How long does your typical foreplay session last?

Sammi Sammi
This was mentioned on the intercourse poll, and it is an interesting question.

So, how long does your typical foreplay session last?
Is it long enough or too short for you?
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
Foreplay? What's foreplay?
6
1-10 minutes
18
11-20 minutes
40
21-30 minutes
24
31-45 minutes
13
46-60 minutes
7
Over an hour
10
Total votes: 118 (87 voters)
Poll is closed
06/09/2009
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Luscious Lily Luscious Lily
It's usually an average of 21-30 minutes for us, but with a wide range (from 2 minutes of foreplay with quickies, to an hour or more when we have the time). It's usually sufficient to get me ready and mostly satisfied with the foreplay. But I'm greedy. I want an hour+ average. We both need to work on patience to get to that point, though.
06/09/2009
Sammi Sammi
Ours usually lasts close to an hour before we have intercourse. Usually we make each other cum at least once. I love long foreplay sessions.
06/09/2009
Naughty Student Naughty Student
Seriously the longest foreplay I have ever got was about 20 minutes (and that is generous). We rarely have any foreplay and when we do it is 30 seconds of nipple stimulation (which doesnt do much for me...) and off we go. I am usually wet often though. It's like my hormones are in overdrive or something so its not always necessary. Sometimes though...I thank the lord lube exists, amen!
06/09/2009
NuMe NuMe
Ours is usually somewhere around 20-30 minutes. But it could be anywhere from nothing to over an hour. It just depends on our moods and how much time we have. It also depends on how long I can last through foreplay before I need to hop on and go at it. LOL!
06/09/2009
Viv Viv
I LOVE long foreplay sessions. Drive me crazy for an hour before we get to it and I'm happy. My fiancee, on the other hand, doesn't need it. Five minutes of making out and she's ready. So we try to find something in the middle.
06/09/2009
Adriana Ravenlust Adriana Ravenlust
I couldn't even begin to guess at this. I'm am temporally stunted.
06/10/2009
Liz2 Liz2
For us, it is about 20 plus min., I definitely try to achieve at least one orgasm prior to penetration, toys are a major assist. For a quickie, no foreplay, but a quickie, with lube, is better then nothing when I am running late and have to get up.
06/10/2009
Tuesday Tuesday
Quote:
Originally posted by Sammi
This was mentioned on the intercourse poll, and it is an interesting question.

So, how long does your typical foreplay session last?
Is it long enough or too short for you?
I know I'll probably be alone in this opinion, but I really like foreplay to be minimal. The main event is SO much better than anything else. I'm an immediate gratification kind of woman.
06/10/2009
Mamastoys Mamastoys
I'd have to say our is usually 21-30 minutes but it varies greatly. It depends on how long we have, where we are, and both of our moods. It's a consenual thing with us.
06/12/2009
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Quote:
Originally posted by Sammi
This was mentioned on the intercourse poll, and it is an interesting question.

So, how long does your typical foreplay session last?
Is it long enough or too short for you?
I really love taking a long time with various erotic massage techniques and toys. typical is about 15 minutes - but when we have more time i stretch it to 20+ minutes. For me it's not over until my lover has had her first orgasm - and more if she'll let me.
07/27/2009
beautifulpierced beautifulpierced
our foreplay usually only lasts about 10 min than hes right to it but i like it to last a lil longer at least till i orgasm one time. than proceed with sex LOL
07/22/2010
Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
Our foreplay is usually an ongoing thing...a look, a touch, a whispered promise. It's amazing.
07/22/2010
Rayne Millaray Rayne Millaray
Foreplay in our house is usually "Get on the bed and spread your legs, slut." ~grin~

Though sometimes...
07/22/2010
~LaUr3n~ ~LaUr3n~
It can be anywhere from 10 minutes to a few hours
07/22/2010
Mari Fanger Mari Fanger
our usually lasts all day, we play on and off all throughout the day
08/22/2010
P'Gell P'Gell
We don't divide sex into "foreplay" and "the action." We start out many different ways, from just dry humping, to outright oral attack, to just kissing to just making eye contact during the day or night. We will stop in the middle of PIV to have oral sex again, we may have anal at the end, or do that, and then wash up carefully, and return for more of other things.

I don't even really think of certain things as "foreplay" anymore, because we just do anything and everything in no order. We don't always "end" with PIV sex. I usually prefer to have my first orgasm first, because I'll have more as we do other things, but sometimes this doesn't happen, so sometimes, he'll just keep going after he's "done" until I get what I need or give up. Usually, though, we have no set way of having "sex."

My preference is for sex, anything and everything, to last 1 to 3 hours, but the of course, as we need to work, sleep, eat and take care of other things, we do have frequent "quickies."
08/23/2010
mrs.mckrakn mrs.mckrakn
when theres foreplay, prob no more than 10 min. but usually we just go at it. man invented lube for several reasons
09/30/2010
Hot'n'Bothered Hot'n'Bothered
I've never exactly timed it, but if I had to guess I'd say it's around 10 minutes..
10/10/2010
extrafun extrafun
Quote:
Originally posted by Sammi
This was mentioned on the intercourse poll, and it is an interesting question.

So, how long does your typical foreplay session last?
Is it long enough or too short for you?
Depends on what you call forplay. Lots of time my wife and I will sex text when she is on her way home from somewhere, this could last for hours sometimes. Then its really hot when she gets there.
03/11/2011
Kaltir Kaltir
It varies a great deal.
03/11/2011
MrRainybowbow MrRainybowbow
A good hour or two sometimes less depending if i was already horny through out the day.
03/15/2011
ATL Freak ATL Freak
Sometimes thats all we do. No intercourse, just foreplay! FUN FUN !
03/15/2011
UnknownGirl UnknownGirl
It depends on our mood.
03/16/2011
Apirka Apirka
Usually 10 to 20 minutes, though I honestly do need less than that until I'm ready to go.
02/16/2012
Princess-Kayla ♥ Princess-Kayla ♥
Usually not very long. If we're both in the mood we don't really devote that much time to foreplay.
02/16/2012
Harpina is gone Harpina is gone
Probably about 10 minutes.
03/30/2012
lillmiss5054 lillmiss5054
Usually 40 min- an hour, in my opinion it never lasts long enough, it's always so much fun.
06/02/2013
karenm karenm
Usually around 10-15 minutes.
06/02/2013
SecretKinksters SecretKinksters
Depends. Sometimes there is no foreplay, other times it could be an hour or more if we are roleplaying.
06/02/2013
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