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bayosgirl bayosgirl
which toys to use in a session? I'm starting to amass quite a collection of toys, lingerie, and foreplay items (massage candles, etc.) and sometimes I can't decide what to use in a sex session with DH. A good problem to have, right? Do you just rotate items or do you find yourself going back to your favorites over and over?
08/17/2012
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Rossie Rossie
It depends on my mood.
08/17/2012
K101 K101
Quote:
Originally posted by bayosgirl
which toys to use in a session? I'm starting to amass quite a collection of toys, lingerie, and foreplay items (massage candles, etc.) and sometimes I can't decide what to use in a sex session with DH. A good problem to have, right? Do you ...
My mood. Most of the time I don't even use toys unless the mood strikes. I only use them as a foreplay or car ride thing. I really don't go to town using only a toy. We always just mix them in with our intimate time. Either way, if you feel your collection is too big or overwhelming, maybe that's a sign of having too many things you no longer want/need/use? Just my thinking, but I tend to be a super organizing freak who throws out anything I ain't using at the very moment. Lol.

I just choose whatever looks appealing to me and it's always changing with my mood. Lately I've wanted glass more often than I normally do. I'll have a phase where I'll only use Matryoshka for weeks and then a phase where I'm stuck on Envie. Moods change. I always know just what toy I want when I do want to use one. I never have trouble choosing. Sometimes I'll start with one and then switch to something else Like if I want something with more texture or want to use the stacked balls of my glass dildo and then smooth silicone a while later.
08/17/2012
Lildrummrgurl7 Lildrummrgurl7
We normally don't use toys except for foreplay occasionally. If we are using something, it's generally decided upon ahead of time depending on our mood.
08/17/2012
AK Bunny AK Bunny
Quote:
Originally posted by bayosgirl
which toys to use in a session? I'm starting to amass quite a collection of toys, lingerie, and foreplay items (massage candles, etc.) and sometimes I can't decide what to use in a sex session with DH. A good problem to have, right? Do you ...
I usually just find one that sounds good at that moment. If I have more time or am feeling extra turned on, I will get one I don't usually use.
08/17/2012
bayosgirl bayosgirl
Quote:
Originally posted by K101
My mood. Most of the time I don't even use toys unless the mood strikes. I only use them as a foreplay or car ride thing. I really don't go to town using only a toy. We always just mix them in with our intimate time. Either way, if you feel ...
It's not too big or overwhelming and I certainly want everything I have... maybe I could've worded my OP better. I think it's more because my husband is rather impatient in bed. I'd love to use 4-5 items in a session, but I'm lucky if I can incorporate one. It seems like when he gets going he just wants to get done as quick as possible. It's kind of sad.
08/17/2012
- Kira - - Kira -
My husband picks what we use during sex. I don't know what his methods are. lol

When it's just me, I usually play with what I have to review and grab a standby in case the testing doesn't go well.
08/17/2012
*Camoprincess* *Camoprincess*
With reviewing it use to be something I needed to review in the past. With my new partner I just grab a few things that are my faves and then let him choose what he wants to use on me. If I am going solo I usually pick up my fave rabbit or a dildo that I have that is so amazing.
08/18/2012
icelandia icelandia
I usually let her decide
08/19/2012
indiglo indiglo
I go through phases where I stick to a couple for a while, and then move on to something else.

I also go by mood. Sometimes I want glass because I want lots of sensation with very little effort. Sometimes I want something realistic feeling to really pound away with.

My man jokes that I need a caddy for my toy collection. "You're going to want the Goodfella this time." lol
08/19/2012
Cat E. Cat E.
I mostly use my one favorite dildo and one favorite vibe.
08/19/2012
digit88 digit88
Quote:
Originally posted by bayosgirl
which toys to use in a session? I'm starting to amass quite a collection of toys, lingerie, and foreplay items (massage candles, etc.) and sometimes I can't decide what to use in a sex session with DH. A good problem to have, right? Do you ...
favorites usually
08/19/2012
PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
It depends on the mood and what we're doing. There are some toys that are grabbed more often.
08/19/2012
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