sure you will be very angry and upset if your husband may call you by any of these words in front of people. You -and any other one- will consider it as an (INSULT) 100%. Why?

OK, My Man and I joke around LOT! He can, jokingly call me "Bitch" or other things, as a joke. I don't "get very angry and upset" if he called me these words in front of other people, kidding around, as we have an understanding. He doesn't use these words IN A MEAN OR ANGRY WAY, either while we are alone or in front of other people. I don't know how I would respond if he did call me words like this "IN ANGER" but he doesn't do it. We try to stay calm with each other. I am not a woman to get angry at My Man for little things. He also would NEVER use words like "Bitch" "Slut" or things like that in a social setting without humor. And only around people we know it's funny. Not around people like our inlaws or people we don't know well or at a restaurant etc.

Likewise, jokingly, I sometimes call him a "Prick" or an "Asshole" without any anger in it, outside the bedroom, but not around people who would find it offensive, for the most part.

The "Purity & Dirty" mixed is kind of close to the truth. Sometimes things that are known to be "nasty" but fun (like say, anal sex) are MORE fun simply because they are socially "unacceptable" in most places. "Dirty Talk" is exciting for many people because it is forbidden!!!! That's part of the fun. He'd never say things like this to me, unless we were completely sexually aroused or joking around. It's part of the whole thing. "This word is 'forbidden' it makes it more exciting." The same thing for activities like anal sex (at least in part, anal also feels amazing) part, (but not all) of the appeal is the social stigma against such things. My husband and I are into breaking social boundaries,(it's a big part of a lot of people's Kink Lifestyle) whether in the bedroom or other places. But, we still maintain a modicum of propriety (appropriate behavior) when in public or around people we only know causally.

He would no more use "Bedroom talk" or "Dirty Talk" or "Kinky Talk" out in public, than he would take out his penis and expect some action.

Strictly in playtime, some of these might be okay depending on the context...for instance, I may tell my wife as we make love that she is such a nasty girl as she does something, but it is with love and as a form of play.