How many times (on average) do you like to get off before you call it quits?

Contributor: Nazaress Nazaress 02/27/2012

When you're having fun (both solo and with a partner), how many times (on average) do you like to climax before you can happily finish? I'm asking what is the bare minimum that you have to get off to feel satisfied. Obviously, we would like to get off many times but what is the minimum number (on average) that you have to get off to be really happy?

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Contributor: Nazaress Nazaress
This number is on average and only for solo play. (Private voting, just in case)
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
67  (57%)
19  (16%)
22  (19%)
3  (3%)
1  (1%)
4  (3%)
1  (1%)
1  (1%)
Total votes: 118
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Contributor: Nazaress Nazaress
When I'm using a toy, I like to get off at least twice or else I feel like I dragged the thing out and have to clean it up for practically nothing. I'm lazy, I guess you could say, so I usually need at least two orgasms to feel like it was worth all the effort.
02/27/2012
Contributor: Greenleaf Greenleaf
I don't really have a set number, but three is an average stopping point.
02/27/2012
Contributor: xoxo xoxo
3 is the charm
02/27/2012
Contributor: SiNn SiNn
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im good with once
02/27/2012
Contributor: SiNn SiNn
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at least 5 times but with us when we make love we pull allnighters
02/27/2012
Contributor: js250 js250
Solo about three. I save it for our play.
02/27/2012
Contributor: indiglo indiglo
I am honestly happy with 1, but it's usually 3 these days. After the first one, the rest just seem to come so easily, so why not keep going?
02/27/2012
Contributor: AJvil AJvil
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one
02/28/2012
Contributor: Undead Undead
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One OR two
02/28/2012
Contributor: DiamondKoala DiamondKoala
Depends on what I've got going on for the rest of my day, but usually three times is a good average I suppose.
02/28/2012
Contributor: BlooJay BlooJay
one
02/28/2012
Contributor: Zombirella Zombirella
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Solo 2 or 3
02/28/2012
Contributor: LusciousLollypop LusciousLollypop
Okay.. I am the only one that picked 4 times or more. I like to take the first two orgasms slow and teasingly. then.. EXPLOSION. the next two are quick and franctic because i feel like my heart is beating out of my chest but i want one or two more. after that.. time for bed. sleep. goodnight. LOL. in my opinion, 4 is a good number. it may be a lot for people, but solo.. definitely four and no less.
02/28/2012
Contributor: ksparkles16 ksparkles16
one and done for me!
02/28/2012
Contributor: unfulfilled unfulfilled
1 and I'm done. I haven't been able to get over the tickleish feeling to be able to stand a toy on me after I've had one.
02/28/2012
Contributor: - Kira - - Kira -
By myself, just once. It takes me longer to cum on my own than it does during sex for some reason. The orgasm tends to be stronger, but it takes forever to get there. After one, I'm pretty much exhausted.
02/28/2012
Contributor: Nazaress Nazaress
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1 and I'm done. I haven't been able to get over the tickleish feeling to be able to stand a toy on me after I've had one.
I'm really sensitive right after so I back off for a few moments and then I'm usually okay.
02/28/2012
Contributor: DreamWolf DreamWolf
Whenever I can afford to do so I never stop until I have got 4 full pleasure peaks, simply because 4 of them produce as much endorphins as 1 done with someone, but I noticed that I prefer to go on and on until I really can't manage more anymore, which is about 6 or even more sometimes, very often 8, 9, even 12, oh my! ^^ ~blushes
02/28/2012
Contributor: richsam richsam
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1 and Done
03/12/2012
Contributor: NarcissisticLust NarcissisticLust
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Solo three, partner one
03/12/2012
Contributor: GO GO
one!
03/12/2012
Contributor: Positwist Positwist
I'm never satisfied with just one, and I can't stop at two because... Iunno, rule of threes?
03/12/2012
Contributor: RomanticGoth RomanticGoth
Two or three usually. One would just make me feel lazy.
03/13/2012
Contributor: ViVix ViVix
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1 and I call it "the snooze button"
03/14/2012
Contributor: ellejay ellejay
Two or three.
03/14/2012
Contributor: leelee leelee
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I'm good with once
03/18/2012
Contributor: Rahel Rahel
I'm trying to train myself to have multiple orgasms, but I can't do more than a couple yet
03/20/2012
Contributor: Do emu Do emu
1 unless I'm feeling extra special. I'm lazy!
04/05/2012
Contributor: <3BF <3BF
one is usually plenty for both of us.
04/06/2012
Contributor: Sexy Housewife Sexy Housewife
How do you get more than one????
04/06/2012
Contributor: Beck Beck
I go for 3 or more. I need to come and once I get there I am always like one more, one more, ONE MORE!!!!
04/07/2012
Contributor: WhoopieDoo WhoopieDoo
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I go for 3 or more. I need to come and once I get there I am always like one more, one more, ONE MORE!!!!
Lol, I'm the same way. Orgasms are like potato chips
04/07/2012
Contributor: Geogeo Geogeo
Im jealous of you all and your multiple orgasms!
04/07/2012
Contributor: Vegan Silk Vegan Silk
I usually come quite a few times. With the right toy it doesn't take long for each. so I might as well. Though with hi powered vibrators you have to be careful you might over do it.

