Why is it that a lot of guys get so offended when women get up and go to the bathroom after having sex? Besides just cleaning ourselves off - what do they expect have they have been ramming near our bladders for (hopefully) a long time?! I can hold it for maybe 5 minutes - but then I gotta go! I'm curious to know other people's take on this topic...
Going to the Bathroom Right After Sex
04/06/2011
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I don't go within five minutes but both my husband and I always clean up after. This could be anywhere from zero minutes if we're in the shower or more than thirty if we're both tired and snuggly.
If we have sex really often I'm very prone to mild UTIs which are super annoying. It's actually a very healthy and safe to urinate after sex!
If we have sex really often I'm very prone to mild UTIs which are super annoying. It's actually a very healthy and safe to urinate after sex!
04/06/2011
I hardly ever have to pee afterward, but he ALWAYS does.
04/06/2011
I don't always go within 5 mins but definitely within 10. Everytime
04/06/2011
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It's actually recommended that women go to the restroom directly after sex to avoid UTI/bladder infection! I think it might have to do with the fact that women like to roast a man who doesn't want to 'cuddle' after sex...so I could see why a man might get a bit upset if after the fun she is immediately racing off to the restroom. Still it is kinda natural to need to pee after vigorous sex and explaining to your partner that you are preventing a possible infection and making it so you can curl up together comfortably could go along way toward easing that sense of frustration.
Originally posted by
link82
Why is it that a lot of guys get so offended when women get up and go to the bathroom after having sex? Besides just cleaning ourselves off - what do they expect have they have been ramming near our bladders for (hopefully) a long time?! I can hold
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Why is it that a lot of guys get so offended when women get up and go to the bathroom after having sex? Besides just cleaning ourselves off - what do they expect have they have been ramming near our bladders for (hopefully) a long time?! I can hold it for maybe 5 minutes - but then I gotta go! I'm curious to know other people's take on this topic...
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04/06/2011
I don't "rarely" go after sex, but I don't 100% of the time always go either.
I do quite often! It's helpful because I feel cleaner and I usually have to go anyway right after sex-- thrusting up toward my bladder usually does the trick for me lol.
My boyfriend, though, does go almost every time immediately after sex. I understand, though, he can't usually get away with a wipe or two like I can after sex. He has an entire penis and balls to clean up
I do quite often! It's helpful because I feel cleaner and I usually have to go anyway right after sex-- thrusting up toward my bladder usually does the trick for me lol.
My boyfriend, though, does go almost every time immediately after sex. I understand, though, he can't usually get away with a wipe or two like I can after sex. He has an entire penis and balls to clean up
04/06/2011
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Yup, exactly. Urinary tract infections are horrible. It's worth it to quickly go pee and come back and snuggle.
Originally posted by
Airen Wolf
It's actually recommended that women go to the restroom directly after sex to avoid UTI/bladder infection! I think it might have to do with the fact that women like to roast a man who doesn't want to 'cuddle' after sex...so I could
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It's actually recommended that women go to the restroom directly after sex to avoid UTI/bladder infection! I think it might have to do with the fact that women like to roast a man who doesn't want to 'cuddle' after sex...so I could see why a man might get a bit upset if after the fun she is immediately racing off to the restroom. Still it is kinda natural to need to pee after vigorous sex and explaining to your partner that you are preventing a possible infection and making it so you can curl up together comfortably could go along way toward easing that sense of frustration.
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04/06/2011
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I got an infection the first time I decided not to go to the bathroom right after. Worst decision ever
Originally posted by
Airen Wolf
It's actually recommended that women go to the restroom directly after sex to avoid UTI/bladder infection! I think it might have to do with the fact that women like to roast a man who doesn't want to 'cuddle' after sex...so I could
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It's actually recommended that women go to the restroom directly after sex to avoid UTI/bladder infection! I think it might have to do with the fact that women like to roast a man who doesn't want to 'cuddle' after sex...so I could see why a man might get a bit upset if after the fun she is immediately racing off to the restroom. Still it is kinda natural to need to pee after vigorous sex and explaining to your partner that you are preventing a possible infection and making it so you can curl up together comfortably could go along way toward easing that sense of frustration.
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04/06/2011
I always do it before and after, just because I can't do without it.
04/06/2011
I always go after but perhaps more then 5 min. The UTI issue has always motivated me to go afterwards and not wait for hours...honestly I couldn't wait hours anyway after sex.
04/06/2011
I am an "other", I always make sure the wife goes after sex, (She usually does) it is one of the best ways to prevent an UTI. I also go myself, same reason.
04/06/2011
i do it to be safe
04/06/2011
Is it normal if you don't HAVE to pee afterward?
04/06/2011
If I have to pee when we're done, I'll always go to the bathroom, but most of the time I just clean up in our room, then go to sleep. I've been fortunate and haven't had any issues with doing that so far.
04/06/2011
We both get up to clean off and I pee to flush as much bacteria, etc. out. It's recommended by docs and I think it's a good practice.
04/06/2011
DITTO -- I had a nasty UTI infection that just wouldn't go away, a few months back. I had like three courses of antibiotics before finally getting rid of it. So I'm always mindful to pee straight after, it takes seconds and saves so much pain and discomfort in the long run.
04/06/2011
same here
04/06/2011
I also pee right after.
04/07/2011
I don't always go right after but I should since I'm prone to UTI's.
04/07/2011
I don't always go right after sex, but I do more than sometimes. On the flip side, I go right before sex 99% of the time because I find a non-empty bladder to be distracting from getting an orgasm. As for my husband, he doesn't mind my toilet runs on either side AND usually has to use the pot himself within ten to fifteen after sex.
04/07/2011
I usually go before and after sex. He always has to go after sex every time never failing.
04/07/2011
I'm prone to UTI's as well, and as getting one means no sex for 1-2 weeks, he is happy I go right after!
04/07/2011
My girl always does it immedietly and it makes me mad a lot of times. Sometimes im not even done before she goes.
04/07/2011
My boyfriend doesn't seem to care that I go after sex.
04/08/2011
After we are done and satisfied, we both get up and go into the bathroom, with her sitting down first to clean up. It doesn't bother me one bit.
04/08/2011
I always go right after
04/08/2011
My husband's actually the one heading for the bathroom first after sex, I like to relax a little and wait for my turn to clean up when he's finally done.
Ladies, for the sake of keeping UTIs at bay, please start drinking Cranberry juice daily! I think it really works.
Ladies, for the sake of keeping UTIs at bay, please start drinking Cranberry juice daily! I think it really works.
04/08/2011
Going to the bathroom after just seems the healthy thing to do. No complaints about it here.
04/08/2011
I try to, but sometimes I can't (curfew in community style dorms). I cannot wait to have my own bathroom again...
04/08/2011
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usually 5 - 10 min after i go to the bathroom to clean off with a towel or washcloth and bathroom too.
Originally posted by
Liz2
I always go after but perhaps more then 5 min. The UTI issue has always motivated me to go afterwards and not wait for hours...honestly I couldn't wait hours anyway after sex.
04/09/2011