How do you tend to lead up to sex?

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How do you tend to lead up to sex?

LaLaLouise LaLaLouise
What is pre-sex like for you? Laying in bed already and cuddling turns into more? Chilling on the couch and somebody touches somebody? Already making out as you walk in the door and strip each other down on the way to the bedroom? Or does it just depend on the day? And get into all the steamy details please
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
Cuddling in bed, one thing leads to another.
Coralbell , Ansley , Ghost , ToyGurl , LaLaLouise , IslandGoddess , GeekWife , toxie m , ZenaidaMacroura , toysforall , ss143 , P'Gell , MeliPixie , Diabolical Kitty , indiglo , Screen Door , jakjak , aliceinthehole , emiliaa , Lummox , bayosgirl , CSEA , Sunshineamine , froggiemoma , mcl272 , Peggi , SiNn
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Chilling on the couch, one thing leads to another.
Coralbell , Ansley , ToyGurl , LaLaLouise , IslandGoddess , toxie m , ss143 , P'Gell , DeliciousDrip , MeliPixie , Diabolical Kitty , indiglo , Screen Door , froggiemoma , Peggi , SiNn
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Planning it all day.
Coralbell , Ansley , ToyGurl , toxie m , ZenaidaMacroura , ss143 , P'Gell , MeliPixie , Gunsmoke , indiglo , Screen Door , mcl272 , SiNn
13
Making out as you burst through the door.
Coralbell , ToyGurl , ss143 , P'Gell , indiglo , mcl272
6
In the kitchen when you were supposed to be making dinner.
ToyGurl , ss143 , P'Gell , Diabolical Kitty , indiglo , CSEA , mcl272 , SiNn
8
Always spontaneous- whenever, wherever.
ToyGurl , ss143 , P'Gell , MeliPixie , Diabolical Kitty , Orion , Screen Door , mcl272 , SiNn
9
Depends on the day.
Coralbell , Ansley , InNeedOfABuzzzz , ToyGurl , darthkitt3n , The Curious Couple , LaLaLouise , toxie m , ZenaidaMacroura , ss143 , Bignuf , P'Gell , DeliciousDrip , MeliPixie , Diabolical Kitty , indiglo , Lucky21 , js250 , Screen Door , Caramelgirl , Lummox , CSEA , Sunshineamine , froggiemoma , Southern Lady , mcl272 , Peggi , SiNn , potstickers
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Other (just for the sake of having an Other option)
ToyGurl , Eva Schwaltz , ss143 , P'Gell , MeliPixie , Taylor , Istanbull
7
Total votes: 115 (42 voters)
Poll is closed
08/19/2011
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Ansley Ansley
We plan some aspects, but not the actual time we're going to do something.
08/19/2011
Coralbell Coralbell
It depends. It seems like no matter what we're doing "one thing leads to another." Cuddling on the couch, and anytime we get in bed together guarantees we're going to have sex. We always try to have naps together, but never end up getting much sleep.

Sometimes we don't get to see each other for a week or 2 because we live in different cities and have conflicting work and school schedules. We usually send some dirty texts back and forth and kind of plan out a scenario for the next time we get to see each other. Then we usually jump each other as soon as we get in the door.
08/19/2011
InNeedOfABuzzzz InNeedOfABuzzzz
Sometimes I know all day that as soon as I walk in the door I'm going to attach him viciously...others it's a cuddle session that leads to a sexfest. Last night I was hanging on the couch getting a foot rub and before you know it we were naked....it just happens!!!!!
08/19/2011
ToyGurl ToyGurl
It's really all the above. The one I find that happens most frequently was "in the kitchen where you were SUPPOSED to be making dinner"... I'm not sure why but something about me making dinner in my panties gets him in a hustle for sex! We end up burning the food and having sex on the table. It's awful! Awfully good... that is...
08/19/2011
LaLaLouise LaLaLouise
Quote:
Originally posted by ToyGurl
It's really all the above. The one I find that happens most frequently was "in the kitchen where you were SUPPOSED to be making dinner"... I'm not sure why but something about me making dinner in my panties gets him in a hustle for ...
Ha ha! "Not sure why" making dinner in your panties has that effect? lmao.
08/19/2011
The Curious Couple The Curious Couple
It really depends on the day. Sometimes it's planned, sometimes we get in the mood when we're cuddling, sometimes it's the moment she walks through the door. It's always good, though.
08/19/2011
GeekWife GeekWife
We're parents of a toddler, the only time we get to ourselves is after the kid is in bed. We're lucky we get to do it at all these days.
08/19/2011
Eva Schwaltz Eva Schwaltz
Get them drunk. LOL I'm just kidding. Usually I make very suggestive comments which tend to vary.
08/19/2011
toysforall toysforall
we generally plan out a time, but don't plan out how to do it. that's just up to the moment!
08/19/2011
Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by LaLaLouise
What is pre-sex like for you? Laying in bed already and cuddling turns into more? Chilling on the couch and somebody touches somebody? Already making out as you walk in the door and strip each other down on the way to the bedroom? Or does it just ...
Any of the above, or, after 31 years of marriage, it can be as simple as one of us saying "want to"?
08/20/2011
P'Gell P'Gell
Quote:
Originally posted by LaLaLouise
What is pre-sex like for you? Laying in bed already and cuddling turns into more? Chilling on the couch and somebody touches somebody? Already making out as you walk in the door and strip each other down on the way to the bedroom? Or does it just ...
ALL of the above.

