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Does that actually work? I feel like wine would put me to sleep.
Drinking too much can put me in the mood, but a drink or two will put me to sleep.
I find that masturbation helps a lot! When women masturbate, it brings blood flow TO the sexual organs, whereas after men ejaculate, blood flow LEAVES the sexual organs.
I also find that discussing fantasies, reading erotic fiction (by yourself or to each other), or watching a sexy movie can help (doesn't have to be porn, I like erotic stuff more than straight up pornography).