How okay are you with a partner proposing a threesome?

pandasauce pandasauce
I am curious about how each gender and sexuality looks at this question. If your partner proposed a threesome with you two and either a man or a woman, how would you respond?

Please pick two answers in your gender/sexuality, one for a threesome with an extra man and one for a threesome with an extra woman. (There is a category for straight women, straight men, gay women, gay men, bi women, bi men and "other" so I think everyone should be covered)
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
I am a straight woman and I would be okay with my partner proposing a threesome with us and a man.
11
I am a straight woman and I would be okay with my partner proposing a threesome with us and a woman.
8
I am a straight woman and I would not be okay with my partner proposing a threesome with us and a man.
6
I am a straight woman and I would not be okay with my partner proposing a threesome with us and a woman.
13
I am a straight woman and it depends on the man.
7
I am a straight woman and it depends on the woman.
4
I am a straight man and I would be okay with my partner proposing a threesome with us and a man.
3
I am a straight man and I would be okay with my partner proposing a threesome with us and a woman.
5
I am a straight man and I would not be okay with my partner proposing a threesome with us and a man.
4
I am a straight man and I would not be okay with my partner proposing a threesome with us and a woman.
3
I am a straight man and it depends on the man.
1
I am a straight man and it depends on the woman.
I am a bisexual woman and I would be okay with my partner proposing a threesome with us and a man.
4
I am a bisexual woman and I would be okay with my partner proposing a threesome with us and a woman.
4
I am a bisexual woman and I would not be okay with my partner proposing a threesome with us and a man.
I am a bisexual woman and I would not be okay with my partner proposing a threesome with us and a woman.
I am a bisexual woman and it depends on the man.
1
I am a bisexual woman and it depends on the woman.
2
I am a bisexual man and I would be okay with my partner proposing a threesome with us and a man.
I am a bisexual man and I would be okay with my partner proposing a threesome with us and a woman.
I am a bisexual man and I would not be okay with my partner proposing a threesome with us and a man.
1
I am a bisexual man and I would not be okay with my partner proposing a threesome with us and a woman.
1
I am a bisexual man and it depends on the man.
I am a bisexual man and it depends on the woman.
I am a gay woman and I would be okay with my partner proposing a threesome with us and a man.
I am a gay woman and I would be okay with my partner proposing a threesome with us and a woman.
I am a gay woman and I would not be okay with my partner proposing a threesome with us and a man.
I am a gay woman and I would not be okay with my partner proposing a threesome with us and a woman.
I am a gay woman and it would depend on the man.
I am a gay woman and it would depend on the woman.
I am a gay man and I would be okay with my partner proposing a threesome with us and a man.
I am a gay man and I would be okay with my partner proposing a threesome with us and a woman.
I am a gay man and I would not be okay with my partner proposing a threesome with us and a man.
I am a gay man and I would not be okay with my partner proposing a threesome with us and a woman.
I am a gay man and it would depend on the man.
I am a gay man and it would depend on the woman.
I am some other gender/sexuality and I would be okay with my partner proposing a threesome with us and a man.
2
I am some other gender/sexuality and I would be okay with my partner proposing a threesome with us and a woman.
1
I am some other gender/sexuality and I would not be okay with my partner proposing a threesome with us and a man.
I am some other gender/sexuality and I would not be okay with my partner proposing a threesome with us and a woman.
I am some other gender/sexuality and it would depend on the man.
4
I am some other gender/sexuality and it would depend on the woman.
5
Total votes: 90 (43 voters)
Poll is closed
12/01/2012
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panthercat23 panthercat23
We have had threesomes in the past which he proposed. Though they only happen if I approve of the individual.
12/01/2012
Beck Beck
I went ahead and voted that I was a straight women because my relationship is a heterosexual one. I should have voted for the some other option. Anyhow, it wouldn't matter to me what the sex of the third was, I would be open to it depending on the person.

Though, I think that if a threesome is going to happen in our relationship....it' ;s gonna be someone I pick.

I don't think anyone should take offense to their partner asking them to fulfill a fantasy. Granted the fantasy isn't unlawful.
12/01/2012
Hallmar82 Hallmar82
Quote:
Originally posted by pandasauce
I am curious about how each gender and sexuality looks at this question. If your partner proposed a threesome with you two and either a man or a woman, how would you respond?

