Have you ever tried to look inside your lover?

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Have you ever tried to look inside your lover?

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Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
I guess this would mostly apply to guys seeing into woman, since it would be far harder to "look" into a guy, but have you ever tried to really see inside your lovers girlie parts and watched her cervix contract during orgasm or seen her vaginal walls pulsate with pleasure spasms?

Years ago, I had a lover (I was still young and in college), who asked if he could really watch as I came. I was very shy about it, but laid there and let him position a desk lamp to illuminate inside me as he had me spread my own lips open and he digitally brought me to orgasm. It was hard to relax, but afterwords, I realized guys are so visual, and if it gave him pleasure, why not? That cured any shyness I ever had about my body, and now I enjoy putting on shows for my hubby. However, I wonder how common this is?

I know couples, married for years and year, who have never taken a moment to really look at their partners genitals or consider "opening them up" to look inside. I know my hubby loves to see the pinkest pink of my vaginal vault and after anal sex, he is sometimes thrilled to just watch my pulsating little anal sphincter, so I just relax, and let him enjoy the view.

Anyone else taken the time to enjoy the inside view of their lovers, not just the outside?
11/12/2012
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Contributor: Trysexual Trysexual
Yes. I almost bought this toy called a pleasure periscope so you can see the insides, but I was single at the time.
11/12/2012
Contributor: heather-mooney heather-mooney
NO.
11/12/2012
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Again we're not quite where you are. After sex I'm more likely to look into her eyes than her ass - but hey whatever floats your boat!
11/12/2012
Contributor: AmethystSmoke AmethystSmoke
My husband and I are both quite visual but this isn't something that interests either of us. We like having the lights on so we see each other during play but while we find what you're describing of clinical interest, it's not something we'd pursue after sex.
11/12/2012
Contributor: deltalima deltalima
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Originally posted by Bignuf
I guess this would mostly apply to guys seeing into woman, since it would be far harder to "look" into a guy, but have you ever tried to really see inside your lovers girlie parts and watched her cervix contract during orgasm or seen her ... more
No.
11/12/2012
Contributor: RonLee RonLee
Yes to both female and male lovers.
11/12/2012
Contributor: Istanbull Istanbull
Yes.
11/13/2012
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by Trysexual
Yes. I almost bought this toy called a pleasure periscope so you can see the insides, but I was single at the time.
I wish they would build a WELL MADE version of that thing. I bought my hubby one, years ago, when we were first married, just for fun. I had brought home a "speculum" to let him see "all of me, which was now his to explore" (I put that in a card..ha, ha), but that seemed too darned clinical. The pleasure periscope was a great idea, which a crappy, low quality build. Someone making one now, with good LED lighting, a quality lens..etc. (Maybe even a built in, wireless mini cam???) would certainly capture that niche market.
11/13/2012
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by RonLee
Yes to both female and male lovers.
Um....help this poor gal out. How do you see inside a male lover? I guess during an anal gape you could look. There are anal speculum, I guess, but other then a urethroscope, how you looking in their penis...and what is there to see????
11/13/2012
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by AmethystSmoke
My husband and I are both quite visual but this isn't something that interests either of us. We like having the lights on so we see each other during play but while we find what you're describing of clinical interest, it's not something ... more
Honest, it is more then "clinical". It is amazing...totally, to see the cervix actually pulsating and "sucking" during an orgasm. Hubby used the video camera so I could watch mine doing it and it is pretty amazing stuff. Yes, some aspect of clinical, but still a turn on.
11/13/2012
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by Gunsmoke
Again we're not quite where you are. After sex I'm more likely to look into her eyes than her ass - but hey whatever floats your boat!
Oh ...you misunderstood. We do a lot of the looking into each others eyes, but if I am prostate on the bed, or doggy style, and he is "back there" doing oral on me, he may just sit back and take in the view. If he has a finger in me, he may well just "spread me a bit" to increase the view and make no mistake, he is totally the romantic, but he also is hugely visual and he loves every single inch of me.....no questions about it.
11/13/2012
Contributor: minstrel69 minstrel69
I'm a lover not a doctor!
11/13/2012
Contributor: RonLee RonLee
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Originally posted by Bignuf
Um....help this poor gal out. How do you see inside a male lover? I guess during an anal gape you could look. There are anal speculum, I guess, but other then a urethroscope, how you looking in their penis...and what is there to see????
Sorry to have inadvertently misled you. I've not seen into anyone's urethra.
I have used a relatively large diameter glass test tube to see into the other respective orifices of various lovers of both genders though.
11/13/2012