Have you ever had sex with two people in one day?

Dame Saphir Dame Saphir
Outside of any threesomes or polygamous relationships (is that the right way to phrase that?), have you ever had sex at least twice in one day, with two different people? And separate from the poll: How do you feel about the concept?
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
Yes, two different people
60  (35%)
Yes, more than two different times/people
11  (6%)
Not yet, but that sounds kinda exciting ;)
12  (7%)
No, never.
89  (52%)
Total votes: 172
Poll is closed
07/17/2010
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ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
Just never had that kind of luck back in the day, 20 years ago. Not that I did not try.

I would not think about it now, my wife would kill me and I have not updated my will yet. HAHA
07/17/2010
Dame Saphir Dame Saphir
Those of you voting "no, never," what's your reasoning for why "never"? If you're in a marriage like dwtim up there then that needs no real explanation... But if you're not in a relationship, is that a dishonest/gross thing to do?
07/17/2010
Alicia Alicia
Well, now it's because I'm married and barring a threesome then that'd just be wrong.

Before though, I guess I just never did because I haven't been into that much of casual sex. If I was having sex with someone it'd be because we were exclusive to some kind of extent. I had people who were just friends with benefits, but they had no other friend of that sort at a time.
07/17/2010
Dame Saphir Dame Saphir
Quote:
Originally posted by Alicia
Well, now it's because I'm married and barring a threesome then that'd just be wrong.

Before though, I guess I just never did because I haven't been into that much of casual sex. If I was having sex with someone it'd be ... More
Yeah, I totally agree that it'd be wrong. I'd be pretty pissed if my boyfriend decided to have sex with another girl at any point while we're together, let alone the same day he had sex with me
07/17/2010
Blinker Blinker
I had a wild party at my old place with friends and had sex with a female friend and then a male friend. Never really bothered me at the time, or thinking back about it. Everyone was wasted and horny and it was Halloween. Fun times
07/17/2010
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Quote:
Originally posted by Dame Saphir
Outside of any threesomes or polygamous relationships (is that the right way to phrase that?), have you ever had sex at least twice in one day, with two different people? And separate from the poll: How do you feel about the concept?
It's been a really long time - and I don't have any desire to repeat the feat.
07/17/2010
Tuesday Tuesday
Quote:
Originally posted by Gunsmoke
It's been a really long time - and I don't have any desire to repeat the feat.
Same here. I'm not the wild woman I used to be.
07/17/2010
~LaUr3n~ ~LaUr3n~
I'm not sure it was the same 'day' perhaps, but yes 2 in 24 hours once.
07/18/2010
Sir Sir
I probably have in the past, but I do not remember these occasions. So I said no, I have not.
07/18/2010
Envy Envy
Not me, tho I have had a 3some cyber once but that's not really sex sex since it's not physical and all. Was a big mistake though, guy tried to take my bf from me the days following it.
07/18/2010
SexyySarah SexyySarah
Nope not me! But a threesome could be interesting!
07/18/2010
P'Gell P'Gell
When we were Open and I was into really being a little Poly, I was dating three guys at one time (not together.....one at a time.) I went out with all three of them in the same weekend. God laid Friday night late, more like Saturday morning, Got laid Saturday night, didn't want to be too slutty, so I told the guy on Sunday No. College was like that.

Damn, that was a LONG time ago.
07/18/2010
Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
Quote:
Originally posted by Dame Saphir
Those of you voting "no, never," what's your reasoning for why "never"? If you're in a marriage like dwtim up there then that needs no real explanation... But if you're not in a relationship, is that a dishonest/gross thing to do?
Umm the way the poll is set up you are asking have we ever not would we ever. Would I ever? I have no idea...probably not unless I was in a polyamorous relationship simply because I don't do casual sex easily. I have had two men in one day seperately...I have two lifepartners and sometimes they are both aroused but they don't want to share the experience. You need alone time sometimes even in a triad.
I don't see it as dishonest or gross just can't imagine a time when I would have the opportunity to have sex with two men (or just two people) seperately without it being a polyamorous coupling.
07/18/2010
Luvasaurus Luvasaurus
Oh man, I was a little slutty at 17...
07/19/2010
Misfit Momma Misfit Momma
Yes, I should have voted for the second one but I picked the first. Wish there was an undo button!
07/19/2010
Dame Saphir Dame Saphir
Quote:
Originally posted by Airen Wolf
Umm the way the poll is set up you are asking have we ever not would we ever. Would I ever? I have no idea...probably not unless I was in a polyamorous relationship simply because I don't do casual sex easily. I have had two men in one day ... More
Didn't mean to set it up confusingly, but thank you for answering like you did I'm just curious on people's thoughts on it. And I apologize for not knowing the correct term for polyamorous. I understand the reasoning that casual sex is not necessarily something that some one does or does easily, and I also understand that in your triad, you need the alone time with a partner That's why I attempted to exclude polyamorous relationships from the question just because, that's a consensual and happy relationship where something like spending that time with each of those people in a short amount of time is more a part of the relationship. I was just curious more of the concept of sleeping with two different people, in a 24 hour period, outside of a relationship. Thank you for giving your explanation
07/19/2010
sexysweetieshan sexysweetieshan
I have not and never will. I'm currently married so of course I wouldn't not. But even if I wasn't married I wouldn't. Sex is something for only yourself (masturbation), or for a very special partner. If they are special, there would be no reason to have a second very special partner. But that again all goes back to my belief that open relationships are not good.
07/28/2010
twistedheartsx twistedheartsx
I never have. I just wasn't into that thing before I had sex as I was a virgin and I highly doubt we ever try out the threesome idea, it just wouldn't work for me.
07/28/2010
Annemarie Annemarie
I had a wild phase...

