I had one of the most terrifying phone calls ever last week,,,,,,reality is setting in

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I had one of the most terrifying phone calls ever last week,,,,,,reality is setting in

usmcwife99 usmcwife99
I recently found out my husband is on his way home from Iraq with a few injuires. I talked to him and he has to be on bedrest(he can be home) for at least 6 weeks. So he hasnt gotten any in alsmot a year, and I want him in me just as much as he wants me.

Ive come to realize are sex life is going to change. Honestly ime just happy hes alive. I want it to bo good for him thoe, if ime gona do it hes gonna get it good lol. I could live without orgasms but I would love to get them if possible.

My four main problems are
-his left leg was recently removed at the knee, he lost his left arm from the shoulder down,his right wrist is broken, 3 broken ribs, and a few small cuts/bruizes(thank god thats all)
-I cant give oral, its an ugly sight
-its hard to make him cum on a good day when we can do anything, like 45 minutes at least
-common sense sais I wont be able to get top and bounce on broken ribs


Now for the question

How do I make him cum, what toys are good. I dont care how bad it is for me as long as he cums.

All I can think of is giving him a handjob and buying a toy for him. I just dont know how a handjobs gonna get him off, it takes alot for him. I dont mind a threesome with a "fuck buddy" and good friend Ile probably let her suck(he loves it)but the first few times I want it to be just me and him.

The more and more I think its not that much of a big deal if she does a little. I know he finds it really hot when we use a strap on with eachother, would getting him a fleshlight or masterbator of some and putting it on him(it would sort of have to sit there) and then go back an fourth from her sucking to me an her putting on a show. I dont like pussy, but Ile put up with it if it makes him happy.

What toys are good for me to use on him, rember hes not able to move much at first and cant stroke himself at all at least the first few weeks



9 days till ime alone with him again
07/15/2010
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Tuesday Tuesday
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Originally posted by usmcwife99
I recently found out my husband is on his way home from Iraq with a few injuires. I talked to him and he has to be on bedrest(he can be home) for at least 6 weeks. So he hasnt gotten any in alsmot a year, and I want him in me just as much as he wants ...
I'm sorry you have to go through this. At least he survived!

I don't have good suggestions since I've never had to deal with a similar situation. It seems to me that he may not be in the mood anyway for awhile with all those injuries. I doubt that's what I would want if I were in his situation. He has a lot to think about and adjust to.

Could you work on your blow job skills? There's always room for improvement. Someone assign her that blow job book! But then I don't know if he's too big to fit in your mouth well. That can make it difficult.
07/15/2010
~LaUr3n~ ~LaUr3n~
I think you need to worry about his recovery, not his sexual satisfaction because honestly...he probably won't be able to get off at or even be in the mood with traumatic injuries like that. If he can't stroke himself...he won't be able to have sex. There is no way. I wouldn't be using any toys on him and putting on a show where he can't get off is just cruel.

As for when he recovers...I would hope that he would want YOU, not a toy and I would just take it slow. I would lingerie instead of a toy if it were me. Maybe a military uniform of some sort. My guy really likes the new Tenga one shot sleeves though and he is not a sleeve guy-doesn't finish from them really. But that one he loved so if you really want a sleeve I would try a few variations.
07/15/2010
El-Jaro El-Jaro
I'm sorry to hear about your family tragedy! At least he's still alive!

I wouldn't worry about sex now, let that come later.

Good Luck to him and you.
07/15/2010
Alicia Alicia
I also wouldn't worry about sex right now, I'm thinking right now he needs companionship, support and non-sexual loving. Let him heal both mentally and physically and you can figure out the sex stuff later. I'd imagine after having all that happen he's not going to really be in the mood for sex..
07/15/2010
Carrie Ann Carrie Ann
Try cuddling up to him with a Tenga Egg. Seriously. It feels different than a hand, may make him orgasm more quickly and isn't all bulky and crazy looking like many male toys.
07/15/2010
Envy Envy
Personally if my guy was in combat and had that happen, sex would be the last thing on my mind completely, and I'd be too much a wreck to even think about it myself due to worrying over him.

Let him heal first and try to gain acceptance to these life changing injuries, then worry about the bed things later.
07/15/2010
usmcwife99 usmcwife99
Wow, going back and reading my last comment about nine days(well now 8) makes me sound desperate

LOL, let me just add I dont mean the first thing when we walks in the
door......obivsly it would be at least a few days....

"sex last thing on his mind" lol trust me his coment on the phone....lol lets just say he wants something before hes better
07/15/2010
Tuesday Tuesday
Quote:
Originally posted by usmcwife99
Wow, going back and reading my last comment about nine days(well now 8) makes me sound desperate

LOL, let me just add I dont mean the first thing when we walks in the
door......obivsly it would be at least a few days....

"sex ...
That's a good sign then. He can't be in too much pain and his spirits are good.
07/15/2010
usmcwife99 usmcwife99
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Originally posted by Tuesday
That's a good sign then. He can't be in too much pain and his spirits are good.
LOL, hes got alot of painkiller going through him

Luckily he doesnt rember what happened just waking up in a hospital so thats good for the most part...his memory of everything else appears to be good though. Only the roadside bomb is what he doesnt rember.
07/15/2010
PassionQT PassionQT
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Originally posted by ~LaUr3n~
I think you need to worry about his recovery, not his sexual satisfaction because honestly...he probably won't be able to get off at or even be in the mood with traumatic injuries like that. If he can't stroke himself...he won't be able ...
I completely agree with the other gals. Be intimate with him, but don't try to be too aggressive sexually until he lets you know he is ready to try something. And that may take a while, maybe not. Just be patient, compassionate, and supportive. And be prepared for plenty of frustration as the two of you try to figure out what works for you NOW, because what worked before may not apply anymore. Best of luck! So glad he is coming home! I have a brother over there now.
07/15/2010
usmcwife99 usmcwife99
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Originally posted by PassionQT
I completely agree with the other gals. Be intimate with him, but don't try to be too aggressive sexually until he lets you know he is ready to try something. And that may take a while, maybe not. Just be patient, compassionate, and supportive. ...
As I said earlier......I didnt mean like the minute he walks in the door. Were looking at atleast 3 months till he can move around freely, then who knows what from there

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Ime praying for your brother and his safe return, sometimes the hardest thing about the military is being married or lreated or just being friends with a soldier who is active duty combat
07/17/2010
usmcwife99 usmcwife99
Today I got a call from him. Hes gonna be in a hospital somewere in the states for another few days(ime not yet able to see him long story dont ask why). Without our conversation I was told "I cant tell you how bad I want you to tittuf*ck me, and handjob wouldnt be bad either" I then sorta laughed and later his coment was "its sexy when you lick (this is were he said our friends name) pussy" needless to say.....

And for the few who hoped for the best I want to add he should e ok, and prostetic arm and leg will be considered in a few monthes. Till then were blessed to be alive.
07/24/2010
MuffysPinguLove MuffysPinguLove
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Originally posted by usmcwife99
Today I got a call from him. Hes gonna be in a hospital somewere in the states for another few days(ime not yet able to see him long story dont ask why). Without our conversation I was told "I cant tell you how bad I want you to tittuf*ck me, ...
I'm so sorry that such a traumatic event has happened to you and your husband. I'm happy he's ok
07/24/2010
usmcwife99 usmcwife99
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Originally posted by MuffysPinguLove
I'm so sorry that such a traumatic event has happened to you and your husband. I'm happy he's ok
Dont be sorry, wele be ok. Just rember the fallen
07/24/2010
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