How do you feel about hearing your neighbors having sex?

chicken12 chicken12
I would hate it.

I have a pretty stressful life and I'm always out and about - so my home is my sanctuary. It's the place I can go to "get away from it all," to relax and de-stress. I hate it when that safe haven is intruded upon by noise. I don't think it's very much to ask for people NOT talk talk on their cellphones in the hall or slam doors.

Sex noises would be just as obnoxious. Nobody is stopping you from getting your rocks off, but please, do not invade my space (physical or audible). And ear-plugs are not as effective as one might think.
11/01/2011
Eva Schwaltz Eva Schwaltz
I don't hear my neighbours having sex, but if I did, I'd probably just collapse into a laughing fit.
11/01/2011
CreamySweet CreamySweet
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Originally posted by Serendipity
I live in a multi-unit row house type townhouse complex. I came home from walking my dogs yesterday and entered through a side gate. Someone in the first unit off the gate was having completely loud, raucous sex. We're talking when Harry Met ... More
I never do but good for them! I know if I'm home alone with my toys, my husband or a boytoy durring the day there is probably no doubt that I'm getting my fucks on. I also take the attitude of what they do in their house or yard is their business and good for them if they are having a good time when there are enough folks in this world who are not. For me...if you dont like what you see dont look...if you dont like what you hear sorry but I'm busy having a good tine getting off.
11/02/2011
jenn g jenn g
I worry about my neighbors hearing me
11/02/2011
Wicked Wahine Wicked Wahine
I have only heard dorm sex once, but only in the hallway as I was coming back to my room, (but as an all women's college & considering I was on the 'female-only-bathroom' floor, there wasn't much action & the lesbians were quiet lovers.) I chose the broom answer & the last answer.

The broom one, not because I'm not saying I'm the only one allowed to be loud, (though I'm not, I don't think), but if they woke me in the middle of the night, repeatedly, or were constant nuisances, yes I'd let them know & I would call the police if they didn't get more considerate. But, I have to say, it would have to be BAD for that & I just can't imagine people that loud. Maybe I was lucky the 8 yrs I lived in a rental house - they were very close to each other & you could hear someone coughing 2 houses away, in the winter - but no one was a nuisance to me unless it as 3AM basketball or a dog barking nonstop for more than 30 minutes, .(that we had tons of).

I wonder if it's because I wear earplugs & have a filter running which provides background noise? Maybe I'm just clueless & everyone is going at it & I mistake the sounds? Whatever, it might be hot to listen to at some times, but I veer toward pervy, so...
05/30/2013
Adnerbmw Adnerbmw
depending on which neighbors it is, if its the old people next door i dont want that image, but if its like the hot guy down the street then its kinda a turn on but only at the right times, if its like 3 am i just want to sleep lol
05/30/2013
KrissyNovacaine KrissyNovacaine
I don't mind when it happens unless I am trying to sleep.
05/31/2013
FieryRed FieryRed
I have to admit that there've been quite a few times when I was the one making too much noise, and probably irritating the neighbors! Now, we live upstairs in a stand-alone two-story, so only one neighbor...and she would definitely know who it was if we were screaming away up here! On the other hand, she often has her TV on LATE at night, loud enough that I can almost make out the words. I wouldn't feel too bad if we kept her awake with sex, and I'd much rather hear sex noises than the damn TV at 3am!
05/31/2013
Stagger13 Stagger13
Quote:
Originally posted by Serendipity
I live in a multi-unit row house type townhouse complex. I came home from walking my dogs yesterday and entered through a side gate. Someone in the first unit off the gate was having completely loud, raucous sex. We're talking when Harry Met ... More
Not a big deal to me...
05/31/2013
Beautiful-Disaster Beautiful-Disaster
I haven't heard my neighbors having sex... I don't really think I'd care.. I would find it amusing.
05/31/2013
SecretKinksters SecretKinksters
Our neighbors are all old...pretty sure they're no longer "doing it", at least we have never heard them.
05/31/2013
Checkmate Checkmate
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Originally posted by SecretKinksters
Our neighbors are all old...pretty sure they're no longer "doing it", at least we have never heard them.
You'd be surprised about some of us older folks, we just learned to be quite when necessary
06/01/2013
sunflower sunflower
It's kind of awkward and I will just turn on music to drown it out? I don't care if they hear me, they can turn on their own music lmao.
06/01/2013
Pete's Princess Pete's Princess
I don't mind unless they wake me up. The only time I want to be awakened in the middle of the night is if I am one of the people having sex.
06/01/2013
RonLee RonLee
Happy for them! However, I'm also happy that I now live in a single family home and don't have neighbors who I can hear or can hear us.
06/01/2013
marriedlady123 marriedlady123
We live too far out to be able to hear anyone!
06/02/2013
mjtheprincess mjtheprincess
My neighbors must not have sex...and they must not care about how loud we are...haha
06/02/2013
chelly411 chelly411
I never hear them
06/12/2013
jr2012 jr2012
well, I love to hear/see! I don't get off on it (and I don't masturbate to it), but I am so curious as to what other people are doing, I will be the person with their ear to the wall
06/12/2013
karenm karenm
I hate it. I live in a building with thin walls and I find it very rude when one of my neighbors have loud sex. I always try to keep it quiet when my boyfriend and I have sex at my apartment. But luckily we spend more time at his, where the walls are thick and his roommate travels a lot.
06/12/2013
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