no matter what you "normal" style is, how often do you change things? lets say positions or toys, or rolls. if you are a dom do you ever turn sub? if doggie style is your fave do you ever do backwards cowgirl? and how open to change is your partner? do you ask first? or just do it?
how often do you change things up?
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We try to usually change things up pretty often. Sometimes we just have a "sweet fuck" where we just have a little oral, and screw until he comes, or I have a G Spot orgasm, too. Especially if we had a wild time the night before or the morning before, and I don't need a LOT of attention myself.
As for changing up the Power Dynamic, no. I Top from the Bottom a lot. (kinda let him know what I want to do, although he gets pretty inventive without any input from me and I get Bratty to egg him on) but I never actively Top him. Ever. It's just not our thing.
But, we try new toys, new places, new positions (sort of, I think we've done them all and made up a few of our own, we've been at it so long) It's fun to do new things. But, some times (like this morning, after a really wild night the night before) we just have "Comfort Sex." That's in a way, changing it up.
As for changing up the Power Dynamic, no. I Top from the Bottom a lot. (kinda let him know what I want to do, although he gets pretty inventive without any input from me and I get Bratty to egg him on) but I never actively Top him. Ever. It's just not our thing.
But, we try new toys, new places, new positions (sort of, I think we've done them all and made up a few of our own, we've been at it so long) It's fun to do new things. But, some times (like this morning, after a really wild night the night before) we just have "Comfort Sex." That's in a way, changing it up.
09/09/2010
Change-up is a must. Whatever worked recently I catalog - but try to avoid repeating too soon. It's more fun - and more successful to mix it up. We have a dozen+ toys, Liberator gear, various lingerie and there are always positions to change.
09/09/2010
We're always switching it up. We might have our favorites but we have different positions we use, different orders of things, different techniques, different toys, etc. No two sessions are ever the same. They're like snowflakes! LOL
09/09/2010
We definitely have our favorites but at least every few times we'll change it up with something we don't usually do.
09/09/2010
Quite often we change it up. I don't like the same thing every time so while we usually start off the same I always try to finish a different way. Lately we have been finishing with different toys, which we have not done much before.
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