When we first discovered EF and toys - it was a LOT...like twice a day (largely because I needed it after years of feast or famine). I worried about what it would be like when things settled down - would we go back to our old routine of once a week maybe - or what?
Now - after almost 2 months - it is about 2-3 times per week - maybe more - maybe less. We might have sex every day for 3 or 4 days and then take 3 days off cause we're tired or whatever.
I will say that now our sex life is such that we're more open to saying to each other "hey...I need some....how about tonight?" (usually before he heads out the door to work).
I think the neat thing is that we can at least talk about it more openly now and communicate our wants better.