It also depends on the orgasm. occasionally OI get really sensitive and have to stop for a while before I can go again.
04/07/2012
Contributor: vanilla&chocolate vanilla&chocolate
3 orgasms is great for me! However, immediately after the first one, I have to keep going for the 2nd and 3rd ones, or I can't orgasm anymore.
04/07/2012
Contributor: PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
For solo, probably 2 or 3...on average
04/07/2012
Contributor: cottonxcandy cottonxcandy
At least 5!
04/10/2012
Contributor: kittycatgirl kittycatgirl
Once if I'm with my partner, 2 or 3 if I'm going solo!
04/10/2012
Contributor: kdlt kdlt
Twice, at least!
02/09/2013
Contributor: Lildrummrgurl7 Lildrummrgurl7
Two or three, usually.
02/09/2013
Contributor: Bethy Cassatt Bethy Cassatt
One leads to three or four, so, eh. Once in spirit. Three times in reality.
02/09/2013
Contributor: Zandrock Zandrock
Once. Sometimes twice
02/10/2013
Contributor: TJtheMadHatter TJtheMadHatter
If it's clitoral, just once. If I'm bringing dildos into the mix, a couple of times. It all depends on if I'm going for a quickie, or I'm there to take my time.
02/22/2013
Contributor: gsfanatic gsfanatic
Once for me, usually 2 or 3 with a partner
02/25/2013
Contributor: XxFallenAngelxX XxFallenAngelxX
Mine are so intense that 1 is enough for a few minutes.
02/26/2013
Contributor: chicmichiw chicmichiw
One or two...It takes too long to go for more
02/26/2013
Contributor: Nazaress Nazaress
This number is on average and only for couple play. (Private voting, just in case)
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
28  (41%)
19  (28%)
5  (7%)
1  (1%)
1  (1%)
9  (13%)
2  (3%)
4  (6%)
Total votes: 69
Poll is open
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Contributor: Nazaress Nazaress
My boyfriend and I don't make love as often as I'd like so I usually want to get off at least twice to be completely happy with the encounter. If I get off once, I'm happy, but I'm more happy when I get off at least twice. It helps that he also likes to get me off as many times as he can before we finish. It helps him as much as it pleases me.
02/27/2012
Contributor: hippie hippie
My boyfriend and I have quite a bit of sex, and it just usually ends with more than once.
02/27/2012
Contributor: calliope calliope
IF I come it's only once
02/27/2012
Contributor: Undead Undead
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2 is good
02/28/2012
Contributor: BlooJay BlooJay
One, maybe 2
02/28/2012
Contributor: Zombirella Zombirella
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2 because I get sensitive after awhile and the second time he takes FOREVER to get off! If we take a break 3 times is ok.
02/28/2012
Contributor: dbm6907 dbm6907
1 and done for both situations. We have sex at night and want to get some sleep afterwards
02/28/2012
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
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Originally posted by Nazaress
This number is on average and only for couple play. (Private voting, just in case)
When I am alone I find one and done is usually my style, I guess you'd say but with either partner I am multi orgasmic. I'm not really sure why but I think it has to do with the different types of orgasm I am able to experience with a partner. When I am solo I tend to go for the goal, so to speak, and am fairly satisfied...for a bit.
02/28/2012
Contributor: unfulfilled unfulfilled
I'm always left alone to finish after he's done so my one is still the same answer.
02/28/2012
Contributor: - Kira - - Kira -
I can cum almost every two or three minutes (sometimes less) during sex. So I expect to cum more than five times. I've never counted out how many before I say "yeah, I'm good - just waiting on you now." I know it's more than five.
02/28/2012
Contributor: quinceykay quinceykay
Usually just once is fine.
02/28/2012
Contributor: TameTemptress TameTemptress
Just once works for me. If I try to keep going after one it can be really uncomfortable.
02/28/2012
Contributor: Nazaress Nazaress
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I'm always left alone to finish after he's done so my one is still the same answer.
I'm sorry that happens for you.

