Recently at The S Spot we were talking about getting what you want in bed (link) How do YOU get what you want in bed?
How do you get what you want in bed?
How do you get what you want in bed?
I'm in the middle of counseling with a well known sex writer working on that very hard. Basically- I don't.
Body language doesn't work until it's a shoving match
Verbal communication can sometimes destroy the mood or be misconstrued.
A recent suggestion involved "still" pressure when something isn't doing much and increasing pressure when it is great combined with visual.
Body language doesn't work until it's a shoving match
Verbal communication can sometimes destroy the mood or be misconstrued.
A recent suggestion involved "still" pressure when something isn't doing much and increasing pressure when it is great combined with visual.
11/10/2009
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I'm glad that your working things out. I was concerned there for a bit. It's good to have you more active again .
Originally posted by
Dragon
I'm in the middle of counseling with a well known sex writer working on that very hard. Basically- I don't.
Body language doesn't work until it's a shoving match
Verbal communication can sometimes destroy the mood or be misconstrued.
A ...
Body language doesn't work until it's a shoving match
Verbal communication can sometimes destroy the mood or be misconstrued.
A ...
I'm in the middle of counseling with a well known sex writer working on that very hard. Basically- I don't.
Body language doesn't work until it's a shoving match
Verbal communication can sometimes destroy the mood or be misconstrued.
A recent suggestion involved "still" pressure when something isn't doing much and increasing pressure when it is great combined with visual.
Body language doesn't work until it's a shoving match
Verbal communication can sometimes destroy the mood or be misconstrued.
A recent suggestion involved "still" pressure when something isn't doing much and increasing pressure when it is great combined with visual.
For me we usually just say what we want or ask the other what they want. Sometimes it can be annoying to have my partner say "so what do you want to try now?" but atleast he wants my input. However, he did surprise me by doing something I never requested or hinted I ever liked. So communication is super but surprises are fun.
11/19/2009
If its more of a slow and very romantic night ile just make hints or guide him to were I want him. Other nights ime just stright up tell him what to do and he does it for me. Same with him thoe, he will tell me what he wants. He knows what I dont like to do so he doesnt tell me to do that stuff.
06/26/2010
sweet sally
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I'm w/ usmcwife99 on this one. For us it really depends on the mood.
Originally posted by
usmcwife99
If its more of a slow and very romantic night ile just make hints or guide him to were I want him. Other nights ime just stright up tell him what to do and he does it for me. Same with him thoe, he will tell me what he wants. He knows what I dont
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If its more of a slow and very romantic night ile just make hints or guide him to were I want him. Other nights ime just stright up tell him what to do and he does it for me. Same with him thoe, he will tell me what he wants. He knows what I dont like to do so he doesnt tell me to do that stuff.
Unfortunately, I have been in a relationship before where the communication was lacking both in the bedroom and every day life. Needless to say our sex life was pretty much non existant.
07/07/2010
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