FOR THE MEN: Are blow jobs better than sex?

Contributor: bobowaxer bobowaxer
I think alot of guys would agree with your husband. A well performed blow job is pure bliss. However, I've had just as intense orgasms from other sex acts including hand jobs, which In my opinion don't get the respect they deserve.For me it depends on my mood at the time.
03/12/2011
Contributor: cobiffle cobiffle
For me it differs sometimes, one of them is that after we have a lot of sex my girl gets a little loose. So thats when orgasm from bf feel better
03/12/2011
Contributor: Sex'и'Violence Sex'и'Violence
Blowjobs are good as a treat when you want a lazy orgasm. Sex is good when you want to work for it and have fun. I like to think of BJs as the male equivalent of a massage.
05/29/2011
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
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Originally posted by UnknownGirl
My husband swears up and down that an orgasm from a great blow job is better than an orgasm from great sex. He can't seem to explain why. He just says that it seems to be much more intense. So, what I'm wondering is if other guys feel the ... more
Both my guys have said it is much more intense but that it isn't preferrable all the time. It's different seems to be the consensus.
05/30/2011
Contributor: big b big b
if shes into realy giving it maybe. but if she acts like its work no.
05/31/2011
Contributor: Linga Linga
Great question and some great responses too
05/31/2011
Contributor: toysforall toysforall
They're both wonderful in their own way. However, nothing beats the real thing.
08/21/2011
Contributor: RonLee RonLee
Absolutely depends on both the desire of the person sucking my cock to bring me to orgasm as well as their skill.
08/21/2011
Contributor: MileHighPilot MileHighPilot
My wife has only taken a blowjob to completion once or twice (meaning finishing in her mouth) -- she gags at the taste.

This has totally ruined the blowjob for me. I don't want her to do something she finds unpleasant, thus, it's just not pleasurable for me.

But, she can (and does!) go down on me to get me up when she wants to get things going. But, it hits a wall and then we have to move on to something else. It's weird.
08/22/2011
Contributor: K101 K101
My partner prefers sex over head any day! He says it's far more powerful than head and has a super hard time getting off any other way besides sex and I've watched him try! We've both tried getting him there with head and hands and it's damn near impossible! I don't get it because when we have intercourse he has no problem at all. I've never met a man who didn't get off with hands and or mouth! I ain't complaining though! Lol. I'd much rather us do it than head. Lol.
08/22/2011
Contributor: spiced spiced
I like both. I've had some AMAZING blowjobs over the years and I remember some uniquely powerful orgasms unlike anything I've had with vaginal or anal sex. I've had partners (including my wife, thank god) who know what they're doing and who love to give head.

I've also had uniquely wonderful orgasms from vaginal and anal sex. All of them are different and all of them were/are wonderful. I wouldn't want to have to choose!
11/11/2012
Contributor: Mynedful Mynedful
Great post, I love all the comments from the guys. Very enlightening!
11/14/2012
Contributor: Martiniman Martiniman
I love blowjobs just like I do handjobs, but sex is always best.
11/14/2012
Contributor: meitman meitman
It might just be because orgasms from blowjobs don't happen for me as often as from sex. I think it's just a bigger deal when it happens from a blowjob and it's more in my head than anything.
11/18/2012
Contributor: RonLee RonLee
Further research is definitely required to make a proper determination.
11/20/2012
Contributor: Incendiaire Incendiaire
They can be, no other orifice has a tongue, and the tongue can do amazing things.
11/20/2012
Contributor: Trysexual Trysexual
I love BJs, so they get the edge.
11/20/2012
Contributor: wicked weasel wicked weasel
I prefer sex, but there are fewer women that give really, really
good BJ's than mind blowing sex.
11/20/2012