Going to the Bathroom Right After Sex

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Going to the Bathroom Right After Sex

link82 link82
Why is it that a lot of guys get so offended when women get up and go to the bathroom after having sex? Besides just cleaning ourselves off - what do they expect have they have been ramming near our bladders for (hopefully) a long time?! I can hold it for maybe 5 minutes - but then I gotta go! I'm curious to know other people's take on this topic...
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
I am a male and I hate it when my partner uses the restroom within 5 minutes of finishing having sex.
3  (2%)
I am a male and could care less - I'm half asleep anyways!
14  (9%)
I am a female and I always go to the restroom within 5 minutes of finishing having sex.
100  (62%)
I am a female and I rarely/ sometimes use the restroom after having sex.
23  (14%)
I am a female and I hardly ever/ never get up after sex - that's cuddle time!
6  (4%)
Other (please explain)
15  (9%)
Total votes: 161
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04/06/2011
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Lithaewyn Lithaewyn
I don't go within five minutes but both my husband and I always clean up after. This could be anywhere from zero minutes if we're in the shower or more than thirty if we're both tired and snuggly.

If we have sex really often I'm very prone to mild UTIs which are super annoying. It's actually a very healthy and safe to urinate after sex!
04/06/2011
Enchantedkitty Enchantedkitty
I hardly ever have to pee afterward, but he ALWAYS does.
04/06/2011
Linga Linga
I don't always go within 5 mins but definitely within 10. Everytime
04/06/2011
Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
Quote:
Originally posted by link82
Why is it that a lot of guys get so offended when women get up and go to the bathroom after having sex? Besides just cleaning ourselves off - what do they expect have they have been ramming near our bladders for (hopefully) a long time?! I can hold ...
It's actually recommended that women go to the restroom directly after sex to avoid UTI/bladder infection! I think it might have to do with the fact that women like to roast a man who doesn't want to 'cuddle' after sex...so I could see why a man might get a bit upset if after the fun she is immediately racing off to the restroom. Still it is kinda natural to need to pee after vigorous sex and explaining to your partner that you are preventing a possible infection and making it so you can curl up together comfortably could go along way toward easing that sense of frustration.
04/06/2011
tigerkate tigerkate
I don't "rarely" go after sex, but I don't 100% of the time always go either.

I do quite often! It's helpful because I feel cleaner and I usually have to go anyway right after sex-- thrusting up toward my bladder usually does the trick for me lol.

My boyfriend, though, does go almost every time immediately after sex. I understand, though, he can't usually get away with a wipe or two like I can after sex. He has an entire penis and balls to clean up
04/06/2011
Bunnycups Bunnycups
Quote:
Originally posted by Airen Wolf
It's actually recommended that women go to the restroom directly after sex to avoid UTI/bladder infection! I think it might have to do with the fact that women like to roast a man who doesn't want to 'cuddle' after sex...so I could ...
Yup, exactly. Urinary tract infections are horrible. It's worth it to quickly go pee and come back and snuggle.
04/06/2011
darthkitt3n darthkitt3n
Quote:
Originally posted by Airen Wolf
It's actually recommended that women go to the restroom directly after sex to avoid UTI/bladder infection! I think it might have to do with the fact that women like to roast a man who doesn't want to 'cuddle' after sex...so I could ...
I got an infection the first time I decided not to go to the bathroom right after. Worst decision ever
04/06/2011
A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople) A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople)
I always do it before and after, just because I can't do without it.
04/06/2011
Liz2 Liz2
I always go after but perhaps more then 5 min. The UTI issue has always motivated me to go afterwards and not wait for hours...honestly I couldn't wait hours anyway after sex.
04/06/2011
ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
I am an "other", I always make sure the wife goes after sex, (She usually does) it is one of the best ways to prevent an UTI. I also go myself, same reason.
04/06/2011
sexyk515 sexyk515
i do it to be safe
04/06/2011
Enchantedkitty Enchantedkitty
Is it normal if you don't HAVE to pee afterward?
04/06/2011
Jul!a Jul!a
If I have to pee when we're done, I'll always go to the bathroom, but most of the time I just clean up in our room, then go to sleep. I've been fortunate and haven't had any issues with doing that so far.
04/06/2011
liilii080 liilii080
We both get up to clean off and I pee to flush as much bacteria, etc. out. It's recommended by docs and I think it's a good practice.
04/06/2011
naughtyjo naughtyjo
DITTO -- I had a nasty UTI infection that just wouldn't go away, a few months back. I had like three courses of antibiotics before finally getting rid of it. So I'm always mindful to pee straight after, it takes seconds and saves so much pain and discomfort in the long run.
04/06/2011
kawigrl kawigrl
same here
04/06/2011
Mommy2 Mommy2
I also pee right after.
04/07/2011
BadassFatass BadassFatass
I don't always go right after but I should since I'm prone to UTI's.
04/07/2011
KindaLime KindaLime
I don't always go right after sex, but I do more than sometimes. On the flip side, I go right before sex 99% of the time because I find a non-empty bladder to be distracting from getting an orgasm. As for my husband, he doesn't mind my toilet runs on either side AND usually has to use the pot himself within ten to fifteen after sex.
04/07/2011
PiratePrincess PiratePrincess
I usually go before and after sex. He always has to go after sex every time never failing.
04/07/2011
SexyStuff SexyStuff
I'm prone to UTI's as well, and as getting one means no sex for 1-2 weeks, he is happy I go right after!
04/07/2011
cobiffle cobiffle
My girl always does it immedietly and it makes me mad a lot of times. Sometimes im not even done before she goes.
04/07/2011
sexygoddess sexygoddess
My boyfriend doesn't seem to care that I go after sex.
04/08/2011
leatherlover leatherlover
After we are done and satisfied, we both get up and go into the bathroom, with her sitting down first to clean up. It doesn't bother me one bit.
04/08/2011
barrettbn2 barrettbn2
I always go right after
04/08/2011
Rossie Rossie
My husband's actually the one heading for the bathroom first after sex, I like to relax a little and wait for my turn to clean up when he's finally done.

Ladies, for the sake of keeping UTIs at bay, please start drinking Cranberry juice daily! I think it really works.
04/08/2011
LennaKieran LennaKieran
Going to the bathroom after just seems the healthy thing to do. No complaints about it here.
04/08/2011
null null
I try to, but sometimes I can't (curfew in community style dorms). I cannot wait to have my own bathroom again...
04/08/2011
mama2007 mama2007
Quote:
Originally posted by Liz2
I always go after but perhaps more then 5 min. The UTI issue has always motivated me to go afterwards and not wait for hours...honestly I couldn't wait hours anyway after sex.
usually 5 - 10 min after i go to the bathroom to clean off with a towel or washcloth and bathroom too.
04/09/2011
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Unique posters: 77