How many is too many?

Contributor: RomanticGoth RomanticGoth
It doesn't matter as long as you have feelings for the person, right? And that they practise safe sex, of course.
03/17/2012
Contributor: Undead Undead
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Originally posted by ViVix
I recently was discussing with someone that at some point, you might reject a hookup or partner based on the amount of previous partners they've been with. How many people would someone have to be with before you would turn them down for sex?
more than 5...eh that's pushin it
03/17/2012
Contributor: Lover of Leather Lover of Leather
Numbers don't matter. She has had more than me, but no hang up here. She's with me now and that's all that matters.
03/17/2012
Contributor: Incendiaire Incendiaire
I'm not really bothered, unless it gets into the hundreds, and then I'd start wondering about it, but I don't ask these questions anyway.
03/17/2012
Contributor: sexystuffeve sexystuffeve
If it was someone I was very sexually attracted to, and had a crush on and I knew they where still safe to have sex with(no STD's or anything), I would go for it.
03/19/2012
Contributor: Apirka Apirka
I've been with around 30, and if someone else had that number, it wouldn't bother me. If it was much MUCH higher, we're talking over a hundred, then I'd reconsider.
03/27/2012
Contributor: tammyandy69 tammyandy69
Really what does it matter? Right here right now is all that matters. We all were something or did something else before we got to where we are now. As long as you play safe now, all the others do not matter. You are better of not talking about it if your a girl though, people still have hang ups about girls be sluts (said in a good way) plus guys will spend more time thinking about being the best fuck you ever had instead of being the a good lover to you now. Our egos are to frail for ""US"" to think that there might have been someone better ever.
04/20/2012
Contributor: tammyandy69 tammyandy69
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Originally posted by Pixel
If they have had safe sex with previous partners and not fluid bonded lightly, I would not reject someone just because they had above the 'normal' amount of partners before me.
What is normal amount?
04/20/2012
Contributor: tammyandy69 tammyandy69
I know a person (woman) that had sex with 17 people in one night. This was at a swingers party and she just split from her BF. I still think she is a great person, and would not rule her out for that night.
04/20/2012
Contributor: SMichelle SMichelle
My partners number does not bother me, as long as he is clean.
04/20/2012
Contributor: Undecided Undecided
I wouldn't reject someone cause of the number I mean if they are clean then I go with it
07/02/2012
Contributor: Burn Burn
I think after it hit the double digits I'd be uncomfortable.. I'm too jealous, lol.
07/03/2012
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by ViVix
I recently was discussing with someone that at some point, you might reject a hookup or partner based on the amount of previous partners they've been with. How many people would someone have to be with before you would turn them down for sex?
I'm not sure the number of partners says anything about the person, really. I know a guy who is very happily married and manogomous, and was a real "player" in college...with probably two girls a week for four years.

I also know a girl who is AMAZINGLY shy and reserved but went a bit "wild" in Cancun years ago (early period of "spring break" and PRE AIDS), and she went to TWO real "orgies" on a week long drinking/sexing binge. She KNOWS she was "screwed" (her word) at least two dozen guys at EACH party and "sucked off" at least that many again. She also had never done anal prior to that, but with some alcohol in her, had three guys penetrate and cum in her anally (at least) during that week......once as part of a sex oreo, where she had a guy in her rear, one in her vagina and was sucking off a third...just like in the movies, only it was VERY real. However to meet this lady...even then, you would think her a "school marm" in the making. Quiet, reserved and NOT a wild thing (although she DID get on Birth Control before any of us other girls???). Hummm.

Anyway, the bottom line is that the number of lovers does not speak to who or what that person is, so NO, I would never hold that against them. I might worry if a grown guy was still a virgin, actually.
07/03/2012
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by SMichelle
My partners number does not bother me, as long as he is clean.
BINGO
07/03/2012