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After having a child my sex life took a plunge... we only have sex about once or twice a day and even that's a stretch.... I'm curious about other people who have kids, how they make it work and have time for a love life?
I think you're doing fine. It's not the quantity, it's the quality. And remember, all your sex doesn't have to be partnersex. It's perfectly fine for each of you to masturbate to find some release. You can leave each other sexy notes or e-mails, phone calls, or even watch each other. Get creative and don't be afraid to be spontaneous.