Have you participated in a three way?

Bethy Cassatt Bethy Cassatt
And any advice?
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
Yes, and often
15  (21%)
Yes, but it was only once
8  (11%)
Sort of. I've been in cuddle piles before with friends/lovers
3  (4%)
Not really, but I've thought about it
20  (27%)
No, I never would
21  (29%)
6  (8%)
Total votes: 73
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Trysexual Trysexual
ellieprobable ellieprobable
And a few 4+.
SaiDiscordia SaiDiscordia
It was a fantasy of mine for many years, but once my husband and I got serious I threw it out. As we have discussed, we are way too possessive of each other to do it now.
Incendiaire Incendiaire
I had a sort of threeway, but I don't count it because one of the guys wasn't supposed to be involved. It's complicated... haha.
ValerieRayne ValerieRayne
I've had tons of MMF threesomes and have attempted 2 MFF threesomes. With me, a girl and another guy, I tend to get way to jealous and insecure, so though it is a massive fantasy of mine, I have decided to just leave that one lie.

The MMF threesomes were all fun. The only time I ever didn't have fun was when the other guy, who wasn't my boyfriend, thought that that one time now meant that I always wanted to hook up with him, which I definitely didn't.

Really, I could go on and on with advice but the only advice that matters is that all parties involved are completely comfortable with it. Back in those days, we had a rule that only boyfriend could penetrate vaginally, though that rule changed over the years. Be sure to set clear and defined boundaries before going into it.

If you don't want your guy eating someone else out, or something about it doesn't make you comfortable, absolutely open your mouth about it. You're already taking a wonderful step in considering the threesome prior to jumping right into it. Get your mind-juices flowing about the threesome so that you can be prepared when you're in it to deal with any situations that may arise.

Absolutely communicate to the best of your ability, if not better. Threesomes have been known to ruin seemingly great relationships. If you're unsure, insecure, jealous or any other negative emotion, speak up about it. Let your partner know that the size of her boobs makes you insecure or the size of his cock scares you. Don't ever stop communicating, especially during the threesome. Practice visual and body cues so that you don't have to use your words. And beat your partner up if they don't communicate with you back. It's absolutely imperative!

In summary, the two main things you should take from this is that a threesome needs to have CONSENT and COMMUNICATION to be anything that anyone is going to enjoy. After that, things just tend to fall into place.
kitty1949 kitty1949
I haven't, but I would with the right people.
PeaceToTheMiddleEast PeaceToTheMiddleEast
I have not but I am picky when it comes to this stuff. I have thought about it but it will take a long time before I do it.
CollegeFun2014 CollegeFun2014
It's always been a fantasy of mine. I'd have to do it with the right people though.
Gone (LD29) Gone (LD29)
Other -- Yes, a few, but certainly not often, and not for a long time now.
I never have and I don't think I truely want to either.
joelb42 joelb42
I have not but would like to someday.
hawaiian chick hawaiian chick
I have with me and 2 males.
charletnarouh charletnarouh
Not often, but more than once. I don't make a habit of it but it has happened.
Haven't, and my guy is too self-conscious to truly want to.
Undecided Undecided
Never and NEVER will I don't like sharing my partner and I don't like being shared.
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Happily married - no need for complications.
Lildrummrgurl7 Lildrummrgurl7
I haven't but I may like to some day. Currently, I have too many insecurities and I feel I'd get too jealous and upset so I don't bring it up with my partner.
Vaginas Vaginas
yes. another girl and a man plus myself. the girl and I didn't do much together though cause I think she was shy and didn't know much about pleasing a woman. so he just took turns fucking us.

I did this when I was single though. I would personally never recommend a three + some from someone in a relationship. it seems like it has the potential to cause a lot of problems or hurt feelings even if neither person thinks it will.
PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
Never would. I'm married to the only person I want to be with in that sense, so I'm all set.
melissa1973 melissa1973
Of course and several of them, they were all his desires. So who am I to argue?
Dixiemomma Dixiemomma
no, i do NOT share lol (does not play well with others) and lucky for me my Mister is the same, he has no desires to share me either so its not an issue
Beck Beck
I was so close to having a few of them, but I didn't. I felt childish and silly at those moments. I hope to have one soon with the right person.
Zandrock Zandrock
Could be fun. But I dont think I would know that I have found such a great partner
satinlady550 satinlady550
Originally posted by Bethy Cassatt
And any advice?
Yes a few times it was my best girl friend some hot stud she knew and me.. It was ok but now that I am getting older I don't want to share my man with anyone else.
RedKyuubi RedKyuubi
sugar&spikes sugar&spikes
never but i want to. not with my SO though. she's all mine lol
tami tami
NO WAY!! i have never and will never it complicates things and ruins relationships because someone gets to involved or someone develops feelings for someone other than their SO or someone out of the 3 way ends up sneaking off to hook up together.....Things get all F'ed up and people get hurt. To each his/her own if you do that an things don't get turned around for you more power to you but in the end someone always gets hurt.
ejrbrndps ejrbrndps
never and dont think i would
SMichelle SMichelle
I have.. on a few occasions, yes.

BecksMama -- I disagree that someone always gets hurt. I've participated in a few threeways, and no one has ever gotten hurt. My last threeway was with an ex -- and the threeway really seemed to actually help our relationship. We separated for reasons completely unrelated to the threeway, a year or so after the threeway happened.
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