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No we don't have a sex life where we want to share - we're very private people.
For Uus, it's not about sharing each other, by any means, Wwe are entirely monogamous. It's about socializing among people who live this lifestyle and walk this path that Wwe have chosen. It's about feeling less isolated and less unique. It's about support and community. Though Wwe do attend some sexually charged events and play parties, many of the events Wwe go to are social events or meetings, often in a restaurant or even someone's living room, to discuss relationship dynamics and structure. Sex is a foot note in these types of events or may not even be discussed at all. It's like married couples choosing to socialize with other married or partnered couples or families with children socializing with other families with children. Although kinky folks tend to be open to discussing sexuality more freely, it's certainly not all Wwe talk about and Wwe aren't all swingers or poly or sluts. Oour community gatherings aren't all orgies. Sometimes it's just nice to know that other people have the same thoughts and feelings and impulses and desires that you do. It's nice to feel like a little less of a freak. i imagine it's why a lot of us frequent the forums on Eden, in fact.