How well do you know the people you've been with?

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How well do you know the people you've been with?

ViVix ViVix
Just some questions to gauge how well you know your sexual partners...
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I know if my partners have been tested.
16
I know all of my partners first and last names.
32
I know all of my partners ages.
28
I have known all of my partners for at least a month before sleeping with them.
23
I haven't known all of my partners that well!
10
Other. Explain.
10
Total votes: 119 (51 voters)
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03/14/2012
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ViVix ViVix
Oh...and for the sake of honesty, I will say that I haven't known all of my partners that well! However, I have been tested.
03/14/2012
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Monogamous for 22+ years
03/14/2012
underHim underHim
Monogamous, he is the only one I have every been with
03/14/2012
El-Jaro El-Jaro
I've always made it a point to remember their names at least...for a couple years. Thinking back, some names are really fuzzy for me.
03/14/2012
Beck Beck
There is one guy that I don't know his last name, but I do know that if I needed to contact him, that I could easily find out his name through his cousin. He might have the same last name as his cousin, but maybe not. I never asked. There rest of my partners I knew very well. I had known most of them since elementary school. I never asked if my partners were tested, but I did always use protection until my hubby. I got tested regularly at family planning though.
03/14/2012
Jul!a Jul!a
I've known all of them very well before having sex with them, and I knew if they had been tested, but we used protection anyway.
03/14/2012
BobbiJay BobbiJay
I knew most of them very well and are still friends with most of them. I would say I didn't know 1-2 of them that well. I have only had 6 partners in the past 10 years.
03/14/2012
godweensatan godweensatan
i'm a total slut, its a miracle my last test was negative. hahahah
03/14/2012
InnocentISwear InnocentISwear
I'm the type who really has to know/like a person before I want to have sex with them. That emotional friendship connection makes it so much better for me.

Maybe I'm saying this because I've never had a random fling. It's on the list.
03/14/2012
PeaceToTheMiddleEast PeaceToTheMiddleEast
I have known them well. As for being tested I used protection and always get tested myself. Before I sleep with anyone it will be months anyways.
03/14/2012
Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
Quote:
Originally posted by ViVix
Just some questions to gauge how well you know your sexual partners...
I take a long time to get to know my sex partners...and I tend to know them quite well before anything happens. I know their health status, first and last names and have usually met their parents!
03/14/2012
K101 K101
Quote:
Originally posted by ViVix
Just some questions to gauge how well you know your sexual partners...
Puh-lease! I know about 40 of my partners first names and that's about it. Ha Ha! Only kidding, I swear! Lol. I've actually been with my partner (we are monogamous) for 5 years and we've both been tested. I get tested yearly and my last test for all std's and HIV was only last month. He has been tested, but not as frequently as me. Mine come with my annual breast and pap exam and I always say yes to the HIV test although my GYN says I'm not "high risk" so they wouldn't test me except if I request it. I just like reassurance although neither of us have "strayed" and I'm sure of that. I know his name, birth date and about everything about him and his family. I know his age and all that good stuff.

I will admit... we weren't together for a whole month... or even a whole 24 hours before we did the dirty. Lol.
03/14/2012
aliceinthehole aliceinthehole
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Originally posted by El-Jaro
I've always made it a point to remember their names at least...for a couple years. Thinking back, some names are really fuzzy for me.
Loo. I second this.
03/14/2012
aliceinthehole aliceinthehole
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Originally posted by godweensatan
i'm a total slut, its a miracle my last test was negative. hahahah
Lmao. Same here, if we're being completely honest.
03/14/2012
DreamWolf DreamWolf
Oh my, those old wild days...!!! Don't even ask, you can already imagine the details! ~lol ^^ ~lays ears blushin cute as hell
03/14/2012
Eliyahu Eliyahu
I've known most all of my past partners reasonably well beforehand, but there were a few that I most certaintly did not know more than a first name, which I promptly forgot.
03/15/2012
Pixel Pixel
Quote:
Originally posted by Eliyahu
I've known most all of my past partners reasonably well beforehand, but there were a few that I most certaintly did not know more than a first name, which I promptly forgot.
Pretty much this. I prefer emotional attachments, but up until this season, I used to have a "Faire Fling" once a year at the Renaissance Faires I worked at. Some of those partners, I would only know by their Faire names. *shrugs* I always used protection, and didn't exchange any sort of bodily fluid (and that includes open mouthed kissing).

With someone I want to have a long term relationship and fluid bonding, I don't have sex with them until we have both been tested.
03/15/2012
MissCandyland MissCandyland
I've known them really well.
03/15/2012
cathy23 cathy23
Quote:
Originally posted by ViVix
Just some questions to gauge how well you know your sexual partners...
nowadays you have to know the person your with.
03/15/2012
BlooJay BlooJay
Haven't been with many girls, but I've known them really well. I was always friends with them first.
03/15/2012
Ilovelingerie Ilovelingerie
I have only been with my fiance and he's only been with me so we havent been tested, but I know all of those
03/15/2012
RomanticGoth RomanticGoth
Eh.... I don't know most of their names. But, I only have one guy now. I get tested regularly. So...
03/15/2012
unfulfilled unfulfilled
I know all that stuff about my partners.
03/15/2012
Incendiaire Incendiaire
I tend to know very little at the time.
03/17/2012
purple579 purple579
I know all the guys I've slept with very well for a long time.
03/18/2012
plaidvulva plaidvulva
We've both been checked since we've been together :3
03/18/2012
leelee leelee
Quote:
Originally posted by ViVix
Just some questions to gauge how well you know your sexual partners...
I've only been with my husband and he's only been with me. We were together for a long time before we did anything.
03/18/2012
goofballmaster goofballmaster
Quote:
Originally posted by ViVix
Just some questions to gauge how well you know your sexual partners...
We've been going for 4 and a half years, so we know eachother very well.
03/19/2012
tinadice tinadice
Quote:
Originally posted by ViVix
Just some questions to gauge how well you know your sexual partners...
I've known all of them very well before having sex with them
03/19/2012
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