But not anymore.
07/28/2010
Miss Naughty Kitty Miss Naughty Kitty
LOL yea I had one of the guys I was seeing over at a friends house one night and after we got done went to hang out with the other people there. Another guy that I had sex with previously was there, lol awkward. After the first guy left, the other guy was all over me. LOL its like you know I just fucked him, and he said "yea, I was waiting for him to leave." lol This first guy doesn't even know that ever happened and it wasn't the first time I did something like that to him. Whatever wasn't anything serious.
07/28/2010
Midway through Midway through
Yes, and, I plan on doing it again. Wow, that makes me sound like a slut. Rofl
08/02/2010
Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
Quote:
Originally posted by Dame Saphir
Didn't mean to set it up confusingly, but thank you for answering like you did I'm just curious on people's thoughts on it. And I apologize for not knowing the correct term for polyamorous. I understand the reasoning that casual sex is ... More
Oh don't get me wrong I have had both guys in the same time frame...as in full on threesome. I just figured you weren't actually asking that. I'm not upset, luv not even close. Just explaining my situation.

I would have sex with two guys in a day if I felt like it...just can't imagine wanting to is all. Nothing wrong with it whatsoever, I'm not a casual sex kinda person but give the right circumstance I could be. I find that I prefer a stable relationship to be able to actually let loose and enjoy myself. I have major trust issues which color my thinking and don't allow me to be casual.

Sigel would like for me to be a bit more casual but Arch loves that I'm not.
08/15/2010
onehotmomma onehotmomma
I voted no/never. Only because I've been in a commited relationship with my guy for quite some time. Maybe back in the day when I was young and wasn't with my guy I would have done that though.
08/15/2010
usmcwife99 usmcwife99
Only a few times. My husband would be sleeping or something and I would do it with my "friend with benifits" but shes a girl. We love our lesbian sex. Later on that night Ide have sex with him or shede stick around for a threesome
08/15/2010
Dame Saphir Dame Saphir
Quote:
Originally posted by Airen Wolf
Oh don't get me wrong I have had both guys in the same time frame...as in full on threesome. I just figured you weren't actually asking that. I'm not upset, luv not even close. Just explaining my situation.

I would have sex with ... More
I love that you are explaining, thanks

I'm not usually a casual person at all with sex, either. I've had three partners in my life, and each of those partners have been long-term relationships (at least a year). The only time I ever have had sex with two different men on two different occasions was back when I was in high school. I was struggling with a relationship that was starting to fall apart, while struggling on the other hand with a boy who had been my first love, turned best friend, but I still loved and cared for very much. Things came together, feelings were exposed, and one thing led to another. I consider what I did 100% dishonest and had I been older and more mature and experienced, I probably wouldn't have let it happen. But I don't know if I could call it casual because I did know both men very well, and I had a very deep caring and love for both of them.
08/26/2010
Liz Liz
Once. It was a younger and drunker time.

I'm monogamous and a few weeks from married now, so I can't see it ever happening again. In retrospect, it probably wasn't the best decision I ever made for myself given my circumstances at the time, but I don't have any extreme issues with the concept in general.
08/26/2010
Owl Identified Owl Identified
Poly and proud I've done two in one day before, yes. Not my kind of numbers 99 times out of 100 because the more partners I'm having the more I'm increasing my risks for STIs, but I have done it before.
08/27/2010
MsTryska MsTryska
oh college....

yes - I was actually in..well what does one call it when 4 friends (2m/2f) are sitting around bored on saturday night and decide to pair up and have sex with each other and then swap and try the other ones out? Well whatever - after that night I came home and hooked up later in the afternoon with whoever the hookup of the moment was.

Everybody used condoms so it's all good.
08/27/2010
Hannah Savage Hannah Savage
I probably would not have sex with two men in one day, but--outside of a threesome--possibly a man and a woman, or two women. Why does that sound so wrong to say? lol
08/27/2010
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