I have been with 8 people total. My current partner is my number 8!
I don't think it's okay that society teaches women to be modest when it comes to sex but it's alright for men to sleep with as many people as possible. I think women got the short end of the stick there.
I've been with more people sexually than my current partner and he also lost his virginity later in life than I did. He's just not a very sexual person so it makes sense that I'm like number 3 or 4 for him.