Sometimes it's planned "I better get laid when you get home tonight!" often we play all day and it leads up to a low simmer until bedtime. Sometimes I wake up with him in my face or bouncing against my butt.
08/20/2011
MeliPixie MeliPixie
Pretty much all of the given answers, plus a few! Slippery teasing in the shower and surprise massages after work are a couple others we are prone to...
08/20/2011
Diabolical Kitty Diabolical Kitty
Depends on the mood and the person. A number of different things could make it happen.
08/20/2011
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
I like to plan it out - my wife on the other hand puts no effort into it. She's more receptive that in the past - so something good has come from all my effort.
08/20/2011
indiglo indiglo
For us - all of the above depending on the day. Sometimes I plan on it all day, sometimes we're watching a ballgame together and the mood hits us, sometimes we're just having a wonderful chat and something he says puts me in the mood, and sometimes we do have date nights.
08/20/2011
js250 js250
Depends on the day and mood we are in. We do everything from plan to spontaneous combustion!!! Love the surprises in store.
08/20/2011
Screen Door Screen Door
It's usually he comes over, we sit on the couch and one thing leads to another and BOOM
08/20/2011
aliceinthehole aliceinthehole
he has roommates, so we'll often go to his room 'to cuddle' or 'to nap' and that's a cue for 'go fuck.' we used to do it much more spontaneously. it doesn't happen spontaneously but once a month at most anymore.
08/23/2011
Caramelgirl Caramelgirl
Quote:
Originally posted by LaLaLouise
What is pre-sex like for you? Laying in bed already and cuddling turns into more? Chilling on the couch and somebody touches somebody? Already making out as you walk in the door and strip each other down on the way to the bedroom? Or does it just ...
For me, it starts in the shower and that's where i make my boyfriend weak at the knees and then later that night when everyone goes to bed we get started and it last for hours it seems like when we're done it make legs shake so bad and hard to catch my breath ......
08/23/2011
Sunshineamine Sunshineamine
I usually tell my dirty boy to get in the shower and hop in with him and it starts there and ends in the bedroom. Cuddling initiates it too though.
08/24/2011
Istanbull Istanbull
Asking every couple of nights or so until she finally gives in and let's me have sex so I'll stop bothering her.
08/24/2011
Southern Lady Southern Lady
Sometimes...starts in the kitchen
Sometimes...he says "I'm gonna take a shower..." and I know WHAT THAT means
Sometimes...I just ask
Sometimes...I just touch him to where it's a DIRECT hint
Sometimes...He tells me early in the day he's gonna have his way w/ me tonight
Sometimes...the kids are all going to be gone for the evening, so it's almost a given
Sometimes...I sext him and he gets the hint
ALWAYS love waking him up early on Saturday morning with a special touch when the kids are still asleep!
08/24/2011
SiNn SiNn
Quote:
Originally posted by LaLaLouise
What is pre-sex like for you? Laying in bed already and cuddling turns into more? Chilling on the couch and somebody touches somebody? Already making out as you walk in the door and strip each other down on the way to the bedroom? Or does it just ...
we dontplan nything but we r very sexual so we do it often everywhere
08/27/2011
Total posts: 24
Unique posters: 23