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Once something triggers your arousal, how soon are you ready to go for penetrative sex? Even if you still then wait to have penetrative sex.
For my partner? Instantly. Lol. But he still waits it out for the foreplay.
For me, I need to have quite some foreplay first. A lot. I have been able to go straight into sex & have fun, but my orgasms are seriously limited that way. Usually there's other foreplay and oral before sex & I always O from that, unless something is very wrong such as pain.
Usually immediately after o'ing from oral, I'm 100% definitely ready.