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Thank you everybody for your feedback! I am taking it all in deep consideration. Its just so frustrating and I hope it gets better. I will look and see which lube I should use, and hopefully he will not get offended.
Just talk to him about it, honestly
I have a very difficult time getting wet, to the point where it becomes a turn off for me because I just get frustrated and fed up. My mind wants to have sex, but my body doesn't want to comply. But I had a really long talk with my boyfriend after a few no-go sessions and explained to him that even though I wanted nothing more than to jump him right then and there, my body wasn't listening.
He understood (with a lot of reminders about how sexy I found him and how much I wanted him, and how frustrating it was for me to not be able to get wet), and we invested in some lube, and now our sex life is awesome again !!
Seriously, taking the time to get some foreplay going and breaking out a nice bit of lube to help and it takes the stress away of not being able to perform. You can relax and let the lube do that part of the work for you !
Just be careful with the lube you buy, some are less than safe (watch out for glycerin and parabens). Sliquid is really safe and feels natural, and Eden sells it !