Has your vagina ever become swolen after sex or fingering?

Contributor: socceras socceras
If I get fingered very hard and rough, which I like, sometimes my vagina gets swollen. It's mostly in the lip area or my clit. I was with my partner the other night and he had never seen this and he didn't know what it was lol. I guess sometimes my lips get caught as his fingers go in and out of me really hard. I mean I was really swollen on my left lip and I didn't realize it until we were done. He said he could feel it while he was fingering me but it was dark so we couldn't see anything. I wasn't really embarassed because I trust him but I thought it was odd that he had never seen that before. Have you experienced this?
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Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by socceras
If I get fingered very hard and rough, which I like, sometimes my vagina gets swollen. It's mostly in the lip area or my clit. I was with my partner the other night and he had never seen this and he didn't know what it was lol. I guess ... more
It is a soft, delicate area and very vascular. YES, if you are rough with your vagina, it is the same as being rough with your inner cheek, it WILL swell. Make sure nails are VERY trim and LOTS of lube is used when playing "fast and hard" and you will decrease the incidence of this happening, hopefully. It happens to me sometimes, but more often if we were rough with a toy in me then when he uses his fingers, as he KNOWS how rough or soft he can get, without causing me issues.
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Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
My wife's vulva are without hair (lasered) and when she's very aroused you can easily see both inner and out lips swell appreciably - it's a 'standard' indication of arousal. The tissues are engorged with blood.

I don't see inside her vagina - but I can feel a similar swelling due to the increased blood flow during foreplay and sex.

I imagine if you are very rough some damage may occur and increase the blood supply 'beyond normal' - but I couldn't say what is normal and what is not.

As long as you are OK with it - seems fine to me!
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Contributor: SMichelle SMichelle
Yes... When my partner and I have extremely rough sex (which we both enjoy), there have been a few occasions that my vagina has become slightly swollen.
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Contributor: Undecided Undecided
Mine swells especially if I am very aroused or horny nothing out of the norm for me.
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Contributor: Kissy Kissy
If we are rough for awhile, I am sore for about 3x as long. Sometimes the next day. I like being rough, but I get sore easily.
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Contributor: Beck Beck
I just had this happen to me. We went to rough for a long period of time and I was out of commission for three days.
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Contributor: Cinnyree Cinnyree
This happens to me quite often actually. Being a redhead i am easy to burn, bruise, and whatever else because my skin is so fair. I had sex for 5 hours once and i was bright red and swollen. It hurt to even close my legs or sit. I don't worry about it too much, I just make sure not to agitate it more until it heals.
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Contributor: Augustxsins Augustxsins
Yup, I get swollen. If we have really rough sex, I swell inside, too, making me super tight the next time we have sex. Sometimes the extra tightness is hot, sometimes it's painful.
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Contributor: Amber1319 Amber1319
Yes I do also
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