I have said the honest truth in a negative way because I was upset. I should have spoken to him about it with love and understanding, but didn't. I apologized, and he understood, but I felt horrible for doing it.
I have a couple times when I was left "high and dry" but he got his..which happens more that I would like. I still feel bad for saying it. I've also said some hurtful things about him not being "up to it" enough for me and felt horrible