@ Kira: Wow! I think three is probably a record for me when we're not "aiming" for anything, you know? Like, he can make me go more but if it's just regular sex, it only happens two or maybe three times. That's pretty impressive!
02/28/2012
Contributor: Gracie Gracie
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I'm always left alone to finish after he's done so my one is still the same answer.
I am sad for you. I hope that changes soon!
02/28/2012
Contributor: DreamWolf DreamWolf
2 would be a "required minimum" if I didn't pay all that much attention to my Master's Comfort of being fine with 1 only, so I better say that I have to be ok with it, then I often just go on by myself, but always in my life when I was with someone I preferred to get my "load" of 2 and rather 3 whenever there was a chance, and even more of course if possible! ^^ ~lays ears blushy
02/28/2012
Contributor: richsam richsam
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1 and Done
03/12/2012
Contributor: Positwist Positwist
My current partner and I marathon like we're trying to prove something. It's tough to say how many times I get off, though. It's just a big sexy blur.
03/12/2012
Contributor: ellejay ellejay
Usually one and done. He goes at it rougher than I do so I can usually only handle one.
03/14/2012
Contributor: goofballmaster goofballmaster
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Keep on going until both of you are completely exhausted.
03/19/2012
Contributor: Sexy Housewife Sexy Housewife
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normally it's just one. only probably twice have a O'ed more than once. VERY rare. I wish i could keep going but i get exhausted, touched out and too sensitive

How do people have more than one?

I think my problem is i can ONLY O ontop with proper clit pressure/rubbing. I wish i could O from penetration alone
04/06/2012
Contributor: ViVix ViVix
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I'd like to go twice a day, but usually we don't have time.
04/07/2012
Contributor: Vegan Silk Vegan Silk
It depends on the guy. I had one where I was coming 4 time in night. with another, sex was always a struggle for us. I'm hoping my next man will by more like the former.
04/07/2012
Contributor: StarFire StarFire
Foreplay included its normally twice but thats not always the case but my fience is normally pretty good about making sure I'm not left wanting more one way or another
04/10/2012
Contributor: Bubba29 Bubba29
i am a guy so 1 and done in my case for both. i am so jealous of you ladies and your multiple orgasms. does that make up for periods and giving birth?
02/09/2013
Contributor: kdlt kdlt
I'm lucky if I can even get off once with a partner if my vibe isn't within reach so I'd say "one and done"!
02/09/2013
Contributor: Bethy Cassatt Bethy Cassatt
Infinity. If he's willing to keep going, I'm down.
02/09/2013
Contributor: TJtheMadHatter TJtheMadHatter
If I don't get my 3 orgasms in, I'm left wanting. He makes me cum HARD at 3+. I love it when I have trouble moving afterwards.
02/22/2013