How often do you have sex?

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How often do you have sex?

Cherry21 Cherry21
I was wondering how often other married couples have sex. We've all read the estimates and whatever. But how often are we actually doing it? lol
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
once a day
JDear
1
2x a day or more
Subbi , potstickers
2
once or twice a week
Kimmie1980ca , poetprincess , ToyGurl , Ryuson , ellejay , Diabolical Kitty , Kitka , Airen Wolf , Bonesdance
9
only on the weekends
Ryuson , jakjak , Kitka
3
2 or 3 times a week
Gunsmoke , Lummox , Coralbell , Drakoni , Kitka , bayosgirl
6
3 or 4 x a week
- Kira - , mpfm , CreamySweet , Bignuf , Coralbell , married with children , Drakoni , Kitka , LAndJ
9
once every day, no matter what
varies depepnding on schedule
Alan & Michele , - Kira - , 12345678 , Hot 'N Sexy TexasMama , Bignuf , Coralbell , WierdAl , SexyTabby , unfulfilled , JDear , Diabolical Kitty , Nora , darthkitt3n , Eucaly , Bonesdance
15
Total votes: 45 (33 voters)
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11/18/2011
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Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
After 22 years of marriage I can say the it has varied all over them map. For the longest time 2-3x month was a lot, but my gal has finally embraced sex as a positive thing not an obligation. I just wish it hadn't taken her 15 years to get there.

I love reading from the younger women on EF how they are embracing their sexuality in their 20s - it's probably the healthiest thing you and your partner can do for one another!

Enjoy
11/18/2011
Kimmie1980ca Kimmie1980ca
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Originally posted by Cherry21
I was wondering how often other married couples have sex. We've all read the estimates and whatever. But how often are we actually doing it? lol
I wish it was more, but fiance isn't living here yet. Hopefully once he moves in it will be every day!
11/18/2011
poetprincess poetprincess
Quote:
Originally posted by Cherry21
I was wondering how often other married couples have sex. We've all read the estimates and whatever. But how often are we actually doing it? lol
If I was married to my boyfriend we would have it every night, But we are not married even after 4 years and we still do not live together..
11/18/2011
- Kira - - Kira -
Usually 5-6 times a week, but there was no option for that. I went with the closest one. It does vary depending on what's going on. If we're both really tired or sick or something it could be less.
11/18/2011
Hot 'N Sexy TexasMama Hot 'N Sexy TexasMama
When we first discovered EF and toys - it was a LOT...like twice a day (largely because I needed it after years of feast or famine). I worried about what it would be like when things settled down - would we go back to our old routine of once a week maybe - or what?

Now - after almost 2 months - it is about 2-3 times per week - maybe more - maybe less. We might have sex every day for 3 or 4 days and then take 3 days off cause we're tired or whatever.

I will say that now our sex life is such that we're more open to saying to each other "hey...I need some....how about tonight?" (usually before he heads out the door to work).

I think the neat thing is that we can at least talk about it more openly now and communicate our wants better.
11/18/2011
Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by Cherry21
I was wondering how often other married couples have sex. We've all read the estimates and whatever. But how often are we actually doing it? lol
We were trying the "sex 365" where you "do it" regardless of mood, or anything else, once a day, to enhance intimacy in marriage. Lasted about three months. Wore us out more then helped our already great relationship....and LIFE (lack of sleep), and TIME (lack of sleep...and commitments) got in the way. One of us getting a six day FLU, and then the other getting to flu as the one was recovering, put a stop to that whole plan. It was TWO WEEKS with no sex...and honestly, NEITHER OF US missed it for those two, horrible, weeks. LOVE meant getting the other some tea with lemon, not a romp in the sex swing!!!!!!
11/18/2011
Coralbell Coralbell
It varies a lot. I'd say we have sex 4-8 times a week on average. We don't live together and spend a few days a week together, but we usually have sex 2 times a day when we are together. Sometimes when we're both really busy we only get to see each other once a week.
11/18/2011
ToyGurl ToyGurl
It varies, but probably once or twice a week. Things have changed a lot, and it's gone from fucking like rabbits to a steady, expected friday/saturday sessions lol
11/18/2011
Cherry21 Cherry21
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Originally posted by Hot 'N Sexy TexasMama
When we first discovered EF and toys - it was a LOT...like twice a day (largely because I needed it after years of feast or famine). I worried about what it would be like when things settled down - would we go back to our old routine of once a week ...
can definitely help with that!
Thats great!
11/18/2011
Cherry21 Cherry21
Quote:
Originally posted by Bignuf
We were trying the "sex 365" where you "do it" regardless of mood, or anything else, once a day, to enhance intimacy in marriage. Lasted about three months. Wore us out more then helped our already great relationship....and LIFE ...
I had heard of that sex 365 thing. Thought of trying it, then figured it'd do the same thing to us, and it seems like it would take the spontaneous act out of it all.
11/18/2011
WierdAl WierdAl
Quote:
Originally posted by Cherry21
I was wondering how often other married couples have sex. We've all read the estimates and whatever. But how often are we actually doing it? lol
As often as possible, kids and schedules are hetic.
11/18/2011
Cherry21 Cherry21
Awesome! thanks for the answers and the votes! So, we pretty much all have sex lots!
11/20/2011
Art & Sensation Art & Sensation
Almost never, actually. It's kind of an aspect of a long distance relationship. ):

When we are together though, it can lead up to twice a day; but I'd go with 4-6x a week aswell.
11/20/2011
unfulfilled unfulfilled
We've been married for 8 years and we don't have a set schedule every week, but we try to be intimate often. He's been sick for 2 weeks so it hasn't been that much lately, but that's abnormal and due to circumstance.
11/20/2011
Diabolical Kitty Diabolical Kitty
It all depends on things, but usually not more than once or twice a week.
11/21/2011
Kitka Kitka
It depends on a lot of things, but mostly it's about 2-3 times average a week. Sometimes more, sometimes less depending.
11/21/2011
bayosgirl bayosgirl
About twice a week but I'd like it to be more.
11/21/2011
Eucaly Eucaly
Highly, highly variable. Five times a day and once a month are both schedules that have happened.
11/22/2011
LAndJ LAndJ
Three to four times a week, sometimes more, but it's not always penetrative sex.
11/28/2011
Bonesdance Bonesdance
I'd say my wife and I average about once a week; I'd like to do it significantly more often, but c'est la vie.
11/28/2011
Total posts: 21
Unique posters: 18