Please pick two answers in your gender/sexuality, one for a ... More
I doubt my wife would propose either but I would certainly listen to whatever she's interested in.
12/01/2012
Sinfully Sinfully
I am bisexual and I would be ok with this. Man or woman, doesn't matter to me.
12/01/2012
Nurse Katie Nurse Katie
Quote:
Originally posted by pandasauce
I am curious about how each gender and sexuality looks at this question. If your partner proposed a threesome with you two and either a man or a woman, how would you respond?

Please pick two answers in your gender/sexuality, one for a ... More
I'm up for threesomes either way, as long as I get to help pick out the person
12/01/2012
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Quote:
Originally posted by Hallmar82
I doubt my wife would propose either but I would certainly listen to whatever she's interested in.
I voted against any type 3-some mostly because like you, my wife would not typically be interested. However as you say, if she did, I would listen.
12/02/2012
KinkyNicki92 KinkyNicki92
Im too jealous for another woman to be on my fiance
12/02/2012
invisiblehat invisiblehat
I'd be okay with it as long as I get to approve the person.
12/02/2012
Beautiful-Disaster Beautiful-Disaster
I wouldnt be okay with it... at all.
12/02/2012
SiNn SiNn
Quote:
Originally posted by pandasauce
I am curious about how each gender and sexuality looks at this question. If your partner proposed a threesome with you two and either a man or a woman, how would you respond?

Please pick two answers in your gender/sexuality, one for a ... More
im bisexual and im down with threesomes and all depends on the other person
12/02/2012
naturegirl naturegirl
I consider myself straight though I have dabbled with my own gender, so I voted as a straight person. We have had both MFM and FMF threesomes, both permutations were good in their own way, but from my point of view I found the MFM act more satisfying.
12/02/2012
PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
I'm a straight woman and I wouldn't be okay with either.
12/02/2012
Taylor Taylor
They can propose whatever they want, but I'm not going to agree to it. I've had a threesome before and it was a terrible experience for me, and not something I wish to try again.
12/02/2012
bayosgirl bayosgirl
Straight woman, would NOT be ok with any kind of a threesome between myself, husband and any other person. Our sex life is for us alone. I'm glad he agrees with me on this.
12/02/2012
ne1469694u ne1469694u
Quote:
Originally posted by pandasauce
I am curious about how each gender and sexuality looks at this question. If your partner proposed a threesome with you two and either a man or a woman, how would you respond?

Please pick two answers in your gender/sexuality, one for a ... More
nice as olng as its girl girl guy
12/03/2012
ShadowedSeductress ShadowedSeductress
Quote:
Originally posted by PropertyOfPotter
I'm a straight woman and I wouldn't be okay with either.
I'm with you on this one.
12/03/2012
DrowsRose DrowsRose
I would not be ok with it
12/03/2012
Moniqua Moniqua
I wouldn't be ok with either.
12/03/2012
kev kev
Okay, as long as the other one is not a man. That would be quite a turn off.
12/04/2012
pandasauce pandasauce
The reason I brought this up was that my partner recently proposed a threesome with us and a man, which I thought was interesting (as a straight female). Up to this point, all of my male partners have been really adamant about turning down my fantasy of bringing a guy into the bedroom, even to the point of being rude about it.
12/05/2012
Martiniman Martiniman
Where we are with this topic, I'd be ok with certain suggestions while not so much with others, but this has been put to bed and I'd really be shocked for her to suggest it.
12/05/2012
Beaners Beaners
I'm okay with him suggesting anything. Following through with it is another thing. Har har!
12/09/2012
travelnurse travelnurse
My husband cannot keep up with me so him suggesting a three some would definitely be a laughable matter.
12/09/2012
hanjonatan hanjonatan
i would never want to have a threesome regardless of who it was with.
12/09/2012
gloomybear gloomybear
we had a friend who wanted to participate in a threesome with my bf and i but he did not ask either of us instead he touched me inappropraitely and my bf kicked him out and hasnt talked to him since
12/09/2012
Total posts: 26
Unique posters: 25