How did your sex drive change after having a baby/babies?

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How did your sex drive change after having a baby/babies?

xOhxSoxScandalousx xOhxSoxScandalousx
I'd like to hear from mama's about their sex drive after having kids. Before I had my daughter my husband and I would have sex 1-2 times a day, sometimes 3 times a day. In the beginning of my pregnancy my sex drive shot up so we had sex a lot. Towards the end of my pregnancy my sex drive went dramatically low and I didn't even want him to touch me. I was too sore, swollen, and tired. After I had my daughter my sex drive stayed low. I was breastfeeding so I was really preoccupied through out the day. We still had sex a few times a week. Now my sex drive is finally coming back but it's still not the same as it used to be. Any mama's care to elaborate?
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My sex drive is even better now!
My sex drive is lower now.
My sex drive just stayed the same.
underHim , PropertyOfPotter , funluvinmama
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04/05/2012
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gloomybear gloomybear
id like to see how this turns out
04/05/2012
underHim underHim
I would say my sex drive is at least the same, maybe even occasionally higher. However, we have a very clingy child who likes to be around me all the time, even at night, so occasionally he gets in the way. So I would say that while I want as much as I did before I cannot have sex as often. (He is 2 1/2) I know I was horny as hell literally immediately after he was born. If I trusted the nurses with my new baby, I so would have taken my husband into the bathroom and blown him.
04/05/2012
xOhxSoxScandalousx xOhxSoxScandalousx
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Originally posted by underHim
I would say my sex drive is at least the same, maybe even occasionally higher. However, we have a very clingy child who likes to be around me all the time, even at night, so occasionally he gets in the way. So I would say that while I want as much as ...
Hahaha. Yes I think that could be my problem as well because my daughter is clingy too. The only time we get to have sex is late at night when she falls asleep and by that time I'm exhausted. lol. We take advantage when we decide to have date night and my moms babysitting her. My daughter doesn't take naps anymore and she's only 10 months old!
04/05/2012
underHim underHim
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Originally posted by xOhxSoxScandalousx
Hahaha. Yes I think that could be my problem as well because my daughter is clingy too. The only time we get to have sex is late at night when she falls asleep and by that time I'm exhausted. lol. We take advantage when we decide to have date ...
We got so sick of being interuppted nearly every time we try to have sex (he will wake up 10 minutes after we start and I cannot count the number of times I have been on the brink of orgasm and I hear Wahhhh- I swear that boy can smell hormones). Anyways, we recently decided to try to have sex almost every night of the week that way when we are interrupted and have to stop for the night, it is not as big of a deal.
04/05/2012
PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
My drive is the same, but we don't have sex nearly as often because she takes up our time and/or we're a little more tired now
04/05/2012
funluvinmama funluvinmama
My sex drive stayed the same.
04/05/2012
xOhxSoxScandalousx xOhxSoxScandalousx
I think that has a lot to do with why we have sex less often. Way too tired at times and always preoccupied with our little one!
04/06/2012
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